a_s_h_l_e_y

@a_s_h_l_e_y (46)

Canada • Age 36

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i am so fed up!!!!!

Super_Mommy @Super_Mommy (119) • United States 3 Mar 09

I have the most disfunctional family ever! Seriously! So it's a long story I'll try to shorten it. My sister has 4 kids and would rather do drugs and party rather than take care of them. She's with an abusive guy and DSS already...

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a_s_h_l_e_y Its totally understandable that your very upset about this situation. If it was me I would have a seriouse sit down discussion with my family. Clearly you dont want to have to cut them out of your life. But what there doing could be harmfull to you and your...

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Would you wait two hours, for a pizza, to get delivered to you?

cream97 @cream97 (29086) • United States 3 Mar 09

I was in the mood and I had a craving for a pizza. So, about two weeks ago, I called to place an order over the phone for a pizza at Pizza Hut. And the guy told me that it would be a two hour delay before I would be able to get my...

delay

pizza

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a_s_h_l_e_y Well its completely understandable that things happen and they may have had a long wait but there is nothing wrong with you going somewhere else...2 hours is a very long time to wait, especially if you have a craving! Im sure pizza hut was expecting to lose...

3 Mar 09

Belittling salesclerks part 2

Theresaaiza @Theresaaiza (10487) • Australia 3 Mar 09

Earlier on, I started a discussion "have you often felt being belittled by salesclerks" Allow me to share an experience where I tried to get back at a salesclerk for treating me so coldly. Well, one time I entered a record...

belittling salesclerks

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a_s_h_l_e_y I dont blame you for acting like that. Sometimes people are so obliviouse to how they act towards other people that they need a reminder. I love the kill them with kindness technique :) Its so much fun to be super happy to some1 who is trying to make you...

3 Mar 09

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Do you wear shoes in the house?

jesssp @jesssp (2712) • Canada 2 Mar 09

This is one of those things where Canadians and Americans are supposed to differ. Apparently us crazy Canucks insist on people removing their shoes whilst indoors but people south of the border prefer to keep 'em on. Is there any...

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a_s_h_l_e_y Im also canadian and do not wear shoes in the house. It would be so unconfortable, not to mention if you had white carpets could you imagine how dirty they would get and fast!

2 Mar 09

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Getting fired because of Facebook. Have you been ranting?

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 1 Mar 09

It may come as a surprise but there was a news at CNN online today about a girl who got fired because she was ranting about how she hates her job at facebook. Anyhow, that's not the topic I'd like to talk about. I'd like to ask...

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a_s_h_l_e_y I think its completely normal for people to be dissatisfied with there job at one point or another, after all dont we just have a horrible day and go home and go urgh i hate my job....not meaning it of course....however going on line and ranting about it or...

2 Mar 09

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joint accounts

reneerose @reneerose (106) • United States 2 Mar 09

I am curious to know how most of you weigh in on MArried couples financial arrangements? Do you each have your own checking accounts, credit cards, etc or do you prefer joint accounts and credit cards? I much prefer separate...

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a_s_h_l_e_y Im not married, but this is what I do: Me and my bf's accounts are seperate but we are going to be making his bank account into a joint account. I take care of all the bills and making sure they all get payed, buying groceries all of that. Its so much easier...

2 Mar 09

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What would you do?

Cillysophie @Cillysophie (327) • United States 2 Mar 09

You'll soon be moving across the country. A knowledgeable but somewhat shady acquaintance says that if you leave without paying your rent, telephone, fuel oil, or lighting bills, none of the companies involved will spend...

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a_s_h_l_e_y I would not take the chance. Sometimes companys will not take action, but most will, no matter where you move to. Why take the chance in screwing up your credit which can take much longer to fix then it did to screw it up.

2 Mar 09

How Many Hours Do You Sleep?

tyronie4cash @tyronie4cash (925) • Philippines 2 Mar 09

Hey guys, How many hours do you sleep a day? Don't count the siesta time ^_~ I'm not satisfied if I don't sleep 12hours, lol. I sleep a lot, or let's say too long? Sometimes I even sleep 14hours or more. I just don't know why,...

bed

hours

sleep

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a_s_h_l_e_y I try to sleep at least 8 hours. On nights where i work both my jobs though i dont get home till 10:30 so 8 hours just doesnt happen. And well on weekends it depends what i did the day before, usually ill sleep 8-10 hours on the weekends...as well as a nap in...

2 Mar 09

Maybe I will change my mind

suspenseful @suspenseful (40192) • Canada 1 Mar 09

I was wondering when you decide to buy something that you had your heart set on, and you almost had the money to pay for it, and then you go on the net or ask your friends about it, then decide it is not that hot. Then you go and...

what shall i buy this or that

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a_s_h_l_e_y Im sure by the time you go to buy it you will have decided! I can never make up my mind or i always change it at the last second but in the end it all works out...i usually end up with both after a while lol

2 Mar 09

Do you think that all young adults should go to college?

ladyluna @ladyluna (7004) • United States 2 Mar 09

Hello All, First, I'll define college or university as the post-secondary education obtained at 2-year, and 4-year colleges and universities. Do you think that every young adult should attend college or university? If so,...

college

education

important decision

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a_s_h_l_e_y To answer your question I would say no, not every young adult should attend college or university. The reason I say this is its just not for everyone. There are plenty of reasons to go to post secondary but I have seen many people successfull who havent gone....

