MAAluv

@MAAluv (39)

United States • Age 47

Joined myLot 17 years ago

" A (man) who hasn't found something worth dying for, isn't fit to live. "

MAAluv's Responses

I got such a disturbing all last night

TriciaW @TriciaW (2441) • United States 19 Mar 08

The phone rings it is a girl asking for my daughter. I told her she was sleeping and she said she was calling to tell her that a friend of her's is missing. Of course I shot up in bed and said what are you talking about. The girl...

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MAAluv I have been in a similiar situation with my own daughter. Somewhat. My daughter is a great girl, on a whole, but she is a teenager. She's going to be 14 later this yr. She is a straight A student, a cheerleader and on her school basketball team. Her father and...

20 Mar 08

Boy Friend or Boyfriend?

chickabanana @chickabanana (30) • United States 16 Mar 08

Is it possible to have a close relationship with a guy or a girl without crossing the line even once? I have never been able to. It just seems like if you are able to get along so well, why not take it further. For this reason, I...

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MAAluv I basically agree with you. Although, me, myself, I've been in the position before...having a guy friend who was the greatest friend. We did everything together, from hangin out to partying to shopping, cooking. And so we did eventually take it to the next...

17 Mar 08

where you the same person 10 years ago?.

Mylot member @patrice7 (1191) • United States 3 Feb 07

well here's a question.. 10 years ago you were?. this and that and are you still like that right now?. what things have changed in your life?. well for me 10 years ago i was ambitious and idealistic.. i had far fetched dreams...

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MAAluv I believe that I was a lot more, im not sure the word im looking for. Thats something that I wouldn't have had a problem with 10 yrs ago. I want to say something like, virgin, in the way of being affected by the ways of the world. I was naive, so innocent. I...

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Is it easier to toilet train a boy or a girl?

superchook @superchook (1786) • Australia 30 Jan 07

People always told me it is easier to toilet train a girl. They told me the learn a lot quicker than a boy. I found my daughter was much harder and took longer than my sons. I know all children do it in there own time, but just...

family

people

toilet train

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MAAluv My daughter was easy. She didnt like a wet diaper so I would leave her in it a little longer ad very quickly, she went on her seat. But I have a 2 yr old son now and he isnt as easy. D oyu have n e advice??? thx

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When you get married, are you going to get a prenup?

hassanchop @hassanchop (820) • United States 2 Jan 07

Why or why not? Personally, I will - I just plain do not trust the courts, and I think alimony is a crock of deuce. Not that I ever plan to get divorced, and nobody plans to get divorced, but it's good to be safe, ya know?

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MAAluv I agree. But more than that, I have to add, for me, it is quite a world we live in when this is an issue. I dont know when it became a question as to whether or not if and when we should part, do I walk away with anything more than what is rightfully mine....

28 Jan 07

Women should cook, clean, do the laundry and other housework

hassanchop @hassanchop (820) • United States 22 Jan 07

This is one thing I was rather hardcore on for awhile a year or two back. But I got to know myself a little better, and realized something. I can do all my own cooking, all my own cleaning, all my own laundry, all of my other...

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MAAluv I think you are so adorable. And your discussions are interesting, they are basic, but you offer a very unique view. I have always looked at it as an unwritten rule, I do feel that somethings a man just shouldn't have to do for himself. Of course its fine,...

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Men who try to buy a woman's affections. Is it sweet or is it ridiculous?

hassanchop @hassanchop (820) • United States 22 Jan 07

You know what I mean. The dudes who go all out, buying a 5,000 dollar engagement ring, or spending 3,500 dollars on Christmas gifts, or buying flowers and chocolate every week, and ESPECIALLY the dudes who buy flowers after a...

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MAAluv I totally agree. I've actually been in a relationship where the guy would not stop with the gifts and the expensive evenings out. Really, all I wanted was for him to say " lets stay in tonight ". I like nice things, who doesn't? But I believe in working for...

23 Jan 07

Yes, that dress/those pants DO make your butt look big.

hassanchop @hassanchop (820) • United States 22 Jan 07

That's what I would reply if I had a gf, and she asked me that question. And I would expect her to reply, "Good. Let's head out." Why? Because I like big butts. If her dress makes her butt look big, I'm IN on that. This...

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MAAluv Right on! I have to agree with you, bigger butts are better. My butt is big.. or at least round...well, its shaped like a heart. Lol!! And no, I never hear anybody asking if this makes their butt look big or do I look fat?? Those are things I've never...

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Friends...true or fraud?

MissRissa74 @MissRissa74 (472) • United States 22 Jan 07

Recently, I've been dealing with some issues and having a hard time figuring out who are my real friends. There's a couple that I'm certain about, 2 to be exact, but the rest of them are making me wonder. Some people just don't...

friends

relationships

trust

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MAAluv I feel that good "friends" are hard to come by. Far and few between is more like it. I just think that everything is different in this day and age. In the "old days", friends, family, marriage, all of those things had a certain amount of "root" importance....

22 Jan 07

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Monthly Recap: May 2020

Brenna @isweartokira (3460) • United States 12 Jun 20

Hello myLot! I'm a little late on this, but it's been such a busy May and June that I haven't had time to make a post on it. I hope everyone is doing well! I realize no one cares about these long posts lol, but oh well, I enjoy...

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MAAluv Hello myLot! I'm a little late on this, but it's been such a busy May and June that I haven't had time to make a post on it. I hope everyone is doing well! I realize no one cares about these long posts lol, but oh well, I enjoy writing them out. Here's how...

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Good Night, myLot ! 6-10-20

Stacey @xstitcher (32508) • Petaluma, California 11 Jun 20

It's 10:14 by my computer clock, and time for me to get to bed. First, I'll have to get Angel a treat to get her off of my bed so that I can get in it. It's still feeling pretty hot, so I'm hoping I won't have too much trouble...

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MAAluv It's 10:14 by my computer clock, and time for me to get to bed. First, I'll have to get Angel a treat to get her off of my bed so that I can get in it. It's still feeling pretty hot, so I'm hoping I won't have too much trouble sleeping. I got a few...

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pregnancy..what to expect???

jaeian @jaeian (23) • Philippines 18 Jan 07

i'm pregnant and i'm expecting to give birth by the last week of january..it's very near and i'm getting scared! i'm always thinking what would my child look like? is he/she would be healthy? i'm thinking on how to be responsible...

birth

pregnancy

worries

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MAAluv I am 29. I had my first child 2 days after my 16th birthday. Her father and I had been high school sweethearts, we stayed together til she was 4. Shes 13 now. It was hard, somewhat. Overall, I think I've been very blessed, my family has always helped. As has...

19 Jan 07

Waiting for him to come home

Merryjoy @resukill22 (25050) • Las Pinas City, Philippines 6 Mar 20

Hello, it's 12: 28 in the midnight now but I'm still waiting to my husband to come home. My son is already sleep at 10 pm. While im waiting to him Im watching my favorite cartoon movie the FROZEN 2.my husband and his friend stay...

waiting

movie

past time

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MAAluv Hello, it's 12: 28 in the midnight now but I'm still waiting to my husband to come home. My son is already sleep at 10 pm. While im waiting to him Im watching my favorite cartoon movie the FROZEN 2.my husband and his friend stay in caloocan this afternoon...

6 Mar 20

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