Vivek_Nik

@Vivek_Nik (62)

India • Age 42

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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What you want on your next Birthday?

311982 @311982 (679) • India 16 Oct 06

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Vivek_Nik Air blowing on my hair, my feet digging into the sand, eyes gazing upon the sunset on the sea shore, myself and my girlfriend holding hands and walking down the beach with waves hitting our feet. All in all an exotic island. Hmmm i guess that would be a...

15 Dec 06

what should i do?

rglodak @rglodak (573) • Indonesia 8 Dec 06

My girlfriend and I have been going out for a long time , things have gotten more serious we are talking about getting married soon, she is basically telling me I will be the provider of anything that involves money , eg. buying a...

girlfriend

have

money

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Vivek_Nik You need to sit and talk to her. If you want to get married to her means you will have to share the sweet and hard times together. Both of you have to be mentally matured enough to handle the difficulties life offers you. She needs to understand what you are...

12 Dec 06

whats the best gift that can be given to a girl?

utopia @utopia (324) • United States 14 Oct 06

I suppose a rose, whats your take on it

gift

girl

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Vivek_Nik A big bunch of roses and a some gift which she has been wanting to buy for a long time or something she wanted to do or something that will help her with her day to day chores. This way she will be reminded of u everytime she gets to use the gift and she will...

12 Dec 06

Is it bad to be a virgin at 22

khushboo1984 @khushboo1984 (1257) • India 23 Oct 06

In one of the posts I had posted that i am a virgin at the age of 22 . I have been getting responses since then and people are astonished that I am still a virgin. Is it wrong to be a virgin at this age? What are your views please...

virgin

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Vivek_Nik I absolutely fine. In my country most of them are virgins till they get married. Everyone waits so that they can share that special moment with the special person they are going to spend their life with. Its a amazing feeling to give your life partner that...

12 Dec 06

Have you ever Seen a Live Concert in Life????

uzaircs @uzaircs (2318) • Sharjah, United Arab Emirates 11 Dec 06

Have you ever Seen a Live Concert in Life????i have seen lot of times and i have meet lot of singers what about you..and how much you like to go in concerts???

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Vivek_Nik I have seen about 4 -5 of them. 2 Bryan Adam shows, 1 Enrique and many other artists like Viva,Junoon, etc.

12 Dec 06

who all Liked the show Friends On TV?

freeeesssss @freeeesssss (721) • India 8 Dec 06

friends

show

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Vivek_Nik Friends has been my favourite for a very long time. i have grown up watching this series. Everyday after school i used to come running home to watch friends. Now even after so many years after a hectic day at work i relax by watchin any episode of friends. I...

12 Dec 06

which country girls are more beautiful...?

hitlerz_rules @hitlerz_rules (89) • India 27 Nov 06

which country girls are more beautiful...

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Vivek_Nik i Guess its from India.. On an average you would find more beautiful girls here compared to other countries.

8 Dec 06

Indian Girls are Bold and Beautiful !!!

vasmin @vasmin (10) • India 2 Dec 06

What is your point of view about Indian Girls.

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Vivek_Nik You cannot generalise.. there are many whom i personally know who are so meek and afraid of everything. But again there are many of them who can handle any situation.

8 Dec 06

I need advice, PLEASE HELP!!!!

momumdee @momumdee (42) • United States 6 Dec 06

My sons father and I have been on and off for 8 years. We have had some good times but mostly bad. Recently I decided that he is not for me, but he now thinks we are meant for each other. He says he will marry me if I loose...

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Vivek_Nik When you have decided to leave i suggest you leave him. Someone who is not ready to accept you the way you are is not worth hanging around with. But i only feel sorry for your son. Hope good things happen for him and he is not affected by this.

8 Dec 06

“Sorry” First

bb00100bb @bb00100bb (193) • China 5 Dec 06

There is one word that is on the lips of Americans, day and night: “Sorry.” One time as I was walking on the street, a young man ran by hurriedly, brushing against my handbag. Even as he continued on his way, he turned back...

sorry

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Vivek_Nik We are thought from when we are very young to say sorry for all the mistakes that we do. But over time as we grow up we really dont know for what we have to say sorry and for what not. So it so happens that whenever there is friction of any sort we end up...

8 Dec 06

70 cents

karankhanna04 @karankhanna04 (283) • India 12 Oct 09

i joined 70 cents upgraded to level 1...now i got 8 referalls...but reicved nothing in my account..what is the problem...do the referalls of mine also have...

Vivek_Nik i joined 70 cents upgraded to level 1...now i got 8 referalls...but reicved nothing in my account..what is the problem...do the referalls of mine also have to

12 Oct 09

My Best Kept Secret.

