barefoot1342

@barefoot1342 (7)

United States • Age 48

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Why it that most men have no problem making babies but........

Magikrose @magikrose (5429) • United States 17 Dec 06

dont want to stick arround and help support them?I have 4 kids. My 2 oldest have diffrent fathers and my 2 youngest are by my husband. MY 2 oldest fathers are not arround to see them nor do the send me any money to help me...

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barefoot1342 It's probably because he didn't want kids in the first place. Was he involved in the decision of whether or not to give birth to them or did you decide that yourself? Was whether or not to have babies something the two of you had discussed and reached a...

17 Dec 06

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Is Investing In Gold & Silver A Smart Idea?

Krizz420canada @Krizz420canada (531) • Canada 21 Oct 10

I can remember back when I was in high school in the 90's and the price of gold and silver where so low. I think at point the price of a ounce of gold here in Canada was a low as $220 ounce! Crazy considering if you look at prices...

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barefoot1342 I can remember back when I was in high school in the 90's and the price of gold and silver where so low. I think at point the price of a ounce of gold here in Canada was a low as $220 ounce! Crazy considering if you look at prices these days which sometimes...

21 Oct 10

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What's so special about smoking?

blogger1 @blogger1 (61) • Malaysia 17 Aug 06

I've tried smoking for a month, but I never got hooked. I am curios what people find so alluring about smoking.

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barefoot1342 I think the main allure is that smoking is "bad". There's a rebeliousness, a coolness. It's fortunate for you that you didn't get hooked, which is likely a function of brain chemistry. Different people have different tolerances to nicotine, which relates to...

16 Dec 06

Where is the line between cult and church?

thewatchlist @thewatchlist (653) • United States 15 Dec 06

Hypothetically speaking, say a friend of yours gets involved with a few new friends. A few months later they are totally immersed in those new friends' church. They go to church or organized small church groups that meet in...

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barefoot1342 There is no difference between a church and a cult. "Cult" is just a derogatory word, which in this case would be used to mean "church I don't like". It's okay to address things that concern you or ways in which you're unhappy with a friend of yours. For...

16 Dec 06

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Punished by Rewards

barefoot1342 @barefoot1342 (7) • United States 16 Dec 06

I just finished reading "Punished by Rewards" by Alfie Kohn. I found his arguments utterly compelling - now the unfortunate result is attempting to carry out these ideas in the face of so much opposition. Has anyone else here read...

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are u afraid of snakes?

vamshik @vamshik (175) • India 16 Dec 06

snakes r the dangerous reptile known to all of us.it injects poison as soon as it bite us.thats why i am afraid of them u????

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barefoot1342 Nah. Snakes aren't aggressive animals, so there's no need to be afraid of them. Trust me, they don't want to be anywhere near you!! They tend to give off really clear signals when you're near - sound, smell, etc. - and all you have to do is back away.

16 Dec 06

First , second , middle or last?

Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!! @krupesh (2608) • India 15 Sep 10

Are you the only child? or the second one...the middle one or the last one?How have you influenced or have been influenced by your family? I am the last one & have been looked as a baby in my family.Financially as well as the...

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barefoot1342 Are you the only child? or the second one...the middle one or the last one?How have you influenced or have been influenced by your family? I am the last one & have been looked as a baby in my family.Financially as well as the caring for me has been great...

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