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beamsey @beamsey (425) • Philippines 1 Nov 09

I have a certain dilemma here. I just found out my friends don't like the person I'm going out with. They won't tell me why though. I tried to explain to them that if I knew why, then maybe I could talk to my special someone about...

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beamsey That quotation from Dr. Seuss just made everything clearer. Thank you so much for sharing it with me. And thank you also for all the things you just said. This afternoon, one of my friends just shared 1 reason as to why they don't like him and it's a trait he...

2 Nov 09

beamsey @beamsey (425) • Philippines 1 Nov 09

I have a certain dilemma here. I just found out my friends don't like the person I'm going out with. They won't tell me why though. I tried to explain to them that if I knew why, then maybe I could talk to my special someone about...

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beamsey They didn't know my boyfriend before. They only knew him because I introduced them. They're probably judging him based on the few encounters they've had with him, which isn't very many, as I know they don't like being around him. I'll try going out with...

2 Nov 09

beamsey @beamsey (425) • Philippines 1 Nov 09

I have a certain dilemma here. I just found out my friends don't like the person I'm going out with. They won't tell me why though. I tried to explain to them that if I knew why, then maybe I could talk to my special someone about...

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beamsey Good to know that he became your husband. :) Maybe the same would happen to me and my boyfriend as well someday. Do your friends still have problems with him, now that you're married to the guy they don't like?

2 Nov 09

beamsey @beamsey (425) • Philippines 1 Nov 09

I have a certain dilemma here. I just found out my friends don't like the person I'm going out with. They won't tell me why though. I tried to explain to them that if I knew why, then maybe I could talk to my special someone about...

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beamsey I'm still with my boyfriend right now. I have no plans of leaving him just because of this. I just don't know what to do with my friends. It's like they already decided that this guy is bad for me or something. I honestly didn't know there was an issue. It's...

2 Nov 09

beamsey @beamsey (425) • Philippines 1 Nov 09

I have a certain dilemma here. I just found out my friends don't like the person I'm going out with. They won't tell me why though. I tried to explain to them that if I knew why, then maybe I could talk to my special someone about...

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beamsey Yes, exactly. I don't want to force my friends to like someone they really don't like. Of course they have their own reasons for not liking him. I just wish they could tell me why. I guess I just have to live with the fact that my boyfriend doesn't please...

2 Nov 09

beamsey @beamsey (425) • Philippines 1 Nov 09

I have a certain dilemma here. I just found out my friends don't like the person I'm going out with. They won't tell me why though. I tried to explain to them that if I knew why, then maybe I could talk to my special someone about...

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beamsey I know what you mean. Thanks for your response. :)

2 Nov 09

beamsey @beamsey (425) • Philippines 1 Nov 09

I have a certain dilemma here. I just found out my friends don't like the person I'm going out with. They won't tell me why though. I tried to explain to them that if I knew why, then maybe I could talk to my special someone about...

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beamsey It's okay. :) I didn't mention it at first because I thought maybe some people would give a biased answer. But then, it's a bit difficult to exclude the gender in all the responses I make in this discussion. It's not a big deal. :)

1 Nov 09

beamsey @beamsey (425) • Philippines 1 Nov 09

I have a certain dilemma here. I just found out my friends don't like the person I'm going out with. They won't tell me why though. I tried to explain to them that if I knew why, then maybe I could talk to my special someone about...

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beamsey I understand what you're saying. Your English isn't all that bad. :) Thank you for responding to my discussion. My friends are probably just annoyed that my boyfriend's with us most of the time when we go out so they become possessive. But then again, I'm just...

1 Nov 09

beamsey @beamsey (425) • Philippines 1 Nov 09

I have a certain dilemma here. I just found out my friends don't like the person I'm going out with. They won't tell me why though. I tried to explain to them that if I knew why, then maybe I could talk to my special someone about...

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beamsey Maybe they're afraid I'll get mad at them or something? I really don't know. They're civil most of the time. That's a good thing. But there are times that my boyfriend feels he's left out and when I try to make him feel part of the group, my friends think I'm...

1 Nov 09

beamsey @beamsey (425) • Philippines 1 Nov 09

I have a certain dilemma here. I just found out my friends don't like the person I'm going out with. They won't tell me why though. I tried to explain to them that if I knew why, then maybe I could talk to my special someone about...

