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@appleapple (35)

China • Age 41

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Do you believe it is better for a girl to dump a guy than the other way around ?

torchablazed @torchablazed (3218) • Philippines 15 Mar 09

A question asked to me by a friend seeking my advise over a relationship she thinks is not working anymore. A thought came to me, is it necessarily wrong for the guy to dumb a girl or is it necessarily a norm in the society for...

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appleapple i don't think that's a norm or things like that. that depends.

15 Mar 09

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how to decode a woman's words & gesture

djmarion @djmarion (4898) • Philippines 6 Feb 08

I listed 6 things a woman usually say or do when there's some troubling things in her pretty head that concerns her man Guys...Read it and memorize for you to avoid confrontation in the future.:) 1. FINE - this is the word...

relationship issues

womans intuition

womans mind

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appleapple really funny thing they are. I am intereted in what you wrote, how do you know them. Did you observe and investigate? really funny,but true to some degree.

6 Feb 08

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Sucess in life...

twowizdom @twowizdom (861) • Philippines 22 Jan 08

What do you consider as your most outstanding achievement?? why??

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appleapple for me, the balance of work and family is my biggest success in life. Even though I am not married now. I believe a happy woman is a woman with her job and familly so she can enjoy her life really.

22 Jan 08

Norah Jones, Do you like her songs?

Geoas @ashjoe76 (1422) • India 5 Apr 07

Do you like the songs songs of Norah Jones? I hope you remember her winning Grammy in sevral categories for her debut album.

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appleapple yes. I love her songs as well the first song i heard is What am I to you. it's so beautiful that i was moved. She has really beautiful voice.So many people like her songs I think.

19 Jan 08

when a husband cheats, is it the wife's fault?

Storm @jcj_111776 (3216) • Philippines 21 Jul 07

It doesnt take a researcher to analyze this, but there are way lots of cheating husbands than wives. And when the truth comes out, the cheating husband's first defense: it's his wife's fault. His wife isn't attractive anymore,...

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husband cheats

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appleapple Wow, seems the reason cheating man give is very rediculous but it's really true. Many cheating husbands like to say like that. That mean the husbands are irresponsible. bad guy. So many men are irresponsible and never think about their own fault.

21 Jul 07

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Would you ever look for love on the net??? Why or Why not??

nascar_girl_4jr @nascar_girl_4jr (315) • United States 21 Jul 07

In todays technological world, it seems that people are meeting their significant other online alot anymore. I have met someone one here, who I kinda like. But to tell the truth, I am scared to death to meet him. Im afraid I guess...

relationships

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appleapple I met my first boyfriend on the net really. At first we like to chat with each other, then we found we kind of like each other. Our heart get together naturally. But we are far from each other, and we are in different universities. Every day we miss each...

21 Jul 07

Your first love....

clearer @clearer (22) • South Africa 27 Jun 07

I was about 20 when I first fell in love. I had been working for three years and had never really loved anyone. He called me up one day and we started speaking. I just really thought that he was a really cool guy. Someone I...

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appleapple the first love is always most difficult to forget. My first love is still in my heart now. I understand you. Hope you are lucky to find a new one.

27 Jun 07

Are You Happy With Your Name?

wachit14 @wachit14 (3595) • United States 26 Jun 07

I have a very common name from my generation. My first name is Susan and many girls from my generation were given that name. I have used variations of that name over the years or people just did that for me. I would have liked a...

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appleapple I never think of changing my name. I don't wanna bother myself with such things. The name is just used by others. I don't care it's common or not.

27 Jun 07

Is it better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all? Why?

samrat16 @samrat16 (2442) • India 8 Apr 07

Its better to have never been loved. if you lost someone u love, it leaves a scar. and it will always be there. but if u haven't loved yet, u still have that golden opportunity. if your already broken inside, its hard to trust the...

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appleapple i've loved one and i've lost him already. I really don't know how to answer your question.I just remembered,I loved,I lost,I bless him for we've loved each other.Having loved and lost,to never have loved at all,which is better?I don't know. Walk on your...

