MadamZ4U

@MadamZ4U (11)

Malaysia • Age 48

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Do you threaten your kids with the bogeyman if you don't want to spank them?

Jenaisle @Jenaisle (14078) • Philippines 29 Jan 09

As parents we would like to avoid spanking our very young children as much as possible. How do you let your very young child obey you with you spanking him/her? Do you always use the bogeyman to scare him? or do you create fear...

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MadamZ4U Though spanking is not a useful approach to discipline children but somehow it teaches children to be afraid of the adult in charge. I do use bogeyman to scare him at times when there is no way out to control. However, I trust that with spanking and scaring...

29 Jan 09

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What do you like/love about being a mom/dad?

ersmommy1 @ersmommy1 (12588) • United States 26 Jan 09

There have been a few discussions I have come across about how some people love there kids BUT... and then they go into the reasons why they wish things were different. Well I want to know what you like about your parenting role.

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MadamZ4U Mothering two active children requires that the majority of my time is spent "handling" my kids one way or another - changing a diaper, signing a revision book, breaking up a fight, wiping nose, etc... But every now and then, a moment appears where I can just...

29 Jan 09

money......happiness?

tolymA @tolymA (2) • United States 26 Jan 09

Why is it that people always say money isnt happiness but when they always have a large sum of money they are happy are excited i dont get it. they are basically hypocrites i personally think that money is happiness i mean how...

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MadamZ4U I believed money helps in many ways and certainly it can bring happiness to those who are struggling with certain needs. Money helps in alleviating the problems associated with poverty by making life less about day to day survival.But I can see that more money...

29 Jan 09

After 8 years of marriage i've discovered love.. But not with my husband..

melizabth @melizabth (15) • United States 17 Dec 08

Wait... what about my children .. how can i ever be happy if they are not. The relation ship decaide about 2 years from were it started, money problems, character diferencies, routine i can give thousands of excuses but the...

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MadamZ4U Hi Melizabth, for the matter of fact, I do had the same experience just like what you are having right now. We, married woman with kids at times are fragile and do not know who we should turn to especially the situation concern or resulting by the people...

18 Dec 08