billzehua

@billzehua (573)

China • Age 41

Joined myLot 16 years ago

my email is Billxiao@umeox.com

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Responses (73)

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Self Discovery: How well do you know yourself?

sherrybelle @sherrybelle (707) • United States 14 Aug 12

Some people live on the surface where they really don't know their selves, very well. They might know some intimate details about their favorite celebrity or they might know who won the Superbowl 5 years ago. I believe if I...

self discovery

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billzehua it's a good topic,but also a very complicated question if we want to go down further. life is a long quest journey of who we are, a status that does not stay forver the same. The surroundings could change us way different than who we were, and who we are going...

15 Aug 12

Do u agree think 2 much will hinder u make a decision?

longsdogin @longsdogin (454) • China 30 Dec 10

HI,my lotters,I'm in a awkward situation now,I need to make a decision but I think 2 much about the result of the decision will lead to.When I think more about it I find it is harder for me to make my...

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billzehua I've been there before, worrying too much each option ahead. I struggled for nearly half a month, going back and forth, back and forth, and then finally I went deep into my soul and found the answer. I cooled down for a while, but on and off I would think what...

31 Dec 10

What TV show seasons do you have on DVD?

maezee @maezee (41988) • United States 18 Dec 10

In the middle of our slow season, my new obsession (or thing to do) while at work is watching movies and seasons of TV on my laptop. It is a cure for boredom! What are some good TV shows' seasons that you would suggest?

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billzehua I have followed How I met Your Father and Mother all the way from season 1 to 6,totally fun----ny and legen---------dary.Plus, it got nice moves to hit on girls, like a bible.

29 Dec 10

What are your thoughts on God?

jypsyjulia @jypsyjulia (912) • United States 24 Sep 10

I know that not everyone believes in God like I do, but I'm just wondering what your thoughts are? Are you on the fence to believing in God, totally don't believe, don't care? Haha. Personally, I believe in God 100% and think He...

god

jesus

opinions

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billzehua Before i took it as something about religion,which is far far away from my current life. now I guess more open to things, and I d rather take it as kind of faith that pumpes energy and hope for us.However, I wonder how do we draw the line between superstition...

29 Dec 10

Over $100 an iPod, would it be waste of money?

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 9 Nov 10

ipod

money

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billzehua It applies the same to the handset market. The makers are now not trying to dig out of our pockets but to excavate our pokets by constantly push new devices into the market in a extremely high frequency. I do think it's a waste of money for our consumers to...

10 Nov 10

Are you afraid to die?

jypsyjulia @jypsyjulia (912) • United States 17 Oct 10

My brother and I were talking on the phone today because I had to be hospitalized again for the forth time (don't worry, just for panic attacks, so I'm fine! :)) and he said something like, 'You better be home for Christmas and...

death

dying

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billzehua I don't think about my own death, it seems something far away.But these days the idea descends to me what if something wrong happens to my parents, what can I do to save them.they are stepping into elders range, getting 50 years age.They ve worked themselves...

10 Nov 10

Do you think our children relies on technology too much?

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 9 Nov 10

After parents conferencing, my sister was told that according to statistics, many students had failed the math test in county midterm exams. And many of these students should need assistance immediately. One thing I noticed about...

calculator

children

technology

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billzehua We in China are forced to do the caculation using our own brain from Kindergarten, and generally speaking most Chinese students outrun American students in math work.So it might be a good measure to enforce into the schools right from the begaining level.I...

10 Nov 10

Man, do you do housework? how often?

liweiwei0909 @liweiwei0909 (403) • China 19 Aug 10

Nowadays, studies show that women do a majority of the household chores. till now, the mainstream of thinking has not shifted significantly from women being responsible for housework. One reason for this lack of change can be...

housework

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billzehua I used to do housework and it felt really good to be appreciated by my ex for my hard work. I m a stubborn man that worships the ideology of only blowing things up, driving fast cars, using the largest gadgets. Imagine how warm the scene would be when the...

24 Aug 10

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Is it happy to be single?

liweiwei0909 @liweiwei0909 (403) • China 19 Aug 10

Many unmarried people would like to say "I am happy", considering the single will be free, easy, carefree, and there is no need to worry about the family. You don't have to care about other people, you can do what ever in your own...

single

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billzehua I have just ended a two year's relationship and unfortunately I was the one who got dumped.You presented lots of the pictures of being single,actually I haven't thought about that much abt what would my life be in the future being alone. I believe one day or...

24 Aug 10

Can't find job 1 year after school -- Am I pathetic?

handsomeitaliano @handsomeitaliano (1050) • United States 23 Aug 10

I've been working in the health field for 2 years, I work for an ambulance company, it's private so I'm underpaid of course. I live in NYC. In October of 2009, I got my certification in EKG/Phlebotomy aka Patient Care Technician....

