PattyMelt

@PattyMelt (45)

United States • Age 46

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Do you listen to music while you're online?

Bd200789 @Bd200789 (2994) • United States 27 Feb 08

I only do when I' m here by myself, and then I usually listen to country music. What about you? What do you listen to when you are on mylot or another website? Right now, I'm listening to Garth Brooks. Let me know what you think.

listen to music online

music

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PattyMelt I use to, until my speakers stopped working. I have tried the control panel to fix the problem, but i have tried everything from de-selecting mute to addin new software and i still have no sound, which sucks because there are alot of things i want to tune...

27 Feb 08

What online games do/did you play?

grunge_avenged @grunge_avenged (552) • Canada 27 Feb 08

I currently play Tibia, an online RPG. Also, I play Counter Strike Source and Day Of Defeat Source. CSS and DoDS are online shooter games that are verryy fun!:) Games that I used to play are: Soldier of Fortune 2: Double Helix (an...

online games

rpg

tibia

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PattyMelt i like to play internet spades. I like all different types of games on Instant Messanger with my sister alot too, which is fun.

27 Feb 08

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Will going to the movies be a thing of the past??

twallace @twallace (2675) • United States 27 Feb 08

With all the new things that are coming out with cable(time warner,suddenlink,verizon) and satellite(direct tv, dish network, fta). Some of the services offer on demand. NOw if the movie people were smart they would make it so...

dish network

watch new movies in your home

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PattyMelt For those that can wait for it to come out on DVD or cable tv will definitely decrease sales at the box office. It does not take as long to come on cable tv once it has hit theaters and it is cheaper to stay home.

27 Feb 08

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How often do you speak to your family

overhere @overhere (515) • United States 27 Feb 08

I moved from the UK to the US four years ago and miss my family . I speak to my mother, who is quite old and lives alone, once a week (I also write and send photo's). I speak to my sister more often and you'd hardly guess how long...

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PattyMelt Not often unless a tragedy happens. My family likes to stay to themselves, and so do I.

27 Feb 08

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Does your blood boil?

aminion @aminion (129) • Canada 27 Feb 08

What is the one thing that your partner says to you that gets your blood boiling? For example anytime I try and discuss something that is bothering me, I get the Whatever from my husband. Now my son has started saying it. Ohh I...

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PattyMelt The puzzle look as if the topic discussion has not been presented before, until it is thier turn to come to you with issues....hate that!

27 Feb 08

When was the last time you cry?

JAY020582 @JAY020582 (406) • Philippines 27 Feb 08

when was the last time you feel sad. and makes you cry. it can be a tears of joy or a tears of sadness..

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PattyMelt The last time i cried, was Saturday. My kids go to church every other weekend, and it was not thier Saturday...I balled all weekend.....lol

27 Feb 08

what is happiness?

shamashemnice @shamashemnice (482) • Egypt 27 Feb 08

Happiness is the feeling of euphoria and enjoy together and the feeling or sense of something is something beyond even transcends mere experiment to go into Alcaourali reflect that person,but the situation makes a person sentenced...

free of pain

happiness

mean of happiness

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PattyMelt Happiness depends on the person. Anything that does not make them sad.

27 Feb 08

heard of thelegitonlinejobs.com

starrywonder @starrywonder (625) • United States 27 Feb 08

i found this site thelegitonlinejobs.com. Its listed with the BBB as a work at home site. They say you can make around $100 a week. If you have any experience with this site can you tell me what you think?

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PattyMelt I have never heard of it. Did you look at the reviews on the BBB site? What exactly is the job?

27 Feb 08

Lonliness.....

m105508 @m105508 (59) • India 24 Feb 08

Why do some people choose to live alone? Even when they r not Introverts...they act like one,i can understand that they have had betrayals in their lives... But this aint the way to live...You got to keep on moving. Well...

insecurity

introverts

lonliness

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PattyMelt There are alot of reasons people live alone. Bad relationships, less stressing (no one to care for or be dependent on) depression, do not allow closeness from others, illness. All lonely people do not have a bad story, some people find it rejoicing and...

