Sidders

@Sidders (520)

United States • Age 53

Joined myLot 18 years ago

Live life to the fullest!

Sidders's Responses

Do You Ever Feel Guilty About Having Lazy Days?

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 20 Nov 07

Okay, I was inspired for this discussion by one of my dear MyLot friends as she decided to have a lazy "PJ" day. The kind of day, where you just don't want to do much, and maybe just chill out and not have any responsibilities, to...

chill out days taking time for oneself

lazy day

relaxing days

time out

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Sidders My family and I have Saturday night Movie night! We all get in our PJ's and pop popcorn, and plant ourselves on the couch for the night. My boys are 3 and a half now, and lazy days probably wont be for a while. That is why we decided to have movie night! My...

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What's your favorite kitchen tip?

twilight021 @twilight021 (2059) • United States 10 Apr 07

This dosen't have to be a cooking tip...but any tip that has saved you time, money or even general annoyance in the kitchen. One of my favorite tips is about how to keep your plastic tupperware from getting stained but tomato...

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Sidders Great tip!! Thank you! I have a tip too. When cutting garlic, poor a little olive oil on the cutting board. It helps keep the garlic in place while you chop it.

10 Apr 07

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Dealing With Rudeness

jeweledbluerose @jeweledbluerose (3061) • United States 9 Apr 07

A couple days ago I was feeling rather good about myself, so got all dressed up (was wearing a pair of nice dress pants, and a baggy red blouse), did my hair and put on some make-up. For those that don't know me, this is not an...

rudeness

self esteem

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Sidders I would have looked at her and said "your breath smells like dog do do, please step away!" And walked off with a big smile on my face! Some people are clueless! Sorry she targeted you! Chin up! What comes around goes around.

10 Apr 07

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Are all women bad ? Am I a man with bad luck ??

samrat16 @samrat16 (2442) • India 10 Apr 07

I had a bad relationship with a woman who I did not trust from the begining now I have a very hard time trusting women. Am I right to think all women are bad? Or am I just mentally ill? I mean it seems kind of ridiculous to not...

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Sidders You should have trusted your instincts!!! Were you that insacure with yourself to overlook your own happiness?? All I can say is forget it... move on... and make the rest of your life better! Don't look back!!! No regrets!

10 Apr 07

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Racism

Impervious @Impervious (1147) • United States 9 Apr 07

My family and I recently have spent some time in Alabama. Now in all honesty I know that I can at times be racist. However I do my best to try not to be. And to judge people as an individual. Now as to why the time spent in...

racism

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Sidders OF COURSE!!!!! No matter how "GOOD" we try to be.... if someone does something we dislike, or don't agree on, or is just different in a way we don't understand, I believe that to be racist. Now weather we say something about it out loud or to ourselves, I...

10 Apr 07

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Visions - Have you ever had one?

misstree @misstree (241) • United States 9 Apr 07

I'm wondering if anyone else out there has ever had a vision. Be it while meditating, dreaming, or even awake. It can be about anything that you have seen beyond this world. The unexplainable. I will share my story. I was in...

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Sidders Yes, I had a dream while I was sleeping that these huge cylindar things were on fire and that there were explosions. It was one of the strangest dreams I had ever remembered. Well anyway.... the next day I was watching the news and the TEXCO oil refinary had...

10 Apr 07

Should there be a warning label on baby formula?

mamacat @mamacat (22) • United States 9 Apr 07

I came across an article in the new york times called Breast-Feed or Else that talks about putting a warning label on infant formula stating that not breastfeeding is hazardous to your baby's health. This is a quote from it "Just...

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Sidders I think it should be the Mother's choice. I had twin boys and I tried to breastfeed for two weeks. I was so exausted from not only breastfeeding but also pumping... that I finnaly quit. I just couldn't handle sitting on the couch all day and not getting...

10 Apr 07

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what to buy a teenage girl

jonezy @jonezy (293) 1 Jan 07

so im going out with a girl, been with her for just over a month and her birthday is coming up.. honestly what do you get girls at this age (shes 18) now flowers just...i dont know... i dont think would go down too well...jewlerry...

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Sidders Hi Khris, Take her for a picnic with her favorite food, blankets and apple juice. Just show her that you put some thought into her gift, and she will love whatever you do. Draw her a picture. Just keep it simple! Good luck!

2 Jan 07

Can we forgive america?

xxabhix @xxabhix (321) • India 2 Jan 07

can anybody in this world forgive america, if u can tell me how and y, for the very fair trial they gave to saddam? for the love with which they treat the iraqi women (heared some of those bastrds raped the poor women), for their...

