SweetestMagnolia

@SweetestMagnolia (4)

Canada • Age 62

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Should we compare ourselves with others?

mari123 @mari123 (1861) • China 22 Sep 07

In our culture a lot of times people advise us to compare ourselves with others. They say, for example, "You should be like your father." or "You can win; the others aren't as good as you." How far do you agree with these...

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SweetestMagnolia Hi Mari,...each of us offers something unique to those around us. To strive for excellence is admirable but comparing ourselves to others is futile. Learning from others is humbling and insightful which I try to do. Whether it is a bad or good example I...

22 Sep 07

should i blame my dad for leaving us?

jHoEn16 @jHoEn16 (2043) • Australia 21 Sep 07

its been 24 years since my dad left us... until now it was still a big ? for me what really happened and what are the reasons why he left.. all i know is that he left us when i was only 5 months old on my mums tummy.. i...

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SweetestMagnolia Hello jHoEn...many of us have some sad memories from our childhood. I am sorry for Your sad experiences and how you have suffered much. What happened to us while still young damages us and sometimes stays with us till we die. It is what You do with those...

22 Sep 07

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my life as I knew it is OVER !

raydene @raydene (9871) • United States 14 Sep 07

Hello, I just want to let you know what is happening. I found yesterday that my husband..my best friend..the man I thought I would grow old with...my soulmate..has been having an affair for over 13 years. My heart is bleeding to...

cheating husband

need my friends

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SweetestMagnolia First of all, I am very sorry for Your situation and how painful it is to go through something like this. I was married for over 20 yrs. and my Ex cheated on me since we were dating when he finally felt like confessing. I don't understand why he stayed. He...

14 Sep 07

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