babygrl22004

@babygrl22004 (238)

United States • Age 40

Joined myLot 18 years ago

opinionated hardworking woman!

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Is it ok to fly the American flag...

cappucino_lover @cappucino_lover (52) • United States 3 Jun 07

Even when it's not a holiday? What are the rules to flying the flag?

american flag

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babygrl22004 I think that there isnt really a rule persay about when to fly a flag. I believe that it is fine to fly a flag whenever and however long you see fit! Hope this helps

3 Jun 07

As a parent would you demand this child pass the course?

pilbara @pilbara (1436) • Australia 31 May 07

If you were given this example would you expect this child to pass this course? The student has not done any of the required work assignments. The student was offered help on many different occasions but didn't take it. The...

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babygrl22004 I think I would use it as a lesson to my child that slacking off gets you no where and that there are always consequences for not doing something to the best of your ability! I dont think the child should be given an extention unless the circumstances were...

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First wedding anniversary.

rhinoboy @rhinoboy (2129) 31 May 07

I'm looking to buy or do something really nice for my wife. I've looked through all of the usual suggestions on websites, but can't find anything inspirational. My wife doesn't really have any hobbies, apart from caring for our...

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babygrl22004 if you have a limited budget like me and my husband did when our first anniversary came around...my best suggestion would be to treat her to a small day spa package where they fix her hair nice and a few other small things like manicure/pedicure and makeup...

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Stay at home moms...

stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 31 May 07

Have you ever noticed that your hubby or significant other will come and say, "But I've been at work all day." And not appreciate all that you do? Or "This is supposed to be my weekend" Ok, so when do you we get a weekend? A whole...

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babygrl22004 It is usually a combination of they don't understand how tough it really is and selfishness. They figure they do all the "hard" work getting up and leaving the house and so we housewives must just sit around eating bon bons all day and that kids are a piece of...

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i can't beleive this

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 31 May 07

ok so i just got new neighbours that moved in in my duplex yesterday. not sure if anyone remembers me writing about how a little girl just came to my house who i didn't know to play that said she lived a few blocks away and i...

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babygrl22004 I hope so too. I can't believe she'd honestly do something like that. Maybe that's how she lost custody of her children in the first place. A lot of times they will send out someone to check her out and ask around about her behavior I would tell them about her...

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do u like being the oldest sister/brother?

jhewelle03 @jhewelle03 (39) • Philippines 22 May 07

well...sometimes i hate being the oldest coz i have the biggest responsibilities at our house!but sometimes i love it coz my parents give me more money than them!!!!hehehe! how abot you?can you share sumthin?

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babygrl22004 I honestly didn't like it so much when I was growing up because of all the responsibilities it gave me but on the other hand I love it now because I get to see them grow and develop and see the differences from when I was at home until now! Sometimes its still...

31 May 07

How old is too old to have kids?

lynpreety @lynboobsy11 (11343) • Philippines 31 May 07

As I saw the news last week. A 60-year-old New Jersey woman gave birth to twins last Tuesday, May 22nd, becoming the oldest woman to give birth to twins in the United States, after undergoing in-vitro fertilization. How old is...

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babygrl22004 I think that anything over 45 should be the cut off because just think about it you'll want to be around to see your kids graduate and of course there is nothing saying you're going to absolutely see that no matter what, but at least there is a higher chance....

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What to do? (alone with 4 kids, 2 puppies and severely depressed)

4monsters4me @4monsters4me (2569) • United States 31 May 07

This is my situation. My husband moved a few weeks ago because of his job. We won't be able to follow him until school gets out (last day is June 8). Well, we have to wait until he can get time off of work to come get us so it...

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babygrl22004 Wow that's alot to deal with all alone! Im sorry you're having to go through this all without having someone to turn to. Is there a babysitter yall have used in the past that may be able to come give you a break or even just help out a little around the house...

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Baby names you like

bellydancer222 @bellydancer222 (3) • United States 29 May 07

Mine is Tabitha.

baby names

family

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babygrl22004 I like Naomi Faith or Ava nichole for a girl and for a boy my favorites are Austin Lane or Tristen Alexander

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i am leaving my child

Anu @arpita_onlinejob (508) • India 31 May 07

i have a got a good job offer. i do not want to miss it meawhile i am worried about my son who is 8 months old. my inlaws stay with e but i am in a dilema should i accept job or look after my son. he is not use to staying without...

