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SanDslnrs @SanDslnrs (268) • United States 23 Nov 07

I have a friend, who is about 15 years younger than me. We worked together and kept in touch after she found a new job. Anyhow, I had split up with my husband and she helped me move out, during this time, I stayed with her a...

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SanDslnrs I agree with you, everyone needs that special someone to confide in, cry with., etc. I totally understand that she sometimes feels alone, because she has mentioned no one goes to visit her. I don't go to visit because I work full time as she does, and I'm...

25 Nov 07

SanDslnrs @SanDslnrs (268) • United States 23 Nov 07

I have a friend, who is about 15 years younger than me. We worked together and kept in touch after she found a new job. Anyhow, I had split up with my husband and she helped me move out, during this time, I stayed with her a...

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SanDslnrs I believe we're probably both upset about this situation, and I'm sure that we'll both work it out soon. She wrote me an email this morning in response to my email card wishing her a Happy Thanksgiving. Thanks for your comment.

23 Nov 07

SanDslnrs @SanDslnrs (268) • United States 23 Nov 07

I have a friend, who is about 15 years younger than me. We worked together and kept in touch after she found a new job. Anyhow, I had split up with my husband and she helped me move out, during this time, I stayed with her a...

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SanDslnrs I agree, maybe emailing isn't the way to work things out, as maybe the emails are coming across to her, or even to me in the wrong way. I do miss talking to her. Thanks,

23 Nov 07

SanDslnrs @SanDslnrs (268) • United States 23 Nov 07

I have a friend, who is about 15 years younger than me. We worked together and kept in touch after she found a new job. Anyhow, I had split up with my husband and she helped me move out, during this time, I stayed with her a...

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SanDslnrs She responded to my email card wishing her a Happy Thanksgiving. SHe said she has felt that me and my husband have something against her, which we don't. I really care for her, and I've told her that several times. I will call her and see if we can meet up and...

23 Nov 07

SanDslnrs @SanDslnrs (268) • United States 23 Nov 07

I have a friend, who is about 15 years younger than me. We worked together and kept in touch after she found a new job. Anyhow, I had split up with my husband and she helped me move out, during this time, I stayed with her a...

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SanDslnrs I've tried explaing to her that her friendship means alot and her being there for me when I need her has meant alot, but she's upset. The more I talk to her the more upset she gets. I'll try very hard to pay her back as soon as possible. I sent her an email...

23 Nov 07

SanDslnrs @SanDslnrs (268) • United States 23 Nov 07

I have a friend, who is about 15 years younger than me. We worked together and kept in touch after she found a new job. Anyhow, I had split up with my husband and she helped me move out, during this time, I stayed with her a...

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SanDslnrs I did explain the financial situation to her, and also tried to get her to understand about being in a relationship and having kids and the time involved. I also explained to her that I was going out with this other woman as a friend because she lived close to...

23 Nov 07

SanDslnrs @SanDslnrs (268) • United States 23 Nov 07

I have a friend, who is about 15 years younger than me. We worked together and kept in touch after she found a new job. Anyhow, I had split up with my husband and she helped me move out, during this time, I stayed with her a...

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SanDslnrs Yes, I think she got jealous, and does need to grow up some. I haven't done anything wrong, I just feel bad not having the money to give her, because she seems to be using that against me now. She knows my financial situation and she knows I don't have it...

23 Nov 07

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SanDslnrs @SanDslnrs (268) • United States 23 Nov 07

I have a friend, who is about 15 years younger than me. We worked together and kept in touch after she found a new job. Anyhow, I had split up with my husband and she helped me move out, during this time, I stayed with her a...

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SanDslnrs I haven't really emailed or called her lately, just reponded to her emails, cause it seemed when I tried to find out what was wrong she just got more upset. As far as the money, I sent her another response that I will pay her as soon as I can, and hopefully...

23 Nov 07

SanDslnrs @SanDslnrs (268) • United States 23 Nov 07

I have a friend, who is about 15 years younger than me. We worked together and kept in touch after she found a new job. Anyhow, I had split up with my husband and she helped me move out, during this time, I stayed with her a...

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SanDslnrs I'm trying to make or even save a little extra money to pay her sooner, but it's been tough. I've had a lot going on lately and I just barely make it paycheck to paycheck. I have been praying for her, and hopefully she'll realize that there isn't anything for...

23 Nov 07

SanDslnrs @SanDslnrs (268) • United States 16 Aug 07

My friend called me on Saturday morning and said her exhusband was making her move out of their apartment. SHe had been married to him in the past for about 4 years or so, and then divorced and after about 3 years got back...

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SanDslnrs Okay, well now, my friend called him, and at first he hung up on her, the she called him back, he talked a bit more, but said he was done with her and she said he sounded really, really angry. He gave her a message that someone had called her and then hung up...

19 Aug 07

SanDslnrs @SanDslnrs (268) • United States 16 Aug 07

My friend called me on Saturday morning and said her exhusband was making her move out of their apartment. SHe had been married to him in the past for about 4 years or so, and then divorced and after about 3 years got back...

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SanDslnrs I was thinking the same thing about the midlife crisis. I'm not too sure of what that is but, then again who knows? I don't know about her getting back with him at all, he doesn't seem to appredciate her at all, and he really needs to. Thanks for your...

16 Aug 07

SanDslnrs @SanDslnrs (268) • United States 16 Aug 07

My friend called me on Saturday morning and said her exhusband was making her move out of their apartment. SHe had been married to him in the past for about 4 years or so, and then divorced and after about 3 years got back...

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SanDslnrs She moved out, I helped her with everything. He had the apartment in his name, and she paid him $1200 a month towards the rent and monthly utilities, groceries, etc. Their rent is something like $1800.00. He was packing or had packed some of her things in...

16 Aug 07

SanDslnrs @SanDslnrs (268) • United States 27 May 07

My daughter, my one and only, signed up for the Navy recently for 6 years. She is married and has a 2 1/2 year old child. She signed up for 6 years, she says the family can go with her and live on a base. I keep telling her I...

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SanDslnrs She said she is going because she can get an education, and also financial reasons. She tells me her husband will watch her daughter, and then when she gets stationed, they will move and stay with her there. I just hope this all turns out good. It's a big...

24 Jun 07

SanDslnrs @SanDslnrs (268) • United States 19 Jun 07

My son is graduating from high school tomorrow, and I'm very happy about that. On Sunday afternoon, he drove to a McDonald's near the house to get some lunch, while there some guys (I'll say men because he said they were older...

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SanDslnrs I did call the police, but they said there wasn't much they could do, because my son didn't know who they were or get a good description of the car they were in. He is doing better, and I'm just happy that something worse didn't happen. Thanks for commenting!

24 Jun 07

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