batpig

@batpig (99)

China • Age 41

Joined myLot 17 years ago

i am a strong girl looking for tenderness.

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Why do spouses tend to look alike as they age?

Nic @academic2 (7000) • Uganda 4 Oct 07

I was mesmerized by a couple I met recently-they looked so identical one could qualify them for twins. When I enquired more, I learnt that they were husband and wife! What happens to make completely unrelated people(I say...

spouses

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batpig yea,what you said is mostly true in our cultural also...ppl always say that the couples have the tendency to be alike as time passes. i dont think that will means that they will be totally the same, just when they live together for so long, they have the...

4 Oct 07

Which one is your favorite festival???

leo1985 @leo1985 (164) • China 3 Oct 07

In your country,there must be many interesting festivals.In china,spring festival is the most importanted holiday in the last day of the year by chinese traditional calendar.In this day,wherever you work or you travel,you must...

festival

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batpig haha...lucky to meet another Chinese here. nice to meet you, LEO. yea, as you described above, spring festival is the most wonderful traditional festival in China. i also quite enjoy it...it was a pity i didnt have the time together with my family this...

3 Oct 07

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How many hours a day are you online?

nehrlas @nehrlas (202) • United States 3 Oct 07

How long are you online each day? Are you online every day? I sign on at 5:30 in the morning and pretty much do not turn my pc off until 10pm at night. There are things that I do all day, so its not like I am sitting here all day,...

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batpig from 8am to 18pm, that is my working time, i will be on line. if i get my own laptop,i think i will stay on line even longer. that is an interesting phenomenon now, ppl have tendency to isolate themselves with the reality and open their hearts on...

3 Oct 07

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It is worth reading

beauty_ph @beauty_ph (2749) • Philippines 13 May 07

A newly release book written by Bo Sanchez is worth reading. This book is very inspiring. I was able to learn alot from it, no wonder it's one of the best selling books now. Very affordable and full of humor.

the eight secrets of the truely rich

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batpig er...no idea about it...but as your recommended,i will go to search online...

22 Sep 07

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Lots of funs to post at myLot.

lkbooi @lkbooi (16070) • Malaysia 22 Sep 07

I find there are lots of funs to post to mylot friends here. I always feel happy 1.When there are friends respond to my new discussions. 2.If friends add comments to my responses. 3.When we keep on chatting in our...

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batpig yea,there are funs to be here...i am so keem for the discussions here in mylot...coz i think this is really a good way to enlarge my vision no matter what kind of the topic is. but recently i am a sort of occupied by my work.so i didnt come so often...anyway,...

22 Sep 07

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Are you living the life you dreamed of when you were younger?

LCecelia @LCecelia (1124) • United States 19 Aug 07

I'm not. I seem to be trapped in a financial nightmare. :-( My dreams were simple. As I was born in Jamaica in the West Indies, all I wanted was to be married and have a family. The equivilent of the family and house with the...

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batpig yea, i am living the life as my younger dream is,but ironically,the dream is really a dream, the past dream cannot satisfy me at present. i once dreamed about peaceful life with parents and my lover,office work with little pressure...now i have the job i...

20 Aug 07

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will you love someone who is 20 years older than you?

rexiemay @rexiemay (401) • Philippines 27 Jul 07

i havent had a boyfriend who is 20 years older than me. however, if i really love him, why not? love trascends age gap.

age gap

love

old

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batpig no problem for me at all...age is nothing comparing with love. feeling is the most important part in the involved relation...if you two can feel the same affection towards each other, why bother with the age...

27 Jul 07

Is it wrong to be alone?

Sweetladylove2 @Sweetladylove2 (46) • United States 27 Jul 07

I been in three bad relationships and I am tired. I just want to be alone and stay away from people. I do not want to have any communication with people. I am afriad I might get my feeling hurt again. I don't trust anyone. I feel...

feelings

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batpig nothing is wrong as long as this is your own choice. but i'd like to advise you that dont to be so extreme...you can shut your world towards certain type of person,but dont shut it for all. as a human being in the society, you must have contact with the world,...