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babygrl22004 You have to decide if your son is more important to you or is this particular job! I mean jobs will come and go but your son will always remain your son! It is YOUR choice alone. I pray that you make the best choice for you and your son! God Bless

31 May 07

Is she wrong for leaving her child?

msbiggs24 @msbiggs24 (285) • United States 31 May 07

My sister-in-law is getting ready to leave to go out of state for a job. She wants to be a flight attendant and has to go away for almost three months for training. During her training she will be required to take a few...

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babygrl22004 I agree with you that her leaving may result in her not coming back and as bad as you think it may or may not be, All you can do is pray that she's going to honestly come back for the sake of your nephew! It is her choice to leave and forcing someone to stay...

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Mothers Be There for Your Children

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 31 May 07

We are living in a critical period with great advancement in information technology and scientific inventions. The world is at our doorstep. Mothers have an even more important role to play today than ever before. External...

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babygrl22004 I can't honestly say I'd completely give up my career for my children but perhaps rearrange my schedule so that I was at home more with them. I agree that there are a significant amount of "external forces" out in this growing world today that our children...

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Shoul I feel obligated to stay with the father of my children?

msbiggs24 @msbiggs24 (285) • United States 31 May 07

I've been with the father of my children for almost 6 years and the relationship seems to be stuck in one place right now. He wants to marry me, but I always ask him what will change once we are married. That's just one question...

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babygrl22004 If you are unhappy with your current situation that will have a bigger impact on your children and cause them to be unhappy as well even if you can't see it in them. It's better for them for you to be completely happy then to just stay together with your...

31 May 07

Should I leave him

jayin06 @jayin06 (1) • United States 30 May 07

I have been with the same person for the last three years. most of the relationship has been okay but recently things have been rather bad. I found out today that he has been talking to some other girl for the last month. he says...

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babygrl22004 I too have been in this same situation. As a matter of fact Im still trying to figure out what to do. Everytime I leave he tells me things will change and they change for a few weeks to a few months, but after awhile things go right back to the same old stuff....

31 May 07

I can't beleive what my daughter just did

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 31 May 07

every time she asks me for a snack i give it to her and she wastes it. it sits out all day. she asked for one this morning. i told her she has to eat it or that's it. no more snacks. i'm tired of wasting everything and throuing it...

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babygrl22004 My 2 year old does the same thing! I've tried being stern and telling him no more but then his dad just ends up giving in to him and giving him whatever he wants! They both drive me nuts! I hope that you figure out a good way to break her of this, let us know...

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When did your baby start to walk?

rtydata @rtydata (80) • Philippines 31 May 07

Mine hasn’t yet but a friend of mine says her baby started walking around 7 months. I’m really very excited to see my baby walk so we can play more and go places.

baby walking

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babygrl22004 I have two little boys about 20 months apart. Each child is different. I know this because with my first he started walking and doing all the other baby milestones very early he started crawling around 2 1/2 months, walking by 6 months and talking before he...

31 May 07

Gator bandwagon.

Peaches1122 @Peaches1122 (470) • United States 11 Jan 07

I hate all these people running around in Gator sweatshirts claiming they have always been fans of UF. My butt, they were always fans. They were all talking smack about how OSU was going to kick our butts. HA HA. Eat it your...

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babygrl22004 I totally feel ya. I love the new commercial they have out for gatorade about how it came about! have you seen it? I think its the best! I've always been a die hard gator fan...most of my family is divided between the gators and FSU! I however love the gators...

31 May 07

Do you thing your spouse or lover still thinks you are sexy?

34momma @34momma (13882) • United States 3 Jan 07

For those who have been together for a few years, do you think that your spouse or lover still finds you sexy or are they just going through the motions because it is what they know? do they make you feel sexy and wanted like they...

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babygrl22004 Honestly I don't think my husband has a care in the world about me anymore which is kinda sad to me. I mean he used to act like I was the only person that made a difference in his life because I was there for him through thick and thin... Ever since we've...

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