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shona264 @shona264 (167) • India 23 Nov 09

Many couples stay married for a long time.But are they happy together?Or do they only stay together for security,children etc, waiting for the day when death do us part?In your opinion,what is the one thing a couple must have to...

couples

marriage

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abanerji i think te one thing to sustain a relationship is RESPECT. when you respect a person then you automatically love, trust and try to understand the person.

23 Nov 09

eurekafemme @eurekafemme (5876) • Philippines 15 Nov 09

Hair is our crowning glory especially for women. Most men I've met prefer a long hair gal. They said she looks more feminine and sexy. I don't know about that, how long hair makes a girl looks sexy. LOL.However, I wear my hair...

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abanerji hi eureka! i feel hair style is very important part of our looks so it is always better to keep a style that suits your face cut. as for me, when i feel like having long hair i start growing it and when i feel like keeping it short it cut it. but i take...

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eurekafemme @eurekafemme (5876) • Philippines 15 Nov 09

Some of us are good in giving advise. Some of us are very well adept in giving criticisms. We often told our kids what's bad or good. Do this or do that. But, when we come to evaluate our own deeds, we then realize that there are...

life

love

people

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abanerji hi yeah, i try to practise what i preach. there are things which i don't do but i feel like preaching. in such cases, i do the preaching and let the person know that i am unable to follow what i preached...

15 Nov 09

moondoll31 @moondoll31 (48) • India 15 Nov 09

i've had diaries since the day i entered college.its got all my secret stuff,my first crush,my datings with my boyfriend whose my husband and a father now.an entire journey on how i met him,places where we went,movies we...

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abanerji hi moondoll31!! i had diaries that had my feelings and emotions hidden in the pages. for me it was not a safe idea. my hostel room mates saw me penning thoughts and out of inquisitiveness they stole my diary and read it in a group in my absence. i felt so...

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gayu27 @gayu27 (28) • India 15 Nov 09

In my life i take my father as a role model bcoz every moment he should plan a life in correct path and he achieve the goal quickly.

people i admire

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abanerji my mother is my role model. she is a perfectionist and has the capacity to sacrifice anything for anybody. she is far -far away from materialistic pleasures. i know i am not like her bbut i always try being like her..

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Tina83 @Tina83 (1223) • India 8 Nov 09

I believe in God, the Almighty presense is their in our life its a true thing.What do you feel in God, ever felt the Almighty existence.

almighty presense

god

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abanerji it is true that God exists and i even believe. there have been times when i felt only God could help me and i was helped even. but then there are ties when i need God's help but i don't find it.. may be there is soe mistake in my efforts or may be i don't...

8 Nov 09

itsmauricecassidy @itsmauricecassidy (298) 8 Nov 09

So I was curious when this came to my mind. Do you feel that you need friends in your life? People might say no - I have my family for that and others might state the other way around saying Friends help you out when...

friends important family sleepover people life

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abanerji yes, we all need friends in life. friends are not just for hanging around with. friends means much more than fun. there are many things that we don't wish to discuss with family, it could be some problem we are in or some other secret, which would...

8 Nov 09

Ami @ami2007 (221) • China 7 Nov 09

after having a word with somebody,i feel a cold anger rising in my heart.i felt myself being taken advantage .my thoughts are stirred and it becomes impossible for me to concentrate any more.it is not the first time that i found...

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abanerji well ami, for some people it becomes difficult to control the emotions. for a person like me, i don't share my feelings with people in that case, i am controlled most of the times. even if i am upset over something, i very easily hide it behind a smile... i...

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onlinemoneyjourney @onlinemoneyjourney (235) • Australia 8 Nov 09

Just out of interest: What are you doing or have you done today? I went shopping and pretty much spent the rest of the day on the internet. Somewhat boring I'd say!

doing today

life

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abanerji my day has started with a late wake up... its not noon here as yet.. i am planning for some shppping in the late afternoon. apart from this there is nothing special about the day when i am over with the shopping i would get back to my internet. but sundays are...

8 Nov 09

amit2506 @amit2506 (233) • India 4 Nov 09

I always believe in my hardwork as I know I am very unlucky and will surely build my luck from this hardwork

believe

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abanerji hard work pays but only if luck is with you. certain things are not destined but with hardwork we try to achieve them. to some extent we even reach but we don't get what we actually wished for. i know this is negative thinking but i have not witnessed...

