SanDslnrs

@SanDslnrs (268)

United States • Age 64

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Does beating your kids when they are being difficult, amount to abuse?

mohinimandokhot @mohinimandokhot (184) • India 1 Dec 09

I have son who is four years old. He is adorable! However sometimes he can be very difficult. In order to discipline sometimes I have to spank him. But it so happened that at some times I've slapped him really hard on his cheeks...

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SanDslnrs Wow, this was really hard for me to read. I understand sometimes children can be very difficult, but you need to find other ways to discipline your child. Slapping and spanking are two different things, and I really do agree with the others that you need to...

2 Dec 09

am i to strict on my daughter

cowgalcarly @cowgalcarly (11) 7 Mar 08

hello ' everyone can someone please tell me what they think about my story i have a nine year old daughter and i dont let my daughter out the front door or back door she is not allowed to have freinds or people come over here...

am i strict on my daughter

swimwear

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SanDslnrs I understand how you feel and that you love your daughter and only want the best for her, and for her to have pride in herself. However, by restrictig her so much, this all may backfire on you. She does need some freedom to express herself, and to pick out...

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Deadbeat Dads

Kowgirl @Kowgirl (3490) • United States 29 Dec 07

Well I have seen it all when it comes to being a Deadbeat Dads A friend of mine was asked to mail a package for a man who was visiting her next door neighbor. He said his friend forgot to take it that morning. Since he...

child support

deadbeat dads

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SanDslnrs That is really terrible! I can't believe how many fathers, and yes, sometimes mothers, do not care enough to want to make sure their children have food and clothing to eat. My exhusband hardly ever sees his kids, even though they are grown now. He doesn't...

30 Dec 07

Do you have a long first name and short last name or the opposite??

peanutjar @peanutjar (5198) • Canada 29 Dec 07

Do you have an even numbered first name and even number last name?Mine is exactly 7 letters for the first and 7 numbers for the last and my middle name has 3 letters.Does you initials of your first name,middle and last make a...

name lengths

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SanDslnrs My first and my middle names are both 5 letters each, and my last name is 11 letters long. This was interesting!

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What would you do? Should I tell my BF?

sjohnson628 @sjohnson628 (3197) • United States 29 Dec 07

that I know his daughter is not living home with her mom? ( he pays 80 bux a week for child support) his daughter is 18 and in the state where they live HE is eligible to pay until his daughter is 21 which is 2 more years and a...

people

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SanDslnrs He has to pay until she's 21? I am understand that he doesn't see her either? I would think that if he didn't have any contact with her, that he wouldn't have to pay or pay a reduced amount to help support her. If he were to continue to pay the support, maybe...

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Happy New Year Comments For Everyone...

twoey68 @twoey68 (13627) • United States 29 Dec 07

Well, I'm finally done! I got everyone's New Year's comments out...at least those that their comment section wasn't blocked by big rude ads. With 77 pages of friends to do it takes a little time to do them but it's so much fun!...

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SanDslnrs I'll most likely be sitting at home and watching the count down for the New Year on TV. No partying here...hee hee... I hope you're feeling better and have a Blessed and Happy New Year!!!!

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easy cookies from a cake mix

makelifehappy @vera5d (4005) • United States 16 Dec 07

My mom, who is a great baker, didn't know this, so I thought I'd post it here: You can make cookies VERY EASILY from any cake mix... Any flavor, any kind, just mix the cake mix with 1 stick of softened butter (not melted)...

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SanDslnrs Oh wow! I'll have to try this. This sounds so easy to make the dough and I'm sure it's good. Thanks for posting...

17 Dec 07

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Pondering About The Homeless Over The Holidays

villageanne @villageanne (8553) • United States 16 Dec 07

In our area, there are no homeless who live under bridges or in cardboard boxes on the streets. The homeless here usually live in their cars. I was just thinking of the homeless. They have nobody to give them hugs, food or...

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SanDslnrs I see a lot of homeless people here where I live, that live under the bridges, or freeways. I was just thinking of making up a basket for a woman that lives close by to us, and including some food, and maybe a scarf, hat, and gloves for her. I wish there were...

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how would you react?

krysi17 @krysi17 (234) • United States 3 Dec 07

Today my dog got shot with a paintball gun in the checst by my soon to be neighbors.I was so angry I was speachless.Then I calmed myself down enough to call the police.Not to any surprise it seemed like the officer didnt want us...

animal cruelty

dogs

paintball

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SanDslnrs I would be so angry and both your neighbors and that officer. You should either go to the station or call for another officer to take the report. That is cruel what they did to your dog. Where are the parents? Did you speak to them, or are they adults that are...

3 Dec 07

The Best and Worst of 2007...

twoey68 @twoey68 (13627) • United States 3 Dec 07

What was the best and worst thing that happened throughout the year 2007 for you and/or your family? Are you hoping next year will be alot better or just hoping to get through it quickly? The best thing for me this year was...

