aikastacruz

@aikastacruz (187)

Philippines • Age 37

Joined myLot 18 years ago

I wish i could ask all the questions in my mind - but i fear of breaking my heart upon hearing the answers..

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How You Heal Your Sadness?

viollet_ry @viollet_ry (968) • Indonesia 15 Jul 07

If I got something in my mind or feeling sad, mostly I do singing. I have a small home theatre at home so its easy for me sing it all out. And I feel better when I am done. Do you do anything different? And what will that be?...

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aikastacruz when im sad i normally hit the hay and sleep.. when i just couldnt get off to sleep i'd watch a funny or suspense dvd film.. time runs so fast when i watch, thats why i prefer doing so..

22 Aug 07

How long is the healing process of a broken-hearted?

kreizhy @kreizhy (111) • Philippines 22 Aug 07

It took me almost 6 months before completely healed. It is really hard to cope up. Almost everyday I cried and I didn't eat. Time really heals, just keep yourself busy. Go out with your family and friends to forget the problem...

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aikastacruz no one really cant tell in my opinion.. but i do have a question still, do we really have a "healing" process? i mean, after all the pain we've gone through, is it all obtrusive enough for us to say "we are healing"?

22 Aug 07

Mother kills her 2 children over a divorce!

nickspinky @nickspinky (198) • United States 21 Aug 07

http://www.houmatoday.com/article/20070820/BREAKING/70820006 I cant believe first of all a mother would do this, but than to do it over a divorce. Well I am extremely glad she lived to be able to go through the torture of sitting...

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mother kills her child over a divorce

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aikastacruz thats insane!i think the mother is really out of her mind..

22 Aug 07

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What do you miss today?

butterfly39 @butterfly39 (3904) • Philippines 18 Jul 07

Well, I miss my sisters, my mom and friends who are far away from me but we chat every other day...Now she's offline that's why I miss her... Do you miss something/someone today?

life

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aikastacruz i miss REAL happiness./..

15 Aug 07

WHAT DO YOUR FRIENDS SAY ABOUT YOU? And do you agree to most of what they say?

maiax2k6 @maiax2k6 (535) • Philippines 14 Aug 07

I have my share of feedbacks or criticisms - whatever you call it - from my really close friends. for some you like enough to agree - like 'you look fabulous for your age' or 'you're a knockout for your outfit' etc... as for...

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aikastacruz my friend know me better, they know what i really feel.. i mean, they knew me well that even if i tell things to them they'd definitely know how to read my sayings.. somewhat like reading between the liness.. they know when i fake my smile and they know when i...

15 Aug 07

BECOMING KIDS or STAYING ADULTS?

singlepixel @singlepixel (2743) 15 Aug 07

when kids play(nieces,nephews,children,etc...) around the house(and you're free), do you normally join in and have fun together or just have fun watching them play?

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aikastacruz im 20 but all my nieces, nephews, cousins who tends to be called "children" thought im still like at their age.. i like playing with kids, i love kids actually.. thats why all of them really like playing with me regardless of my age haha

15 Aug 07

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I am losing hope with this life..may God take me with his loving home:(

angel_of_charm @angel_of_charm (4134) • Philippines 7 Aug 07

my friends i am losing hope onmy life..for 23 years of living i lived miserable..all things that is happening is strking me to death..i cannot face another tomorrow to believe that i am living in this world full of people who are...

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aikastacruz iv felt that too my friend.. i mean there are times i feel like giving it up to0.. im 20 and i miss my high school life and the like.. i wish i didnt grew up, i just felt likt its more fun being so so young.. without taking any risk, without taking any...

15 Aug 07

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Do you feel like things that happen in life are meant to happen?

ranitam22 @ranitam22 (1146) • United States 14 Aug 07

I was brought up with the notion that there is a place for everyone in this world and everyone is sent here to do something. In other words, when things happen "it was meant to be or it happens for a reason" For example,...

fate

life

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aikastacruz there are times when i just wanted to agree that everything are destined to happen.. but at some point it gets confusing.. how can it be destined to happen if we never chose the decision we opt to choose? how will it happen if we didnt do anything to make it...

