arthamandiri

@arthamandiri (197)

Indonesia • Age 44

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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for parents: do you wish that your first baby should/must be boy or girl?

mrbrownedeye @mrbrownedeye (781) • Philippines 26 Nov 08

when i first to know that where ganna have a baby i do admit that i wish and pray for having a baby boy, and then later i change my mind that i must accept what ever it would be given to me. blessedly my first wish was granted and...

being a parent

wish for baby

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arthamandiri Having a baby is very importance for humankind to keep they existed,Boy and girl is same importance, but it will different if you born in some place that the culture need the boy to become most important, like in my place, Even how high the girl achieve...

27 Nov 08

How often do you clean out your fridge?

highflyingxangel @highflyingxangel (9225) • United States 26 Nov 08

Tomorrow is Thanksgiving in the US and our fridge was full of food. Mostly old food mind you, and the shelves were completely disgusting and gross. I decided since I was told to clean out old food to take it one step farther and...

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arthamandiri i think i don't like chemical additive to clean my fridge, what ever we do to clean the fridge, may be there is a little bit left in the fridge. I may be contamination our food. My fridge always clean with water sometime to remove the food odor, i like to use...

26 Nov 08

Can nature heal it self from human destuction?

arthamandiri @arthamandiri (197) • Indonesia 26 Nov 08

Nature has a complex system than can recover the destruction or damaged by human or natural accident, because everything in it has function different, what you think

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arthamandiri i don't think so

26 Nov 08

Do Guys love STRONG and INDEPENDENT WOMEN?

maean_19 @maean_19 (4655) • Philippines 26 Nov 08

Traditionally, guys love conservative women, but now, they prefer STRONG and INDEPENDENT WOMEN. They love intellectual and strong willed women. Someone who can stand by her principles. Guys out there, share me your thoughts.

guys

people

strong women

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arthamandiri yes i agree, women must have a back up plan, if they force to be alone.

26 Nov 08

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Should you have to pay family for babysitting?

SomeCowgirl @SomeCowgirl (32191) • United States 26 Nov 08

Do you pay your family to babysit for you? Should you have to? I'm not talking about the occasional sitter but a every week atleast twice a week thing. Should you decide how much to pay, or should they decide how much to be paid?...

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arthamandiri Children give a family a live. they can make everyone happy because of them. Because you must have work and can't handle both, so your family is the first choice to help to take care the children, just imagine how much money did you spend if use a nanny? it...

26 Nov 08

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Do you like Grey's Anatomy??

theembittered @theembittered (1025) • United States 25 Nov 08

Do you like the tv serie Grey's Anatomy? I really like it a lot, but now i could not see it because i dont really have a lot of time available. But always when i can try it to see because i like it so much :D. If you see this...

anatomy

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arthamandiri but the comedy make people easier to understand

26 Nov 08

weddings of a different race or religion

raclie @raclie (1732) • Singapore 26 Nov 08

hey guys, i am back from a loooonnnggggg break from mylot. i miss it here!!!! anyway... i am being invited to an indian wedding that is happening on the 7 december. i am rather interested as i have never been to an indian...

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arthamandiri as long as not conflict with your faith or religion you can follow their custom while in a weeding.

26 Nov 08

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Can nature heal it self from human destuction?

arthamandiri @arthamandiri (197) • Indonesia 26 Nov 08

Nature has a complex system than can recover the destruction or damaged by human or natural accident, because everything in it has function different, what you think

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arthamandiri yes, i can see that, the one's who created can destroy too.

26 Nov 08

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What kind of cartoon do u think is appropriate for an 1 year child?

pitulica @pitulica (56) • Romania 23 Nov 08

My boy loves watching tv, obviusly cartoonns and comercials, but some people think that "tom and jerry" for examlpe are just not good for them. He loves "Lazy town" and "sympholies" but i also alow him to view more cartoons. Which...

baby

cartoon

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arthamandiri for children as long they can response of voice, sight it's okay allow them to watch television. But i suggest at age 4+

26 Nov 08

Is there something wrong?

raynejasper @raynejasper (2322) • Philippines 24 Nov 08

..Hi everyone.. I have a problem with my husband.. Most of the time, he lies to me.. He doesn't even want me to touch his mobile phone and when somebody sends a message to him, he makes it a point that I will not read it so he...

family relationships

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arthamandiri yes, i agree she must wait for a year or so, to accept habits from her partner.

26 Nov 08

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sweetest fuel?

mhagskier @mhagskier (322) • Philippines 9 Nov 08

scientists from university of wisconsin-madison have developed a new way of producing hydrogen fuel from plants. glucose, the source of the fuel, is nontoxic and nonflammable and can be safely transported in form of sugar.

university of wisconsin

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arthamandiri Yes, with this we can save our world from gas effect, and can reduce the monopoly of giant fossil fuel corporation.So the price can be more cheaper than today

26 Nov 08

Long Distance Relationships - can they stand the test of time?

RavenFireMaiden @RavenFireMaiden (36) • Canada 25 Nov 08

I have been with my man for about 2 years now, and he is in the Army in the states and i am in Canada. We got to see eachother alot when he was stationed near the border, but now he is 3000 miles away from me, and will be for the...

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arthamandiri i don't agree, because love mean you can accept not to scarifice everything we have. Time can make love stronger or even weaker, depend on how we see love.

26 Nov 08