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SanDslnrs Well, don't know where to start...it's been a rough year financially, emotionally, and for my grown kids, or not so grown? My younger son has gotten himself into legal problems, and I'm still at it with him. I won't even be buying much for Christmas this year....

3 Dec 07

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psycho or lover of the lovers ?

supriyorajj @supriyorajj (169) • India 22 Nov 07

Hello friends now i am going to discuss about my one of the best friend.near about four years ago he has fallen love of a beautiful girl.she is junior of our college.at first they was a very good friend at our college. but when he...

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SanDslnrs I think your friend loves this girl very much, and just doesn't know how to handle his emotions. He should try talking to someone before his behavior gets out of hand. I realize it must be hard for him to be in love with her and she already has a boyfriend....

23 Nov 07

how far would you go for revenge?

ayseteyze @ayseteyze (214) • Turkey 14 Aug 07

you know what they say, "living well is the best revenge". but some people don't seem to take this advice into consideration. do you believe that everyone should be treated as the way they treat to others? should there be a cost...

best revenge

living well is the best revenge

revenge

sweet revenge

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SanDslnrs Well, to me it seems that some people do things to hurt others and they just go about their life happy, and seems like nothing bad every happens to them. I do believe that at some time in their life though they will experience the hurt they may have caused...

14 Aug 07

Do you know any home remedies that really work for inducing labor?

jbb316 @jbb316 (1779) • United States 4 Aug 07

I am so sick of being pregnant. Only 3 weeks to go. I might consider a home remedy if I go over my due date as many people I know have. What at home remedies or old wives tales do you know that will help someone go into Labor?

pregnancy

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SanDslnrs I don't know about any home remedies, but I have heard that if you walk that sometimes helps to get you going into labor. My niece walked around the track 10 or 12 times, and the next day went into labor. Now, I do think that is a bit much though....

5 Aug 07

Child Labor.... What is your opinion on this matter?

Abbypia @Abbyey (760) • Philippines 4 Aug 07

Watching news as i am on the internet, one news caught my attention... it caused me to pause from typing in mylot and watch it. Children between ages 8yrs - 15 years old boys working as contruction helpers (carrying heavy...

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SanDslnrs I agree we need to do something to stop this. This is very sad and children should be allowed to enjoy their childhood. I understand that in some countries children need to work to help out, but some of these poor kids are just being abused, and I'm not even...

5 Aug 07

do you think children should help out more around the home?

astrotink @astrotink (169) 28 Aug 06

I've always allowed my children to basically do their own thing and just ask them to keep their own room tidy, now they're older I ask for help...

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SanDslnrs Yes, children should help around the house. This is how they learn to clean, and to organize. Otherwise, they'll grow up and not know how to keep a house, and they will most likely lack in organization skills.

2 Jun 07

Mother's Day, After Separation

Myrrdin @Myrrdin (3599) • Canada 23 Apr 07

Ok, not sure what I should do here, Mother's day is coming up soon, and this is the first time something like this has come up since my ex and I separated. She is still the mother of my child, so I suppose I should take my...

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SanDslnrs I think showing respect and teaching your daughter to appreciate and respect her mother is a very valuable lesson for her. Take her out to buy something (not expensive) for her mother that is from her to show appreciation for her mom. Likewise, when Father's...

24 Apr 07

A token of appreciation, For all the Support, from those who stood by my side.

crackhead @crackhead (1826) • India 21 Apr 07

Bad times and Good times come in ones day to day life. Yesterday i was bitter with the way Mylot paid me and i was disappointed actually. I started a discussion which read "80 posts + 1 Discussion, Disgusting earnings, i am...

friends

support

thank you

token of appreciation

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SanDslnrs Well, I have 1 referral and 179 posts, and haven't even earned $5 yet. Oh well, I just enjoy coming here and reading some of the discussions. I'll get there I guess one day. Keep up the good work!

22 Apr 07

Stay at home mom looking to make some real money

shelle7892003 @shelle7892003 (18) • United States 19 Apr 07

I am a stay at home mom with two little kids and we are running low on funds and I either need to make money at home or send my kids to daycare and pay them a crap load for my two kids while I go to work all day and then half of...

make money

starting a business

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SanDslnrs Try checking www.WAHM.com, they offer a lot of work at home info. Also, I do general transcription from home, and make some extra money doing that. I took a medical transcription course through my local ROP and got the skills for transcribing and then thru...

20 Apr 07

It's so hot in here....

cheenlly @cheenlly (3476) • Philippines 17 Apr 07

Hey friends, it's really hot in here in the Philippines. Its summer time and i think this summer is the hottest i have experience. Oh my! Its like im going to have a heat stroke ...oh please i dont hope so. As much as possible i...

heat stroke

hot summer

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SanDslnrs I'm in California, so it's not too hot here yet. I've heard this summer will probably be one of our hottest though. I usually drink lots of water and stay indoors to cool off, or go to the beach. I have friends here where I live that will be going to the...

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