andrewbarclave

@andrewbarclave (485)

Ireland • Age 35

Joined myLot 11 years ago

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Mylot shutting down!!!

Arnab Roy @arnabroy16 (438) • Howrah, India 30 Apr 13

Mylot is shutting down and I am in big trouble.I am a new member of this site and never been able to cashout from mylot.Now I only have $3.05 in my account.I read the alert where it is written that members above $5...

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andrewbarclave I am in a similar boat and have a little less than you. I suggest just creating as many discussions as you can think of beforehand. It is a tight deadline but I'm sure we can both earn that $5 before May 15th

30 Apr 13

Are you a calculative friend?

Jctann @Jctann (22) • Malaysia 17 Apr 13

I believe no one can live without having friends. Friends are important, they help, they make fun, they share with you the good and bad and some even let you to cry on shoulder. To be a true friend, we should not take advantages...

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andrewbarclave At times I can be one, although not to my good friends.

17 Apr 13

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Is being unhappy a sin?

Nursefrai06 @Nursefrai06 (2498) • Penrith, Australia 16 Apr 13

“Because you did not serve God with joy and a happy heart…” — Deuteronomy 28:4 But is being unhappy a sin? How can one be punished for a thing like that? If God punishes people for being unhappy, that would rather seem like...

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andrewbarclave It really isn't, people can do what they want. This topic just gives me another reason to dislike religion. I know this really isn't an incredible philosophical quote but it's fairly fitting i find, from an evanescence song "i want to stay in love with my...

17 Apr 13

How come everytime I do a lot of responding the discussions always get deleted?

jambi462 @jambi462 (4576) • United States 16 Apr 13

Yesterday was a pretty good day for me at mylot and I was able to be very active because there was a lot of discussions worth me responding too. But it seems that almost everytime I am able to comment and respond a lot on here...

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andrewbarclave I have had one or two discussions of my own deleted, they were borderline so I wasn't too surprised that they were deleted. I do think it's unfair though if just cause of one comment they are getting deleted. I mean surely just delete the comment, maybe it's a...

17 Apr 13

Drug users....................

mariaperalta @mariaperalta (19073) • Mexico 26 Feb 13

Drugs are a real problem all around the world. But they are a big problem here in Mexico. With mexico being a border with the usa... Drugs are made cheaper here in Mexico, and tried to pass over to the usa border. Mexico is...

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andrewbarclave I personally think weed should be legal all over the world. It's better for you than alcohol. I know people are gonna disagree but if you really think about it....alcohol can make people violent and cause a lot of damage. Where as weed just chills you,...

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Would you betray your best friend to get success?

r0cker @r0cker (300) • India 23 Feb 13

Yesterday my friend gave a job interview. There the interviewer put him in the following situation. Imagine you & your best friend work in the same company. One day you get a job which will lead to your promotion if completed...

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andrewbarclave Hell no, I don't care how much I'd get paid. Money can only give you so much, good friends are hard to come by and should be appreciated.

23 Feb 13

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I will never make friends with my ex-bf.

airsoftpeak @wwjwcom (237) • Hubei, China 16 Feb 13

I have seen from the TV series that some people still make contacts with their ex- after they break up.I can't imagine that.As for me,I will only love him or hate him,so it's impossible for me to be a common friends of his.That is...

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andrewbarclave It is a very tricky thing but I'm actually on good terms with my exs, one is definitely a friend, other could be a friend but I just don't like her lol

16 Feb 13

What would you do for a friend?

crazzydolphin @crazzydolphin (3636) • United States 16 Feb 13

i am woundering because i see people who are friends all the time and they say "i would do anything for my friends" but when it comes down to it they really will not... my husband and i went to school with a friend and out of...

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andrewbarclave For a good friend, I would do just about anything, once it's within reason

16 Feb 13

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My Girlfriend doesn't like my Best Friend

Christoph56 @Christoph56 (1504) • Canada 12 Feb 13

And there is a big problem with it... my best friend is an ex girlfriend of mine. You see, I met my best friend about 5 years ago, online, through a dating site. We dated for a couple months, but even after just a month, things...

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andrewbarclave This is always a tricky situation but first things first, don't expect them to become friends. They may hate each other but at the end of the day the best you can hope for in that situation is that they except each other and the fact you are close to both. It...

12 Feb 13

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Have you read any relationship advice books?

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 12 Feb 13

I've read a few over the years and found some that were helpful. My husband is currently reading "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus". He finds it to be very enlightening and true! I'm reading something called "Fight less,...

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andrewbarclave I have not cause I think they aren't gonna be helpful. I personally think you are better off talking to friends about it, although you do need the right people to talk about it cause not everyone is willing to listen, especially not certain single friends....

12 Feb 13

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try to enjoy my life

aqirock @aqirock (855) • Malaysia 12 Feb 13

i wish i can enjoy my life day to day, I got so much disease that I think is hard for me to suffer but I try to have fun in my life, I'm sure everyone also do this and this is the one reason why I joined mylot other then make...

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andrewbarclave I know it sounds hard but just focus on the good things, find joy in the small things. Even if it's a silly joke or whatever, we are only here once, might as well have a good time while we are here.

12 Feb 13

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Do you believe we have only one religion and that is love and humanity?

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 12 Feb 13

Think about all of religions which we have in the world. according to the time of humanbin, God send some prophets to us to increase our knowlege and those words had appeared in holy books which is guildness of humanbins according...

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andrewbarclave I believe this more than anything, people tend to get caught up in religion and generally miss the point that they are trying to say. The fundamental point of religion is to help get you to be a better person and be kind, sharing, caring etc. Although there...

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How to control the anger?

r0cker @r0cker (300) • India 11 Feb 13

A friend of mine has some serious anger management issues. He couldn't control his anger at all . Last evening I visited his place to play basketball with him. There, his mom came & ordered him to clean his room before playing ....

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andrewbarclave Maybe someone has said this before but I'd say start doing meditation, it doesn't take long, 10 mins max although you can do it longer if you choose. It is really simple to do, just find meditation music on youtube. Then sit/lie or whatever position you find...

12 Feb 13

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Waited too long on getting my girlfriend her Christmas Present!

jambi462 @jambi462 (4576) • United States 24 Dec 12

I was a little bummed out today, I've been really busy at both of my restaurant jobs because of the holiday and I haven't had the time to cash my check to go and get my girlfriend's present. I was hoping that they would be open...

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andrewbarclave I personally think she would be disappointed but sure everyone is different. It's stuff like this that I'm not a fan of christmas though, too much pressure and stress. It really it's about that, okay before I start sounding like a disney movie or...

11 Feb 13

Did I read it right?

Jenny1015 @jenny1015 (13366) • Philippines 1 Feb 13

I was texting my close friend earlier today about the plans for our high school reunion. Well, there had been issues among some of our batch mates and my friend and I were telling each other our views on the situation. After...

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andrewbarclave I would say he just did it by accident and meant it for his wife. I do not believe this thing though that people say stuff like that to all their friends. If he does mean it, I doubt you have anything to worry about anyway.

11 Feb 13

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