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beckyjo @beckyjo (16) • United States 14 May 07

My dh works out of town all the time. He works during the week, of course, but also has to work weekends pretty often, too. Out of the average month, I might see him 3 or 4 days. Sometimes I get so tired of being "single"...

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beckyjo I'm so sorry for what you've been through with your daughter. I went through hospitalizations with my daughter, too, and it's really tough! I know how you feel about when they finally get to come home. My dh came home last night. It's nice to have him here...

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beckyjo @beckyjo (16) • United States 14 May 07

My dh works out of town all the time. He works during the week, of course, but also has to work weekends pretty often, too. Out of the average month, I might see him 3 or 4 days. Sometimes I get so tired of being "single"...

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beckyjo Yeah, it sucks sometimes. Fortunately it rarely bothers me very much. It actually tends to bother him more to be gone than it does me most of the time. You're right - I am just having an ugly week, so needed to vent a bit. It helps to know others out there...

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beckyjo @beckyjo (16) • United States 14 May 07

My dh works out of town all the time. He works during the week, of course, but also has to work weekends pretty often, too. Out of the average month, I might see him 3 or 4 days. Sometimes I get so tired of being "single"...

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beckyjo Hopefully your dh won't be out of town quite so much by the time your child is older and it's harder for you to travel to see him. With mine, this is a lifelong thing...he will never be home much until he retires. Of course, when that happens, I'll probably be...

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mommey20032005 @mommey20032005 (264) • United States 14 May 07

I don't know about other people, but when your partner asks you to marry them everything becomes our's. Thats what I think. My fiance thinks other wise, since he is the one who works. and i don't because we can afford child care,...

relationships

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beckyjo You're not overreacting at all. You're either a team or you aren't. You need to be on the same page about money before the wedding bells ring or you're in for a rude awakening! More divorces are caused by money issues than anything else. Read Financial...

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beckyjo @beckyjo (16) • United States 14 May 07

My dh works out of town all the time. He works during the week, of course, but also has to work weekends pretty often, too. Out of the average month, I might see him 3 or 4 days. Sometimes I get so tired of being "single"...

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beckyjo Yes, he stays out of town for 2 or 3 weeks at a time, sometimes more. I have gone to stay with dh for a night a time or two, but it's hard to get away. My little grandson lives with me, plus we have a couple dogs, so it's a big pain to get everything arranged...

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beckyjo @beckyjo (16) • United States 14 May 07

My dh works out of town all the time. He works during the week, of course, but also has to work weekends pretty often, too. Out of the average month, I might see him 3 or 4 days. Sometimes I get so tired of being "single"...

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beckyjo I thought about our service men and women just as I posted this thread, and immediately felt bad for whining. I appreciate what our military people do - more than I can say! Please thank him for me, and thank YOU for being willing to let him do it. I'm...

14 May 07

mamacathie @mamacathie (3928) • United States 14 May 07

That is if you have grandchildren yet. LOL I hear so many different names from the children that I work with at church. My husband and I had planned on our grandchildren calling us MeeMaw and PeePaw but when our first grandchild,...

meemee

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beckyjo I'm just Grammy...nothing too unusual. But my husband's aunt is Ya Ya to her grandkids. I guess Ya Ya is grandma in Greek. I thought that was kind of interesting.

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pushpendragold @pushpendragold (324) • India 14 May 07

eager to know good books you are reading i am this time reading michael crichton's prey and i am about to complete it and want to start new.

writing

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beckyjo I haven't read it myself, but my husband said that The Husband by Dean Koontz was great. I've never seen him read a book that fast before, so it had to be pretty darned good! If you're looking for an old book that's worth reading, try Watcher by Koontz....

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mommy2handk @mommy2handk (1) • United States 14 May 07

Hello, I am a sahm of 2. My husband is a hardworker. But sometimes it is just not enough. I need help. We are behind on everything. Almost 2 months behind on our mortgage. Our credit is not great, so all traditional means are...

financial trouble

money help

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beckyjo I can't help you with the $3500 unless you or your dh want to get a second job - maybe delivering pizzas or babysitting or both - and sell anything you can! But you really need to go to www.daveramsey.com and take a look at what he has to say. He has helped...

14 May 07

beckyjo @beckyjo (16) • United States 14 May 07

My dh works out of town all the time. He works during the week, of course, but also has to work weekends pretty often, too. Out of the average month, I might see him 3 or 4 days. Sometimes I get so tired of being "single"...

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mamacathie @mamacathie (3928) • United States 14 May 07

I was wondering how long y'all have been married? My husband and I have been married 31 years today. It seems like a lifetime in one way and then another it seems only yesterday. We have been through so many things together in...

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beckyjo Congratulations! That's a major accomplishment in this day and age! My DH and I have been married 17 years so far, and expect that it will be "til death do we part". Of course, he's out of town almost all the time, so it's pretty easy to get along! LOL

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dlhnola @dlhnola (70) • United States 22 Apr 07

Are any of you out there raising your grandchildren due to issues concerning their parents?

grandmother

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beckyjo I'm raising one of my grandsons. His dad is just not able to cope with full time fatherhood. His mother was mostly out of the picture by the time he was a few weeks old. I've either been babysitting him daily or having him live with me his whole life. It's not...

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shyshy @shyshy (21) • United States 7 May 07

So I took the 12 week challenge to motivate myself to eat right and exercise and see if I could lose some weight. I've been exercising every day and cut down on my eating for the last two months and haven't dropped an ounce. I've...

lose 30 pounds

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beckyjo I'm sorry that I don't have any advice for you. I can offer lots of sympathy, though! My sister and I have both been trying to lose weight and can't get anywhere. It's crazy! I ate right - small portions, healthy meals, etc., and I exercised at least 4 times a...

7 May 07

4cuteboys @4cuteboys (4099) • United States 7 May 07

So my first labor I had an epidural, the next one came too fast so I didnt get any epidural or meds, the third and fourth I had the epidural but the fourth time it wore off when I had to push so I felt it all (ouch!). This time I...

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beckyjo My 3 kids were all natural with no drugs. This was many years ago, so the docs kept wanting to give me drugs. No Thanks! I managed just fine without the "help". My first grandson came all natural, too - and he weighed 11 lbs, 8-1/2 oz! I was there in the...

7 May 07

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