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beamsey I'm still seeing this person. I love him. It's been more than a year actually. And my friends just told me recently about how they really felt about all this. They have been hinting at it and trying to say it indirectly but it is only now that they really came...

1 Nov 09

beamsey @beamsey (425) • Philippines 1 Nov 09

I have a certain dilemma here. I just found out my friends don't like the person I'm going out with. They won't tell me why though. I tried to explain to them that if I knew why, then maybe I could talk to my special someone about...

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beamsey Thanks for your response. :)

1 Nov 09

beamsey @beamsey (425) • Philippines 1 Nov 09

I have a certain dilemma here. I just found out my friends don't like the person I'm going out with. They won't tell me why though. I tried to explain to them that if I knew why, then maybe I could talk to my special someone about...

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beamsey As far as I know, my boyfriend has had a few slip-ups. I know he's not an angel and he also has done things I wouldn't want him to do again. But according to my friends, these things aren't it. I'm really confused now because I'm totally clueless as to why...

1 Nov 09

beamsey @beamsey (425) • Philippines 1 Nov 09

I have a certain dilemma here. I just found out my friends don't like the person I'm going out with. They won't tell me why though. I tried to explain to them that if I knew why, then maybe I could talk to my special someone about...

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beamsey Thank you for your advice. I did try talking to them one by one but I didn't get anything. I also tried getting them together but they were like oil and water. They weren't really deliberately ignoring the person, I guess they were just a bit cliquish that...

1 Nov 09

beamsey @beamsey (425) • Philippines 1 Nov 09

I have a certain dilemma here. I just found out my friends don't like the person I'm going out with. They won't tell me why though. I tried to explain to them that if I knew why, then maybe I could talk to my special someone about...

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beamsey I know what you mean. Sometimes my friends can be so possessive. Other people have actually joked about me being in a romantic relationship with all of my friends because they can be so demanding at times. Right now, I think it's because I spend more time with...

1 Nov 09

jeoline @jeoline (81) • Canada 13 Jun 09

I've been beating my head against the wall trying to figure out how to accept a task from the available tasks list but I just can't seem to figure it out. Can someone please let me know how that's done. I would be very grateful...

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beamsey Glad to be of help. Happy earning!

13 Jun 09

jeoline @jeoline (81) • Canada 13 Jun 09

I've been beating my head against the wall trying to figure out how to accept a task from the available tasks list but I just can't seem to figure it out. Can someone please let me know how that's done. I would be very grateful...

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beamsey Oh. Well, she did say "how to accept a task" in her question. Anyway, completing a task depends on the task description. If it says you have to write at least 4 paragraphs about a given keyword, then that's just what you do. You basically just follow the...

13 Jun 09

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danishcanadian @danishcanadian (28955) • Canada 13 Jun 09

How do you manage money in your marriage? Do you and your partner each have your own separate accounts in which you contribute to a household account for bills etc? Do you have yours, and your partner has hers/his, and you...

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beamsey I think it's important to have a sense of "ours" as well as "his and hers". I wonder if your system will work for me. Right now, my partner and I have a coin bank we put extra change into. We have to put something in everyday and we also set a minimum amount....

13 Jun 09

john_ronald @john_ronald (383) • Hong Kong 19 May 09

if you are using an ALERTPAY what email address will you register on the payment information help pls....

if your using alert pay

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beamsey I'm from the Philippines too. From what I have heard and read on the internet, you can withdraw using the EON debit card. There's also a blog somewhere stating that you can withdraw using your BDO bank account. I can't find it anymore. I verified my paypal...

11 Jun 09

Archie0 @Archie0 (5652) 6 Jun 09

I have seen, heard and studied about past people i.e. people before my generation.They were true to their only love and they were their soulmates.But now everytime i turn some pages or magazines or even mylot topics i find people...

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beamsey I guess we have taken things for granted to an extent. I still think though that it's an effect of the more liberal times. People are after all, molded by the society one way or another. Interesting discussion, by the way.

6 Jun 09

beamsey @beamsey (425) • Philippines 30 May 09

Have you ever gotten a rude response to one of your discussions? I have and I try to remain civil and unaffected when responding back. But sometimes, the rudeness just doesn't stop and it gets irritating. I don't see the point in...

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beamsey This is interesting. Since you said you respond rudely to discussions, is there a reason to why you respond this way? Or do you just get a kick out of it?

6 Jun 09

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