9 Apr 07

will you just leave us?

mskzalameda @mskzalameda (4023) • Philippines 8 Apr 07

the payday is near. mylot will give the salary of those who had reached their goal here. after that payday here in mylot, will you go and leave myLot forever? or will you continue to share your knowledge and ideas to the mylot...

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appleapple the payday has nothing to do with the leaving. i think what you talked about above is a little overthinking. most people come here not for money.after all,the money we got from mylot is not much. we can get more from our jobs and through other...

8 Apr 07

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Norah Jones, Do you like her songs?

Geoas @ashjoe76 (1422) • India 5 Apr 07

Do you like the songs songs of Norah Jones? I hope you remember her winning Grammy in sevral categories for her debut album.

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appleapple i like her songs too.I like her beautiful voice. i like her song, What Am I To You. So beautiful song it is.

8 Apr 07

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Do you really CHECK the bill after you finish a meal in the restaurant?

easy888 @easy888 (10405) • Australia 6 Apr 07

I mean do you really check the amount and the items being charged for the meal. Have you had any experience that the amount appear to be higher or lower than it should be? If it is higher, what will you do, if it is lower ,will...

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appleapple yes,i absolutely check the amount and items being charged when i have meal in an restaurant.sometimes the boss is dishonest,and the total charge may be higher,so i asked the boss to explain it and finally he must correct it. But i never meet any occasion...

7 Apr 07

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Do you still keep in touch with the best friend you grew up with?

ironstruck @ironstruck (2298) • Canada 6 Mar 07

I didn't but sure wish I had. I often think of making the big trip and trying to find him one day. I could just imagine the both of us over 50 years old talking about the lazy, hazy days of Summers past and all the crazy stunts...

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fun

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appleapple that depends. i still keep contact with several best friends I grew up with. but some have parted for a long time and their workplace is far from me,we gradually lose contact,though I miss then sometimes.

7 Mar 07

money

lenlanlee @lenlanlee (1) • Hong Kong 3 Oct 06

i love money, how do u ?

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appleapple You have a good question,a classic question. Everybody really love money. Because you can get a lot from the money,whatever,something good or bad,both you can get with the money.

1 Mar 07

Just found out that I am pregnant

rosaflorence @rosaflorence (1924) • United States 22 Feb 07

I just found out that I am pregnant again. I am excited and scared. I don't really know what to think. My husband is happy but we are both waiting to tell our parents. His mom was furious the last time that I was pregnant and said...

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appleapple Frankly speaking,i feel surprised to see your question/ I think how many kids you want to have is your business, not his parents. Even i don't know why his mother got angry when you are pregnant.She should understand you.

23 Feb 07

What scares you the most about becoming a parent?

cassidy22 @cassidy22 (2974) • United States 12 Feb 07

And did your fears KEEP you from wanting to start a family? I'm scared of going through labor, so my husband and I might adopt if I don't think I can actually go through being pregnant and giving birth. HOwever, the real show...

life

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appleapple I really agree with your idea. I like others' kids and think they are cute and pretty.Their red faces,soft skin,pure eyes attract me,make me love them,but I don't like to take care of kids,which is so boring and tired.Kids like crying,especially baby,they...

13 Feb 07

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Pregnant with her 17th child!

kgs_mommy @kgs_mommy (260) • United States 11 Feb 07

There is a family of 16, and the mother is pregnant with her 17th child and is due in June I believe. How do you feel about this? I know alot of people who are mad about it. My opinion is pretty much, "Who care?!" I'm actually...

children

family

planning

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appleapple My god!i think that's too tired for a woman. Scared mind. I can't imagine it. However,that's not my business.If they can take care of them. That's OK for them.

12 Feb 07

Long Distance Relationships.......Do u believe?

rahuldmhatre @rahuldmhatre (736) • India 11 Feb 07

So i was wondering, what do you guys think of long-distance relationships. Would you get involved in one? Have you had one, was it a success? These are my answers: 1. Would you get involved? No..never..waste of time and money...

long distance relationships

love

relationships

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appleapple I believe this long distance relationship.I had one when I was at university,and his university is far from mine.At that time,even though we chatted on the phone almost every day,we missed each other very much. Long distance brings me sweet missing and we...

12 Feb 07