candiec2005

@candiec2005 (828)

United States • Age 44

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Do You Believe in Heaven and Hell?

catjane @catjane (1036) • United States 8 Apr 08

I'm not sure I do. It's something we are taught as children so grow up believing in it. I just don't get the concept. If you're good you go to heaven, if your bad you go to hell. so define good and bad in terms of religion? I...

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candiec2005 That's the one question that no one will ever be able to answer with certainty: What happens when we die? Who knows! I'm not worried about it, I just try to be a good person while I'm alive (just in case you know), and then when my time comes, I'll worry about...

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your choice - live in partner or marriage... the pros and cons, huh?

jairgirl @jairgirl (2877) • United States 7 Apr 08

i use to think that marriage is the foundation of forever love and any two who's been united by God and or law should not be separated in any means. then i look to most relationship, i see a lot of marriage falling apart and...

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candiec2005 I have been living with my boyfriend for a year and I have not received any opposition from anyone except my mother. She is completely against it, which is why I haven't confirmed to her that I am living with my boyfriend because if I do, I know that she will...

8 Apr 08

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Do you still watch kid's TV SHOWS???

benthose @benthose (474) • India 7 Apr 08

The only show I still like is Tom and Jerry, the old original one.. But the other programs, I have grown out of.. How about you?? Still have the kid in you??? Cartoon Network?? Pogo?? Disney??Well, if you are a parent of...

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candiec2005 I like Tom & Jerry too. Occasionally, I watch it. What I do watch often is Looney Tunes. They are my favorite cartoon of all time! I have even bought 2 of their collections on DVD. lol. Bugs Bunny is my favorite character. He is so cute and smart. Hehe. I'm 27...

8 Apr 08

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I wish I had time to be happy.

Stephannie @stephcjh (38473) • United States 7 Apr 08

I work too much and do not have alot of time to be happy in my life. My family and I do advance sometimes but I am too wore out to enjoy the amenities. I hope it all pays off some day though. I want to set back with my husband...

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candiec2005 I'm sure that things might get hectic with you, but it can't be all work and no play. You should schedule in time for play too. At least try to do something fun once a week. That is so important. Otherwise, you're going to become stressed out and I don't know...

8 Apr 08

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i want to get married already.........

marababe @marababe (2503) • Philippines 8 Apr 08

I think I'm feeling another "down" moment. My high school friend just gotten married 2 days ago and something inside me, a teeny tiny part of me is jealous. By the way, I'm turning 21 this June. Huhu! I want to wake up with...

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candiec2005 I can understand if you're feeling a little jealous because you're friend has someone and you don't. However, that's not a good reason to get married. Plus, you are really young, so you probably don't even know what you really want in life. I would suggest for...

8 Apr 08

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What is the view outside your bedroom window? pretty or awful?

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 7 Apr 08

Do you have a pretty view outside your window or one that maked you shudder mylotters? 'Always before I had to look out my bedroom window into another persons bedroom window. not a view to inspire anyone. but now I see a row...

find serenity

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candiec2005 Wow. Lucky you. My bedroom view is the ouside parking lot. Not as nice as yours but it's not so bad either. It has never bother me though.

8 Apr 08

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Money, money, money...

twoey68 @twoey68 (13627) • United States 26 May 07

With the way the economy is today we all need to watch our money and spend it wisely. We all have our little tips and tricks for saving and making it stretch. I recently thumbed through a copy of Amy Dacyczyn's The Tightwad...

frugal living

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candiec2005 Let's see... I have a water filter. Therefore, I don't have to buy water everytime I run out. Also, I buy many things I need at Walmart because in general, Walmart is cheaper than Walgreens, CVS, etc. I turn off all electrical appliances when I'm not home. I...

8 Apr 08

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what is the most precious thing in this world ?

applecartronnie @applecartronnie (1984) • India 18 Aug 07

what do think is the most precious thing in this world ? think and answer.

think

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candiec2005 Life. The life we have received is the most precious thing to my opinion.