24 Feb 08

if your BF/GF doesn't allow you to go out with friends, would you lie to him/her

chicha0522 @chicha0522 (648) • Guam 23 Feb 08

The other day my friend invited me to her wedding, and I haven't seen her for almost 8 years. Now my boyfriend is very strict, I have a hard time asking permission to go out with friends, which I only do for like 2-3 times...

relationships

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PattyMelt First of all if you have to lie, you are in the wrong relationship. Secondly invite him along, and if he does not want to go, then ok I will see you later tonight. Does he invite you out? He is just a boyfriend, where is the contract you signed that makes you...

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How many chances are too many?

melissacus @melissacus (441) • United States 23 Feb 08

I've been with my boyfriend off and on for 3 years. The way I grew up I was taught that men are pigs. They can't be trusted. I've always been afraid to let anybody get too close to me, especially males. When he and I reach a...

love

relationships

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PattyMelt I think you should take your own advice. Why are guys breaking up? The worse thing you can do in a relationship is seek advice, it will only confuse the situation. Whatever you are feelin at that moment do it! Too many chances is when YOU have had enough....

24 Feb 08

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Bank Accidently Gives Man $5 Million Dollars

kellys3ps @kellys3ps (3723) • United States 23 Feb 08

A 48 year old New York man walked into the bank and got the surprise of his life when bank personnel told him that he had $5 million dollars in his bank account (they had mixed him up with another account holder with the same...

bank errors

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PattyMelt Well this falls back on honesty. He knew he did not have the money, he should not have touched it, and yes the bank is also at fault for thier lack of security of funds into an account that apparently was not monitored during the transition, how can you mix up...

24 Feb 08

Would you change religion to be with someone?

ESKARENA1 @ESKARENA1 (18261) 24 Feb 08

my friend (female) has met a nice guy (well as good as males get) the only problem she has is that he is a muslim and of course insists that she converts. She has decided that she doesnt want to become a muslim and therefore they...

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PattyMelt Changing religion to be with a person, is trading God for the devil. God punishes us for disobedience, so at times we think it is unfair and the right thing to do is harder than the wrong thing. The devil makes deals that seem rewarding, joyful and less...

24 Feb 08

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How do you keep your relationship alive?

kiran1978 @kiran1978 (4134) • Australia 24 Feb 08

In relationships, after being with someone for a few years or so or even less, things can become a bit stagnant. You start to get caught up in routine and day to day living and often forget to enjoy each others company. Slowly the...

keep relationship alive

love

passion

sparks flying

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PattyMelt Well I have been with my sigificant other for nine years. When we met our relationship started out as communicating. Some start out with entercourse. So I knew that communication was his strongest ability. So when i want to talk, he listens and responds...

24 Feb 08

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If you could write a book about anything what would it be about?

dani27 @dani27 (544) • United States 24 Feb 08

What story would you tell, what would you want people to hear? If you could get anything published what would your book be about?

book

story

write anything

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PattyMelt Wow! hmmm I would write about EVERYTHING!!! Put it all in one book, from slavery, to poverty to parenting and the law to about my own life.

24 Feb 08

A bird cr*pped on my head!

jillhill @jillhill (37354) • United States 24 Feb 08

It's a beautiful day in Minnesota and it's supposed to actually get above freezing. I have a back step that has a bunch of ice on it. Last year a big ice cicle fell down and broke the awning I had over the steps. I ordered an new...

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PattyMelt UGH!!! I had one crap on my shirt before walking under a tree.....i thought that was bad, but the head....OMG

24 Feb 08

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Do you OR do you not confide your marital problems to your parents and siblings?

Storm @jcj_111776 (3216) • Philippines 23 Feb 08

Marriage can be a "bed of roses" for some but it can also be a "bed of roses but full of thorns" for others. I've been married for 6 years to a man who's not really good with revealing his emotions. And it can be a problem...

being honest

marital problems

unbiased advices

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PattyMelt I say as long as he is not around, because men feel like when you spill your emotions it is coming down on them. Make sure that the person you are confiding in keeps it just the way it started, between the two of you. But that could backfire later. For...

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Betrayal

Alize997 @Alize997 (190) • United States 23 Feb 08

What would you consider to be the ultimate betrayal? Could you forgive it?

ultimate betrayal

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PattyMelt If my mother was sleeping with my husband. Could I forgive? Eventually, after I divorced him that is.

23 Feb 08