2 Mar 09

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he's touching me without my permission!

sandragellar @sandragellar (440) • Philippines 2 Mar 09

have you ever been pregnant? or do you know of anyone who has been pregnant and as complained about having her belly touched without permission? sometimes people tend to forget that the pregnant belly is still a belly, and...

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a_s_h_l_e_y I could definatly see how that would be anoying. Personally i've never stroked a pregnant belly unless some1 tells me to because the baby is kicking or what not. Now if I was pregnant I would much rather prefer if a person asks before they touch...there is no...

2 Mar 09

When do you know if it is time to leave a relationship for good?

cream97 @cream97 (29086) • United States 1 Mar 09

I am asking all men and women this question. I do know that what real feelings that one can have can diminish. And this can cause a relationship to go down south. What things will have to take place, for you to convince yourself...

relationship

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a_s_h_l_e_y Im thinking once you realise that the same feelings just arent there anymore and that you dont see yourself with this person in the future than its time to leave. Its not fair to waste your or the other persons time for something that you dont see happening

2 Mar 09

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Would you commit abortion?

Theresaaiza @Theresaaiza (10487) • Australia 26 Feb 09

If you'd commit abortion or recommend someone to do it, what would your reason be?

abortion

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a_s_h_l_e_y I think this is such a hard topic to have a definate yes or no to. I dont think I could ever have an abortion, im 21 years old now and even though im not ready to have a baby if it happened I wouldnt take away that childs life for my own. If it came down to it...

2 Mar 09

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Do young people expect too much today?

5SCPapaLou1 @5SCPapaLou1 (143) • United States 1 Mar 09

I was reading a post where a young girl who had a cell phone wanted a newer released cell phone. The young girl got mad because the family couldn't afford to buy it. I've noticed for a long time the many young people who have...

family

life

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a_s_h_l_e_y I think there is an argument for both sides on this one: For one I do agree, kids expect alot in this day and age, the newest phone, brand name clothes, etc etc. I used to be just like that, now im just as content wearing a shirt from walmart that only cost...

2 Mar 09

when to help a friend

cathya @cathya (704) • Philippines 1 Mar 09

Do you help your friend every time? I have this friend who keeps on borrowing money from me, I told her i really don't have extra money to lend her cause am paying my cards and other staff. I asked our other friends if "this...

helping a friend

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a_s_h_l_e_y Its a tricky situation. I would say help her, but not by giving her money. If she keeps asking you for money and you always give it to her she is never going to stop. Talk to her about it, she has to understand that you dont have a lot of extra money lying...

2 Mar 09

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Check? or is it Cheque?

ahgong @ahgong (10064) • Singapore 26 Feb 09

I have always wondered why there are two version of the same english word. They both mean the same thing. A piece of paper with written instructions to the bank to make a payment. And when I was in school, I learn that the...

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a_s_h_l_e_y I use check when im talking about checking something...like making sure someone is correct. And then I use cheque to refer to the cheque you bring to the bank

27 Feb 09

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Hard times with step-daughter...

Daddy Neil @neildc (17239) • Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines 27 Feb 09

Yesterday, my wife and I were in a local doctor to have our baby checked his asthma. In the long line-up of patients, we came to get near our number at 11:20, almost 2 hours of waiting. So my wife told me to call her daughter who...

friendship

parenting

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a_s_h_l_e_y I would say your overreacting a bit to much. Its surprisingly easy to text in class, even answer your phone especially if everyone else is distracted. I wouldnt worry about it to much, cell phones and texting is part of that generation now, and as hard as the...

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do you lend friends money?

jhl930 @jhl930 (3601) • United States 26 Feb 09

i have always heard that you shouldn't loan friends money because it can ruin a friendship but i was also thinking that if you don't try and help your friend out, are you being a good friend to them, sitting there watching them...

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a_s_h_l_e_y I would rather try to do other things if I could then loan out money. It depends on what time of situation the person is in. For example if the person is spending all their money on alcohol or other things like that then giving them money isnt going to help...

27 Feb 09

Does your man always look at other women and ask you to be like this and that?

pujagupta @pujagupta (102) • India 27 Feb 09

After marriage women face a very dramatic kind of situation i.e. man keep looking at the other women and keeps asking his wife to behave like that or to dress like that or to dance like that or to talk like that. That is so very...

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a_s_h_l_e_y Men looking at other woman is not a bad thing. After all we look at other men and go "oh he's cute" However there is a certain point where it crosses a line, there is always going to be gorgeouse women out there and I dont mind if my bf looks at them but if he...

27 Feb 09

Sugar~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

marciascott @marciascott (25529) • United States 27 Feb 09

I was putting me some Cereal out of the box into my bowl, and I have a glass jar, I was trying to get some Sugar out of it and it was so stiff and all pack together. There is something you can do to make the sugar smooth and easy...

sugar

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a_s_h_l_e_y Ive never had this problem with white sugar but brown sugar I have. I remember I used to see these little things that you could put in the sugar so this wouldnt happen.

27 Feb 09

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