15 Aug 07

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Girls, do you mind your boyfriend/partner shorter than you are?

maean_19 @maean_19 (4655) • Philippines 14 Aug 07

To all females out there: I can see that nowadays, it seems that women are becoming superior in the society. In terms of lovelife and relationships, is it a big deal if your partner is shorten than you are? In turn, for...

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aikastacruz isnt it when we love we never set preferences, or should i say we cannot set preferences.. we love despite and in spite of right?

14 Aug 07

what about a person makes you like them?

justnikkihere @justnikkihere (107) • Australia 7 Aug 07

For me its if they make me feel comfortable and if it feels like ive known them longer then i have. how bout you?

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aikastacruz im more up to those who are intelligible enough.. i want humble ones... i dont want those who pretend they know everything but really dont.. i want friendly ones, those who wouldnt show a way where he'd know you'd be in a great trouble..................

14 Aug 07

Are you alway call your friend or send messages to your friend?

fikiabc @fikiabc (279) • China 14 Aug 07

My best friend is studying in south and i studying in north,everyday i will send a message to her ,of course every Sunday ,i will take a pjone to her ,we have not much time to spend togher with our friend ,i don't how to you get...

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aikastacruz my friends and i are in college right now... but we're too distant from each other... like you, i have a friend that goes to school in south, UP losbanos, two in manila, one in north, baguio, and we're 3 here in central, pampanga.. though the 3 of us seem so...

14 Aug 07

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i just want so say that i am proud of my relationship!proud of us!

urzicutza @urzicutza (1971) • Romania 11 Jan 07

i have the most amazing relationship i have ever dreamed about!i feel more love that i ever felt in my life!i have the most wonderful person in the planet!we love each other and we have manged to go true bad and good times,sad and...

everything

love

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aikastacruz you seemed so happy about how your relationship's going,. thats great.. =) i wish my relationship with my bf would be as amazing as yours., hopin` for our happiness, goodluck and godbless! be happy always.. love truly., =)

12 Aug 07

Love is a decision

sneese @sneese (95) • United States 10 Aug 07

I have had this discussion with many friends and only a few have agreed with me. I would like to ask your opinion. Everyone thinks of love as an emotion. Something that we are not really in control of. But I say that love is a...

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aikastacruz yes its a decision.. but love can either be a chance or a choice or maybe a chance by choice or a choice by chance.. hehe., if its a chance, you have to "decide" whether you're gonna go for it or not.. and if its a choice, of course you'd "decide" too for how...

10 Aug 07

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what is love???????????

sakthivel_999 @sakthivel_999 (92) • India 23 Jun 07

the luv that arises between the age limit 16-20 is *Infactuation *Crush *for lust *time pass *any other please mention

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aikastacruz love is the agony of holding on however love is also happiness knowing you are IN love..

10 Aug 07

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being loved and giving out love..... does it require hard work?

neilgian @neilgian (20) • Philippines 10 Aug 07

there is no greater feeling than being loved and accepted for who you are. When you love, you do not have to set standards. If you think that something is missing with that someone, fill it up and learn to compromise. Love does...

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aikastacruz being loved? the good side: - yea true its such a nice feeling.. the warmth is there.. you feel your importnant and the like.. the bad side: - you cant do anything you want, specially the things youve been up before.. certain things tend to have limits and...

10 Aug 07

May-December Love Affair

dolce_vita78 @dolce_vita78 (8062) • Philippines 9 Aug 07

When we say May-December Love Affair, we are actually referring to a relationship where the man is way older than the woman or the woman is way older than the man. There are those who would frown upon this kind of relationship but...

relationships

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aikastacruz my beb is 8 years older than me.. love isnt age for the matter, yes we do have arguments, we have petty probs.. but its part of the so-called relationship.. its part of the foundation.. yes i agree to what youve said, as long as we love each other theres no...

9 Aug 07

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What is the most special day in your life? The day you wish the most...........

rakhii @rakhii (1302) • India 24 Jun 07

Everyone has some special days in their life. These days can be: -the day they were born - when they kept their foot in school -got a trophy -got their first job -got into love -got engaged -got married -got their first...

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aikastacruz i have many actually, but first in the list is Sept. 14, 2005. here, i knew myself better and found someone who i wanna live forever with.. i hope i get to experience how it feels to be engage or married, but i doubt it.. anyway, everyday is a special day for...

9 Aug 07

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