Addilee @Addilee (12) • Philippines 6 Dec 06

This happened nine years ago when i was still in college, i just turned 18 then, so young and so naive.I had this boyfriend that is so caring, kind & so sweet,then somethig happened between us and I got pregnant. Too afraid of my...

experiences

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Vivek_Nik Wow. I am amazed at how well you handled the situation at such a young age. Great going. I am very happy that you have a wonderful and understanding husband. Good you didnt get back with that boyfriend of yours.

8 Dec 06

Have you ever heard of such a thing?

mskim2u2004 @mskim2u2004 (355) • United States 5 Dec 06

I was watching Montel once. This woman was on the show and telling about how she had such a hard pregnancy. I guess you're probably saying "What do you mean har? It's never been easy." During her pregnancy she was extremely...

health issues

life choices

pregnancy concerns

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Vivek_Nik This is a very bad situation. It is quite scary. You have to make a choice between your life and your babies. Under such a situation its very dificult to tell. But i guess the mother should survive. As during the process of child birth if the mother dies then...

8 Dec 06

If you were stranded in the mountains in the snow, what would you do?

emagyne @emagyne (664) • United States 5 Dec 06

I was watching the news or something and they were talking about that couple that got stranded in Oregon in the snow. The man was some big shot at CNet and he left and went to look for help but they cant find him now. The mother...

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Vivek_Nik You need to be very enterprising and resourceful at times like this.. Very importantly you need to try and inform somebody about the situation. Then look out for food. If you could not contact anyone then maybe you will have to try and reach civilization...

8 Dec 06

Time management

somctc @somctc (41) • India 6 Dec 06

Hi everyone, I'm glad i found this forum. I am doing graduation, and actiively involved in many activities like swimming, surfing the internet, applying for part-time, full-time jobs,and most importantly, i do a lot of camping,...

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Vivek_Nik You can stop your camping for a while.. swimming and part-time jobs maybe you can continue it for a while.. But that will have to stop to as you near very close to the exam.. Exams are the most important compared to anything.. a few days of not swimming or...

8 Dec 06

Smoking Throughout Pregnancy...

megs85 @megs85 (3142) • Australia 6 Dec 06

Okay, I'm ashamed to admit it, but I smoked throughout my entire pregnancy. Perhaps I was just lucky but there seems to have been no ill effects on my son. He was a good weight, really tall (hes allergic to milk but lactose...

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Vivek_Nik Smoking is injurious.. Just because one or two cases happened to be alright it doesnt mean there is no effect on the child. Its your child that is within you.. Why would you want to play around with something so precious.. You can always smoke after the...

8 Dec 06

where do i belong?

leonilyn @leonilyn (467) • Philippines 5 Dec 06

hi, i have this colleague that is having fun of talking somebody else business. i tried to stop her before but she gets mad at me.since then i've tried to go with the flow.i also do what she is doing. i know we can hurt somebody...

friends

gossip

office

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Vivek_Nik Since u felt wrong about it in the first place you should not have gotten into it.. But now that you are involved, talk to the person affected and apologise for the mistake. Also stop supporting or being part of your friends gossiping.. She has not listened to...

8 Dec 06

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girlfriend or career?

phdmoneymaker @phdmoneymaker (2297) • Singapore 6 Dec 06

Girlfriend or career? which is more important to a guy? starting a family first or starting a career first? to me, i believe both are important, i got a wonderful girlfriend, but she is quite possessive, taking majority of my...

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Vivek_Nik You are in a better situation than me.. i have a wonderful girlfriend who is understanding and caring.. She is not that too possesive that she disturbs me in office.. but now i have to go out of the country for over a year for my career.. I will have to leave...

7 Dec 06

My poorly Doberman - any ideas what this could be?

rainbow @rainbow (6761) 6 Dec 06

My Newty-dog is nearly 13 and has several fatty lumps. We went for her yearly check last week and she was fine. For a long time she has had a little hard marble sized lump under the skin on her back. This morning it has...

doberman

pets

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Vivek_Nik I have a dog with the same problem. She also has a lump in her back for over a year now.. But unlike your case its growing at a very slow pace... I can see a very slight growth in its size after one year.. It doesnt bother my dog either.. So as long as it...

7 Dec 06

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Do you give money to beggars?

dexterous21 @dexterous21 (1180) • Philippines 6 Dec 06

I was in a wet market this morning to buy some fruits. Suddenly, a boy, maybe 8 years old beg for some money from me. I gave him because I can see that he is very hungry. When he went away, another one ask money from me again. I...

beggar

street children

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Vivek_Nik Noways... i never give money to a beggar if he is fit and healthy to work.. Begging has slowly become a profession.. people find it easy to make money here.. all they need to do is to let go of their self esteem.. I have seen many young and well built men...

7 Dec 06

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