27 Jul 07

Were you standing in line for the new Harry Potter book?

tinamwhite @tinamwhite (3252) • United States 26 Jul 07

On July 21st, I was among the hordes of people standing in line to buy the latest Harry Potter and the Deathly Hollows by J.K. Rawlings....at midnight in Walmart...with my young son and my 7 year old granddaughter... That may...

fan

harry potter

harry potter and the deathly hollows

jk rawling

jouly 21

new book

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batpig i'd like to say i am a harry porter fan firstly,but i dont want to buy the original copy of the book, haha,it is a pity...coz it is written in english, relatively hard for me to read.i will buy the chinese version one later when it published.

27 Jul 07

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Does sibling rivalry exist in your family?

argie713 @argie713 (1809) • Philippines 24 Jun 07

I have a sister that I really love. Sometimes we argue on things. We also compete on some things to make our parents proud. What we have is a healthy competition. I hate it when my parents compare me to her. It's because I'm...

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batpig first, admire you have someone to share and compete...i am the only one in my family,sometimes feel quite lonely. but i dont like the parents compare their kids...since each single one is unique in her/his own way...the comparison base on no reason.they...

25 Jun 07

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would you fall for someone who is not your ideal man?

djmarion @djmarion (4898) • Philippines 24 Jun 07

we all have our ideal men in our minds and for sure we all want to meet them and be their partner. but what if your ideal man happen to be out of sight and reach and there goes a good person who is so into you, you feel the...

falling inlove

ideal man

ideal person

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batpig yes, certainly i will...sometimes we need to be practical...if cannot reach the ideal, why not give yourself a chance to accept someone is nice...

25 Jun 07

What is your thought regarding this...

tulipblue @tulipblue (33) 25 Jun 07

How would you deferrentiate between your friendship and love? We know without friendship there wont grow the feeling of love and relations. But every friendship does not proceede towards love.Sometimes someone falls in love with...

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batpig wow...a good question but hard to answer...it is quite difficult for me to tell how i distinguish them,but i can know what is friendship and what is love...it is just the feeling from my inner heart.

25 Jun 07

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Doctors' Handwriting. Why is it ugly?

argie713 @argie713 (1809) • Philippines 18 Jun 07

I really don't understand why doctors write in a way that we could not understand. Why do they write like this?

doctors

easy money

handwriting illegible

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batpig you are very observant.hehe...yea, my dad worked in the hospital before,so i also notice this since i was quite young. i think that because the doctor has his own prescription so he wants to keep it like that, or it will be efficient for him to write like...

25 Jun 07

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how can i deal with this cultural shock????

batpig @batpig (99) • China 11 Jun 07

I work in a Joint Venture in China.this is a sino-canadian company. i work as a translator,so i am the intermedium between our Chinese and Westerners. i have been on this position for one year,but before this week, i didnt...

culture

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batpig yea, my boss is a foreigner. one day we tried to lift one of the critical equipments, but the equipment felt down.no one injuried and the equipment has been fixed.and get the report detailed written and submitted to the safety.so we went through the company...

14 Jun 07

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It is easy or hard to make friends?

happymom1 @happymom1 (1179) • United States 12 Jun 07

Making friends is a nice thing to make but my problem is i am too shy to make one. Its hard for me to make a first move to make friends. In our place i have lots of friends but they are the one smile at me first and thats the...

friends

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batpig i think i am similar to you, happymom1,i am not able to start a conversation till others begin to talk to me.and even worse,i wont have too many facial expressions,so when someone want to talk to me,and see my face, they will just...

13 Jun 07

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how can i deal with this cultural shock????

batpig @batpig (99) • China 11 Jun 07

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Any suggestions for a pet, for my 4 year old daughter?

Aphroditei_5279 @Aphroditei_5279 (2465) • Philippines 2 Jun 07

My daughter is 4 years old. She'd loved to have a pet. By my dad won't allowed her. He especially fears that she might get hurt, bitten, or even scratched. Because, even a small scratch, licked by animals with rabies, can be...

had children

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batpig hehe,i also like it very much.once i have a cuter pic of it,but lost...i am sad about that. hope your son can enjoy that.hehe...

5 Jun 07

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