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Gautam1002 @Gautam1002 (730) • India 5 Feb 13

Hello fellow users, my recent discussion gave birth to something I am now really wanting to bring into your notice. I had a query over if I can decide who can read a discussion started by me. I could not find much regarding this...

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Gautam1002 I agree with you that if I need to post a matter that I want to share with some, I can message them directly. But what if I want to escape from some people seeing what I write or letting them know what views I have on some topic. With what I am telling you...

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Gautam1002 @Gautam1002 (730) • India 5 Feb 13

Hello mylotters, I wanted this query of mine to be sorted out. Please reply if you have any piece of information. I wanted to know, can I have a choice of choosing the readers of my discussion. If I do not want a particular post...

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Gautam1002 I am just putting my views in. Kindly do not see it as a crime. Even using the word "block" is being a bit rude for what I am suggesting. There are certain moments when you actually are hesitant to open up in front of some one but you are alright in discussing...

6 Feb 13

Gautam1002 @Gautam1002 (730) • India 5 Feb 13

Hello fellow users, my recent discussion gave birth to something I am now really wanting to bring into your notice. I had a query over if I can decide who can read a discussion started by me. I could not find much regarding this...

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Gautam1002 I am not making a point of not letting any random person read my post. I just want not to let some, yes some known people, who definitely are not my enemies, and are certainly not "blocked by me, as you all are terming it, forever. It is only for a particular...

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Gautam1002 @Gautam1002 (730) • India 5 Feb 13

Hello fellow users, my recent discussion gave birth to something I am now really wanting to bring into your notice. I had a query over if I can decide who can read a discussion started by me. I could not find much regarding this...

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Gautam1002 Now I didn't want to take this talk to a racial level where someone wouldn't just allow to see his discussion because he is from some other country or some other religion or whatever. I would question you, haven't you faced a situation in life time when you...

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Gautam1002 @Gautam1002 (730) • India 5 Feb 13

Hello fellow users, my recent discussion gave birth to something I am now really wanting to bring into your notice. I had a query over if I can decide who can read a discussion started by me. I could not find much regarding this...

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Gautam1002 Why is my advice compared to "block" on facebook? I hope you are reading all my above posts. My point only emphasizes the uncomfortability of the user. If he is not wanting some people on this globe to read what his views are on a certain topic, will you...

5 Feb 13

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Gautam1002 @Gautam1002 (730) • India 5 Feb 13

Hello fellow users, my recent discussion gave birth to something I am now really wanting to bring into your notice. I had a query over if I can decide who can read a discussion started by me. I could not find much regarding this...

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Gautam1002 Now if you say you are not given the freedom of being friend or reading discussions of one who has decided to block you than may I ask why would you be so desperate to be friend of that particular individual. Without the feature I am talking of, the person's...

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Gautam1002 @Gautam1002 (730) • India 5 Feb 13

Hello fellow users, my recent discussion gave birth to something I am now really wanting to bring into your notice. I had a query over if I can decide who can read a discussion started by me. I could not find much regarding this...

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Gautam1002 Now why you people do not give your opinion? I am just asking what is the harm in having a feature like that? And why is "copy-cat" term coming into play. Now if you feel that someone has something good in him, you just won't inculcate same in yourself since...

5 Feb 13

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Gautam1002 @Gautam1002 (730) • India 5 Feb 13

Hello fellow users, my recent discussion gave birth to something I am now really wanting to bring into your notice. I had a query over if I can decide who can read a discussion started by me. I could not find much regarding this...

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Gautam1002 Having a suggestion is never really wrong. And please let me know are all the terms and conditions of every site correct every time. NO. It needs regular change to be more efficient. Now if someday mylot comes with what I am wanting, you will suddenly start...

5 Feb 13

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Gautam1002 @Gautam1002 (730) • India 5 Feb 13

Hello mylotters, I wanted this query of mine to be sorted out. Please reply if you have any piece of information. I wanted to know, can I have a choice of choosing the readers of my discussion. If I do not want a particular post...

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Gautam1002 Not actually I want a feature of having an enemy list if that is what you have got through my above words. But there is nothing wrong in having some issues and henceforth not feeling comfortable with them reading what we have written on a particular subject....

