SaShKai

@SaShKai (25)

Age 46

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I need an advice on how toconvince my parents that my BF is the right man for me

sweetvenus @sweetvenus (95) • Philippines 3 Feb 07

I am a chinese woman residing at manila, this year i will be 31 years old , and i have a bf for about 2 years. I have introduce my BF to my family, at first they never said a thing about him or comment anything bad about him. As...

difficult parents

marriage

relationships

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SaShKai From my experience your parents are always right!!! But they also need to let you make your own decisions and let you follow your heart. Only you learn later on if he is really the right man for you or not...

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Working Overseas....

chiyochan @chiyosan (30181) • Philippines 3 Feb 07

Im really confused right now.. believe me and this has caused me sleepless nights... i have a stable job, i work as a supervisor but i hate the pressure we got at work, and its not worth the stress i get there, they pay too little...

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SaShKai I understand where you are!!! I was once there too... The only advice that I can give you is that you need to ask for a pay rise...If however, they reject that, then you're not that important to the company. (If you can understand what I mean...???) This will...

4 Feb 07

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Are there too many people in the world?

solway @solway (14) 2 Feb 07

Discuss.

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SaShKai I personally think that there are far too many people in this world!!! The world is falling apart because people don't care about it or each other... Everything is just getting out of control!!!

3 Feb 07

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Need advice desperately....... Greatly appreciated thanks!

polishprincess1 @polishprincess1 (21) • United States 2 Feb 07

I'm a 52 year old woman and I've been dating a 22 year old guy for several months now. He makes me feel happy and special. Everyday the first thing he does is messages me good morning(which I find so sweet). He visits me at work,...

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SaShKai Age doesn't matter and everything happens for a reason. There is a reason why your paths have crossed. You shouldn't ever worry about what other people have to say...My mum and dad always told me that. If they have something to say then they not worth it and...

3 Feb 07

Does your cat sleep with you?

mamina30 @mamina30 (135) • United States 3 Feb 07

My cat 10 months old sleeps with us, my husband and I, every night, he loves to be around us, follows me everywhere in the house, even to the bathroom, if I close the door, he starts crying until the door is open, he likes to...

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SaShKai There is nothing wrong with your cat sleeping in the bed with you, providing the cat is relatively clean. Mine sleeps with us everynight too. Some nights we will have my fiance and I, with our son and the cat...lovely place for 4 beings to be... My cat does...

3 Feb 07

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Have you written your Will?

ukchriss @ukchriss (2097) 2 Feb 07

Recent surveys show that 25% of the UK population die without having a will. If you don't have a will, the government will decide what to do. That means a stranger will decide who gets what and how much tax you are liable to...

care of your children

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SaShKai I am in the UK as well, and the other day my fiance said to me that we need to do a will for our sons sake. Well, I laughed at him...I know we need to but I think you just always put if off assuming that nothing will ever happen to you. It is a bad way to...

3 Feb 07

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Does the weather affect your mood?

rachelcaron @rachelcaron (1679) • United States 2 Feb 07

Does the weather outside affect your mood and how you feel? I know it does for me. When it is sunny outside I usually feel great and am in such a great mood. When it rains for many days I get irritable. I remember there was...

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SaShKai I know exactly what you mean!!! I am the happiest and most relaxed person in the hot sunny weather...on the other hand, when I am in a country that is hardly ever warm, I am the most stressed out person alive!!! I start not liking my house and find everything...

3 Feb 07

Why are kids nowadays always so BORED!

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 2 Feb 07

They have computers, and DVDs, and TVs in their rooms. They certainly have more advantages and opportunities than they ever did 20 or more years ago...... and yet when I was a child we could alwys find ways of entertaining...

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SaShKai Do you want to know why they are so bored all the time...??? Well it because they have all those things laid on a platter for them...the TV's in their room with computers and playstations etc. They numb their brains with using that equipment constantly...It...

2 Feb 07

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What chores do you insist your child / children should do daily?

Ridgydidge @Ridgydidge (558) • Australia 2 Feb 07

I have a Miss 10 soon to be a Miss 11. There is not a lot I do insist on her doing. Feed & Clean up after the cat Homework (obvious) The never ending cleaning of the room I have asked her to add to her chores Empty the...

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SaShKai You are not a bad mother at all!!! There is nothing wrong with giving your child things to do...and what you are giving your daughter is hardly heavy duty chores...I am a nanny and a mum. My son is still a baby however, my charge is 5 years old. Every morning...

2 Feb 07

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Am I trying to live my life through my kids?

michelledarcy @michelledarcy (5220) 2 Feb 07

I was chatting to a friend the other day about how I am trying to teach my kids a lot at home in addition to what they learn at school as I want them to do well in life and have a good chance of going to a good secondary school...

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SaShKai I think it is really important that you do what you think is best for your kids but on the other hand...Kids need to be left to be kids. I am a nanny and a mum. Obviously being a nanny you tend to work for the wealthier family. Their views are a lot...

2 Feb 07

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