5 Nov 09

rameshkumaar57 @rameshkumaar57 (5908) • India 3 Nov 09

Is it summer, or is it the rainy season or is it winter. As far as I am concerned, my city is always hot, hotter and hottest. We do not have any winter or cold season, and as far as monsoon is concerned, it rains just for a few...

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abanerji hi! in my city, summers are too hot and the winters are too cold... so i love the spring season. the atmosphere is pleasent and there are flowers everywhere...

4 Nov 09

rorisricha @rorisricha (732) • India 3 Nov 09

When we go out for functions, parties....in pics we see patches on our face here and there how to avoid that?

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abanerji hi! 1. fetch a good concealer and foundation that matches your skin tone. avoid using anything that is darker or lighter than your skin tone. 2. on a moisturised face first dab the concealer and cover the dark spots on the face. 3. then apply the...

4 Nov 09

Ansen zhu @mac_fish (723) • China 2 Nov 09

Ye, I take the posts I've started as my babies,they are my pround. Their souls are my pionts,and they exist for some reasons to tell my friends how was I going everyday ,to show what I am to strangers,to show my standpiont on...

posts

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abanerji hi mac_fish! even i feel so, i write not for money but to express my feelings. when people understand my feelings and share their own feelings i feel good.

2 Nov 09

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careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 2 Nov 09

Sometimes, I read newspaper while walking in a public places when it's not really crowded. Other time when I bought a magazine and I can't wait not to take a look what's inside. How about you, do you read anything while walking?

reading

walking

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abanerji no i don't read while walking on the steet. i live in a crowded city and reading while walking is not a good idea. i try to read the advertisement banners but avoid doing that even. anyway, it is not good to read while walking, it would affect the eyes...

2 Nov 09

parshince @parshince (22) • Philippines 1 Nov 09

i get jealous easily..is it n0rmal in a guy that he would lo0k into an0ther girl..especially ig the girl attracts that much..sexy, beautiful, and nice.. would i be jealous if he is watching another girl even were walking...

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abanerji hi you want to be loved, to be cared, to be respected and to be trusted by your guy... but do you give him all this in return..? you get irritated when he looks at someone eles.. believe me, even you look at other guys, it is a human tendency. even your...

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parshince @parshince (22) • Philippines 1 Nov 09

i get jealous easily..is it n0rmal in a guy that he would lo0k into an0ther girl..especially ig the girl attracts that much..sexy, beautiful, and nice.. would i be jealous if he is watching another girl even were walking...

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abanerji hi you want to be loved, to be cared, to be respected and to be trusted by your guy... but do you give him all this in return..? you get irritated when he looks at someone eles.. believe me, even you look at other guys, it is a human tendency. even your...

1 Nov 09

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54susan @54susan (281) • China 27 Oct 09

to me,the happiest thing here is to receive a friend request.the first thing i would do after i log in mylot is to check if anyone wants to add me as his(or her)friend:P what about u?^^ 90

happy mylotting

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abanerji hi 54susan! i feel happy when i respond to a discussion that is helpful in some way. nevertheless, myLot is good place to hangout and free oneself from all the stress. i am always happy to be here...

1 Nov 09

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Shar19 @Shar19 (8231) • United States 24 Oct 09

I remember when I was around 8 or 9 years old the nurse at school told me that I needed glasses. I was so upset that I would never wear them in school. Back then kids got picked on for wearing glasses. Now it's more accepted by...

glasses

school

vision

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abanerji hi shar soon after high school i started wearing glasses. i didn't mind wearing them too. eveyone in my family wears so it was not a problem for me. during college friends started calling my 'specky'. some said i don't look good with them so i stopped using...

25 Oct 09

rjl1989 @rjl1989 (190) 24 Oct 09

It seems women are always complaining about men's faults, but what do men actually do better than women? It would be nice to have answers from some women here to see what things you're glad to have a man around for and think...

better

men

women

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abanerji there are mnay things that men do better than women... 1. men can shop quickly 2. men don't have to go back to the shop to change the thing that they purchased 3. men get ready much faster than women 4. generally , men have interest in sports and news,...

25 Oct 09

Ansen zhu @mac_fish (723) • China 25 Oct 09

WILL u feel shame if there are seldom comments followed ur comment. I do,and it lasts a pretty long time,what a pity. So,what about u,will u blame urself and wanna find out what's wrong with ur post even ur mind/urself if that...

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abanerji it's not shameful for me when people don't comment back but truely speaking i feel bad.. i feel left out. even if i am critisized for something i still love to read them and i take the critisism as a lesson for my next work. when a post of mine is loaded...

25 Oct 09

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