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Gautam1002 @Gautam1002 (730) • India 5 Feb 13

Hello mylotters, I wanted this query of mine to be sorted out. Please reply if you have any piece of information. I wanted to know, can I have a choice of choosing the readers of my discussion. If I do not want a particular post...

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Gautam1002 I have understood we do not have such an option. But why not. Yes mylot is not a social networking site, but we should not forget it still remains a "website" that is open to all. All now I am questioning is why do not have such an option? I am okay with their...

5 Feb 13

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Gautam1002 @Gautam1002 (730) • India 5 Feb 13

Hello mylotters, I wanted this query of mine to be sorted out. Please reply if you have any piece of information. I wanted to know, can I have a choice of choosing the readers of my discussion. If I do not want a particular post...

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Gautam1002 Not actually, I am just expressing my astonishment over this beautiful learning site not having this fundamental facility for its user. First of all it should not get published overall on the entire web. Even if it does they should confirm it if we as the...

5 Feb 13

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Gautam1002 @Gautam1002 (730) • India 5 Feb 13

Hello mylotters, I wanted this query of mine to be sorted out. Please reply if you have any piece of information. I wanted to know, can I have a choice of choosing the readers of my discussion. If I do not want a particular post...

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Gautam1002 And how far do you think it a nice option not to have a choice to decide who would or would not see your discussion?

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Gautam1002 @Gautam1002 (730) • India 5 Feb 13

Hello mylotters, I wanted this query of mine to be sorted out. Please reply if you have any piece of information. I wanted to know, can I have a choice of choosing the readers of my discussion. If I do not want a particular post...

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Gautam1002 I think by now, I have figured it out that I do not have any such option which feels a bit surprising to me. With the whole lot of negative responses on this discussion, I should conclude by now that there is really no such options. Still I urge if you come...

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Gautam1002 @Gautam1002 (730) • India 5 Feb 13

Hello mylotters, I wanted this query of mine to be sorted out. Please reply if you have any piece of information. I wanted to know, can I have a choice of choosing the readers of my discussion. If I do not want a particular post...

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Gautam1002 Exactly same is my reaction. I do not think I have mentioned anywhere that I do not want them to respond back. I am just questioning whether if I am not comfortable with certain users reading my post, do I have an option for that? Isn't it surprising that...

5 Feb 13

Gautam1002 @Gautam1002 (730) • India 31 Jan 13

I have been off from using mylot for quite some time now. I have enjoyed my journey of using mylot till now and I am looking forward to resume at some time soon. This lack of consistency has mainly been the result me getting...

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Gautam1002 I remember you as you were one of the first ones with such large figures in the parenthesis. And those were my initial days. I have loved this place this site. Its great source of knowing people and their thinking towards a certain matter. You also get to...

1 Feb 13

ravisivan @ravisivan (14079) • India 5 Nov 12

a number of candidates from all over india are known to me as candidates appearing for bank recruitment examination. They read my blogs, Out of the so many one candidate --let us call him X got introduced to me in June 2011...

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Gautam1002 Exactly. Now things like traditional choice of husband is not given as important as it was done. I am not saying the practice was incorrect but it can be molded at times if that proves to be benefit. All the members are educated, hopefully their financial...

6 Nov 12

Gautam1002 @Gautam1002 (730) • India 29 Oct 12

I am not trying to particularize any given relation! It is not a surprise you get into fight with your loved ones. And when I say loved ones, there is more than just loving them. But what when heads burn up and eyes turn red. I am...

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Gautam1002 I got your words Hatley. It was very sweet of your relation and you have already experienced a lot which we are to see ahead. And maturity of your husband was the rubber, provided the elasticity to your relationship. I want to know from you, what if you both...

5 Nov 12

Gautam1002 @Gautam1002 (730) • India 29 Oct 12

I am not trying to particularize any given relation! It is not a surprise you get into fight with your loved ones. And when I say loved ones, there is more than just loving them. But what when heads burn up and eyes turn red. I am...

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Gautam1002 I agree. We should indeed have a habit of tolerating, and more so when someone dear to us is getting rude. But again I highlight, we should develop. doesn't necessarily mean we do it always, or at least at the moment when it is needed most. A slight feeling of...

5 Nov 12

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