8 Apr 08

Sometimes you just don't want to be nice.

kbourgerie @kbourgerie (8780) • United States 7 Apr 08

In life, we all want to be nice to one another, be supportive, be good parents, friends and neighbors, but sometimes, don't you just want to be yourself and say what you really think? Wouldn't it feel good just to once in awhile,...

being yourself

life

polite

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candiec2005 Yea sometimes I wish I could just tell my boyfriend that he is an idiot because he doesn't think things through, or tell my mother that yes, I do live with my boyfriend and I don't see anything wrong with it. And to stop telling me how to run my life, because...

7 Apr 08

I'm cold hearted to the idea of.. .Love...

NeoComp @NeoComp (1316) • United States 6 Apr 08

I must say.. that at the age of 25.. I don't believe in love, romance.. marraige or happiness in love. I think that love is nothing more than a chemcical reaction.. and an illusion created in movies in books. I see so many...

love romance

song lyrics the who

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candiec2005 I am a couple of years older than you and I used to think just like you do until...I met someone who changed my mind about love and men entirely. He proved to me that not all men are skum (which is what I used to believe), and showed me what a real...

7 Apr 08

Would you continue a relationship with someone who cheated on you?

Ellie @ellie26 (4139) • Malaysia 6 Apr 08

I guess logically one will consider to discontinue the relationship. After all, if he or she loves you, he/she would not have cheated in the first place. But, there people who despite being cheated, decided to continue on with the...

bad relationship

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candiec2005 I would not tolerate cheating. I am a very loyal person and I expect the same loyalty in return. There is no excuse for cheating. If a person really loves you, he/she will not cheat. The main reason why I would end the relationship/marriage immediately if I...

7 Apr 08

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You belong to which generation?

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 6 Apr 08

- The Silent generation, people born before 1945. - The Baby Boomers, people born between 1945 and 1961. - Generation X, people born between 1962 and 1976. - Generation Y, people born between 1977 and 1989. Why...

baby boomer generation

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candiec2005 I have no idea why it's called generation Y and that's the generation I belong to.

7 Apr 08

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I'm just like my mother, please tell me its not true!

kbourgerie @kbourgerie (8780) • United States 6 Apr 08

Do you remember growing up and you swore up and down you wouldn't be anything like your mother? Now that you are older, are there times when you catch yourself saying those things your mother said or acting in a manner that is...

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candiec2005 I analyze myself a lot and I catch myself so many times doing and saying the things my mom does and says. It's scares me. Sad but true. We eventually become our mothers. Ahhh!!!!

7 Apr 08

Should you fight for the love of your life?

trusko @trusko (198) 6 Apr 08

So you met your soulmate, the love of your life. You are having a great time. You compliment each others personalities. Obviously its not always all rosy. But that is what relationships are about, right? Then he/she says I want...

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candiec2005 I think that if he doesn't feel the same you do, then he's not the One. If a person really loves you, they will want to be with you and work things out. I would let him go. Obviously, he/she does not want to be in the relationship anymore and they're being...

7 Apr 08

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Language in America (USA) are we loosing it?

raydene @raydene (9871) • United States 4 Apr 08

This is not a discussion to put anyone down... just doing some wonderings..... Here in the USA there is a big move to allow only English and stop catering to the bilingual programs..... It occurred to...

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candiec2005 Lol. You're right. A lot of young people don't know how to talk. I'm a paralegal and have working in the professional field for like 7 years so I speak proper English; it's become my vocabulary. Usually young people like that are still in school and haven't...

4 Apr 08

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Loosing Weight.........Need Advice

icyorchid @icyorchid (2564) • United States 3 Apr 08

I found out today I need to loose 30 pounds! Now I want to do this kind of quickly. I don't want to starve myself, but I don't want to take 6 months to loose it either. Can anyone suggest what to do? I can't really exercise. I...

advice on loosing weight

diet

loosing weight

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candiec2005 Please bear in mind that the quicker you lose the weight, the quicker you will put it back on. I would suggest for you to do cardio for like 45 minutes 3 or 4 times daily. (Remember: the more you work out, the faster you'll lose weight). Eat small meals more...

4 Apr 08