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Sidders SHUT UP and GET OVER IT!!!!!!!

2 Jan 07

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Bad luck keeping friends

JashleyB @JashleyB (1441) • United States 2 Jan 07

First off just want to say that I am not depressed! I started the topic from my list and it was the closest thing I could find for this. ;) So, ever since I was about 16 I seem to have terribe luck keeping friends. I always...

bad luck

friends

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Sidders I have lost friends because I felt that I was the only one keeping in touch. After a while, it just does not seem to be worth my time. I hate excuses why they have not called. So I just loose their number.

2 Jan 07

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Do you think it's a bad thing or a bad idea to videotape a babysitter.

sharone74 @sharone74 (4837) • United States 1 Jan 07

I think that it is a good idea to nanny-cam or videotape a child care provider when they come and sit your children. If you have doubts or concerns and you really wanna know what is going down in your home I think that a hidden...

trusting someone with your children

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Sidders Why not. What's the worst that can happen? They turn out to be good babysitters and you spent some money. As long as it gives you piece of mind, that is all that matters!

2 Jan 07

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Husband sold restricted films of wife

k sridharprasad @yugasini (12893) • Secunderabad, India 12 Dec 15

Hi Mylot Friends, A worst husband in Faridabad of Haryana took abused/restricted films of wife and sold in the net market. The story is like that the lady who married a person of Faridabad, Haryana, India in year 2004. After...

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Sidders Hi Mylot Friends, A worst husband in Faridabad of Haryana took abused/restricted films of wife and sold in the net market. The story is like that the lady who married a person of Faridabad, Haryana, India in year 2004. After marriage her in-laws are abusing...

12 Dec 15

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Old people,adult,children which one you want to be ?

rongchangzhu @rongchangzhu (82) • China 17 Jul 08

Childre is so innocent,virgin. Adult is so busy and energertic. However old people have plenty of life experience. which one do you want to be.

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Sidders Childre is so innocent,virgin. Adult is so busy and energertic. However old people have plenty of life experience. which one do you want to be.

17 Jul 08

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hiding the examination to university ??

dinhquanghuy @dinhquanghuy (647) • Vietnam 17 Jul 08

In our country ,to enter university ,the high school pupils have a great examination .If ur mark is above the limit mark ,u pass ,if not ,u fail and have to find another way to live instead of studying in universities . Parents...

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Sidders In our country ,to enter university ,the high school pupils have a great examination .If ur mark is above the limit mark ,u pass ,if not ,u fail and have to find another way to live instead of studying in universities . Parents alway expect their children pass...

17 Jul 08

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Have you experienced Earthquake?

naman95 @naman95 (1552) • India 27 Nov 06

I have not and u?

earthquake

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Sidders I live where there are earthquakes all the time. I have grown up with them so the are not that big of a deal to me. Good foot massage! I live very close to a fault line! It is called the San Andres Fault.

27 Nov 06

Money

u_ibfriends @u_ibfriends (489) • India 27 Nov 06

If you r gifted with abt 100 million dollars by prez bush what do u do

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Sidders live happily ever after!!!! give give give!!! play, travel, help the children of the world, take care of all my family, relitives, friends, and buy my dream house with a view of the ocean!!!

27 Nov 06

welcome every EXERCISE oppertunity

aorgaeni @aorgaeni (125) • Singapore 17 Jul 08

I must mow the lawn, have to send my children to school, put out the rubbish, carry the shopping in, must iron ., have to wash dishes,and so many more all the house works........Oh no! All that pushing, walking, bending,...

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Sidders I must mow the lawn, have to send my children to school, put out the rubbish, carry the shopping in, must iron ., have to wash dishes,and so many more all the house works........Oh no! All that pushing, walking, bending, lifting, I have to do it. It makes...

17 Jul 08

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Bird Flu

geevee @geevee (884) • India 27 Nov 06

How much of a threat are we facing?

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Sidders I dont think anyone has taken it serious. I have but still have not prepared my family for it. I dont know why I am waiting! It does not make any since!

27 Nov 06

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I want the divorce but feel immobilized...

splendor777 @splendor777 (1) 29 May 06

I have been separated for a year from my physically and verbally abusive husband. He has confessed to me that he has fathered a child outside of our marriage and that the child is now five years old. We have been married for...

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Sidders WOW.... sorry to hear that! You could get him arrested for the 17 yr old. Has he ever threatened you? If so .... tell the police you fear for your life and the life of your children. Go to friends and family for help. You are better than this and do not...

27 Nov 06