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billzehua Hi Handsomeitaliano, you know,I have been thinking about if there's any chance if I can land on a job in U.S. , but now definately your story reminds me that the unemployment figures in the USA is true.You know,hope someday you can try stepping your feet...

24 Aug 10

Sad news about my husband

suspenseful @suspenseful (40193) • Canada 20 Aug 10

yesterday, my husband who has als or Lou Gehrig's disease was out of it. We use a Plexiglas board with the alphabet on it and point to the letters because he could no longer speak. But he would just start with the first word and...

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billzehua Oh,my god,suspenseful, it's so huge and I feel so sorry to hear that!!! Though I m experiencing that but my loss of two years' relation in a second may help me to relate to you a bit.Now I can imagine you can even smell your husband's exsitance even when you...

22 Aug 10

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How do you cool off when it is too darn hot

hardworkinggurl @hardworkinggurl (37063) • United States 14 Jul 10

I do not know where every lives, but her in Chi-town it is too darn hot. We have had several days of very high humidity. The temperature is ranging as high as 110 degrees. The beached and pools are swamped with people trying to...

too hot

ways to cool off

womn in bathtub

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billzehua Here when the summer comes, the temperature can hit up to 37 degrees, schorching enough to cook an egg if you put it outside. especially when the cement roof is kept being exposed to burning sunshine, you feel living in the steam inside the house.Those are...

9 Aug 10

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Meeting in a Chat Room-

lilangelspreschool @lilangelspreschool (1129) • United States 22 Jul 10

Do you think meeting someone in a chat room and talking for a few months could turn into a real relationship off the internet? Do you think it could last? Have you ever met someone in a chat room? Did your relationship last?...

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billzehua Well, I think there's no seperiority of meeting someone in the real life over meeting someone online, come on, it's just the difference of the start of a relationship.Any type of online flirting needs to come down to the face-bo-face dating if it's to become...

25 Jul 10

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How can corrupt people can eat and sleep with care.

1anurag1 @1anurag1 (3576) • India 21 Jun 10

How can corrupt people can eat and sleep with care. There are number of good schemes I know which are launch to help poor and needy but at the end most of the schemes are not successful due to these corrupt people , they suck all...

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billzehua I have always hated these people, corrupt officials without even a piece of concience and humanity! Their hearts go way more dirty than the thefts.they are lower lives than animals even.I feel more pathetic than anger with them to tread on the basic human...

21 Jun 10

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I got disappointed. What should I do.

1anurag1 @1anurag1 (3576) • India 21 Jun 10

I have knowledge. I have abilities, I could work hard. But luck is not with me what I feel. I can do many things. I cleared many competitions; I faced many interviews in private sector and clear them. But in government sector I am...

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billzehua Life is not purely fair in front of oppotunities, especially when it comes to gov. jobs.Connection is a necessary powerful tool to facilitate your career there.I guess India has pretty much the same condition on this field.The important thing now I think is...

21 Jun 10

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I Am Hopeless At Selling Stuff..How About You?

Janey1966 @Janey1966 (24170) • Carlisle, England 20 Jun 10

Dear oh dear. Selling things..I am absolutely the world's worsed, believe me. Recently, we had a shower head that we wanted to sell as it couldn't be taken back to the shop due to the packaging being disposed of by accident. I...

selling is not my forte

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billzehua I m not a good sales I guess, at least that's what I think abt myself so far.but it feels extremely good to win a client's trust from the point where he is a stranger at first.To me, it's more than selling stuff to earn money,but more it's a process to sell...

21 Jun 10

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have you ever fallen asleep during your class or job?

Crazy_Poster @Crazy_Poster (751) • India 21 Jun 10

So Many times during classes :)lol I used to sleep in classes during high school all the time.:) teachers used to come up and hit the desk with their hands and so on to wake me up. Generally I used to sleep during those classes...

classes

job

sleep

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billzehua you brought me back to the colleage days when the stuffy professor was totally immersed in his professing, so dull that I slept over the whole classes, even though I was the monitor then.and also one time when I was giving a lesson to a student in my class,...

21 Jun 10

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do u think the travelling is one of the way to enjoy life?

noquite0325 @noquite0325 (473) • China 3 Jun 10

to be honestly,i love trevelling ,but only when i have spare time and energy.if i feel really tired,i prefer staying in the home all day than hanging out with guys. after a big exam and long trip,i feel my energy is not enough...

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billzehua I would rather call it a chance to discover what life really means to us,though I m not quite fanatic with travelling. Once I met some elders who have next set their feet out of the village they lived, i was feeling sorry for them to be caged in somehow, but...

3 Jun 10

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