chayapathys

@chayapathys (2111)

India • Age 59

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Enjoying the Moment

Beaufly @Beaufly (991) • United States 30 Mar 11

I have recently started meditating on a small scale but I find it helps me to stay centered, calm and peaceful. More importantly, it keeps me focused in the present moment, which is all we have? How do you stay in the present or...

calm

centered

meditation

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chayapathys Meditation is the only way to be happy and also make others around us happy.Budhism is completely based on meditation only. Even in Hinduism much importance is given to meditation. The saying is when your mind changes the world around you changes. There is...

31 Mar 11

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Do you smoke?

sexyice @sexyice (873) • Latvia 13 Mar 11

One cigarette reduces life by 5-7 min. Also, I smoked last 7 years, but for five months I NO smoke. I am very proud of the fact that I have abandoned. Actually felt better and my health has improved. It was not easy to quit, but...

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chayapathys Thank you for your advice not to smoke.No doubt smoking is injurious to health and that is what every cigerrete packet says. It is good not to smoke but it is also very difficult to give up smoking.You are great in giving up smoking.Congrats.I also smoked once...

13 Mar 11

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Bribing police men – is that helped you in getting away……..

CSHINE @SHAMRACK (8576) • India 9 Mar 11

I had bribed police few times, that was when I went wrong side, when my car got hit to the electric post, to get one of my friend’s case in favor of him and the last time I gave bride was when the investing policeman was not...

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chayapathys What You say is correct.Bribing police helps us to relieve mental tention and further troubles and nuisance.After all there is corruption in every walk of life.I can say there is no one who has not bribed for getting favours and also avoid disappointments.We...

9 Mar 11

Is Love Blind?

floranabolilan @floranabolilan (80) 28 Sep 10

When we are first in love, and during the first weeks or months or even years of our marriage, we must see our loved one as perfect, and we can tolerate no unpleasant feeling toward her or him. But as time pass by, unknowingly, if...

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love

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chayapathys Yes love is blind.When you fall in love at first sight you are guided by the outward appearance and sweet talk.They are not the real nature of the person with whom you are going to live and share your happiness and sorrows.Outward looks are deceptive in many...

8 Mar 11

Cough and Cold, could not sleep last night,

AjaySinghBaghel @AjaySinghBaghel (5506) • India 7 Mar 11

Hi Friends, After a long time I was with my friends and they insisted to have cold drinks and I accepted. I came back home and after 2 hours my throat was becoming very rough. I suggested my wife to make tea with Ginger, it was...

cold

cough

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chayapathys You please consider this saying which is very popular.."Treated cold lasts 7 days and untreated cold lasts one week"So far no one has invented medicine for cold which is true.There will not be any human being who does not get cold and cough.If any one says NO...

7 Mar 11

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Looking for new ways to make money online.

NIECIE21 @NIECIE21 (365) • United States 7 Mar 11

Hi Mylotters! I am getting married next year and am having to pay for the wedding ourselves. I am looking for ways to make money online (I already belong to seveal sites, and would like to stay away from PTC that only pay like one...

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chayapathys It is only a dream to make money online particularly in PTC sites.If you are serious in making money better to see other avenues open and available to you. In my experience what we get is pittance considering the time and energy we spend..All the...

7 Mar 11

Internet Money Making Programs

gwssgaa1008 @gwssgaa1008 (448) • India 6 Mar 11

For last 1 year I was searching and doing many online works and I understood now the earning money online easy but we have to come under right track and There are many programs to earn money and I was not in track for the first...

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chayapathys How come you have found out so soon the secret of making money on line.For me I have been trying for a long time to make a decent money but I am unable to earn even 3 doolers in a month.Congratulations.Kindly share your secret...

6 Mar 11

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Do you think too much money is a problem?

scheng1 @scheng1 (24649) • Singapore 27 Feb 11

Most of us do not have the problem of having too much money. We have more debt than money anyway. We may not even know the rich people with too much money. However, many of the TV serials dealt with the lifestyle and problems of...

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chayapathys Did any one with riches complain that he is not happy with his riches.I think Not.We the poor people imagine that rich people are also not happy.In one sense it is correct that they may not be able to manage with so much riches.First of all let us become rich...

27 Feb 11

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How security changed.

Lore2009 @Lore2009 (7378) • United States 26 Feb 11

I saw a show that compared security from past and present. In some country, they used to openly write super stars addresses on magazines in the past, but now of course, they wouldn't do that. But even if they exposed home...

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chayapathys I agree with you.The present with so many comforts and conveniences is less secure for human life than in the past.Life was simple and people were less competitive in earning and making wealth.Yhough they lived a comparatively hard and less comfortable life...

27 Feb 11

life is not a bed of roses?

DoctorDidi @DoctorDidi (7018) • India 26 Feb 11

The world is so beautiful; nature is so colourful with so many contrasts, with flora and fauna, with hills and seas. Yet life here is not a bed of roses. Why? Then is it really a bed of thorns? What is your opinion?

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chayapathys The answer is in your own startement.Besides excellent smell and wonderful colour rose represents both sides of pleasure and pain in that it consists of thorns also.When you think of the bright side it is very nice. Really bed of roses is of...

27 Feb 11

Misunderstood.

Lore2009 @Lore2009 (7378) • United States 20 Feb 11

Yesterday, I said "Welcome back" to someone when they came home. Suddenly the started to act weird and give me some defenses. I got confused to realize that they thought I said "What (do you want)?" instead. I didn't bother to fix...

communication

misunderstood

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chayapathys This happens sometimes because the intention and meaning of words are mistaken.When you say 'wecome back' you went by your good intention of welcoming them.But they have gone by the word 'back'.They would not have been got weird if you had said only...

20 Feb 11

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Income Tax and we in India.

DoctorDidi @DoctorDidi (7018) • India 3 Feb 11

February is in and I think all office workers are now busy with their last minute preparation of Income Tax returns. I am an Indian and so not aware of the Income Tax formalities followed in other countries. But in India, it is...

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chayapathys I am from Incometax only.Taxes are inevitable.If we do not pay taxes how can the Govt run.It is an annual feature.No doubt.Now I recollect an incident when two tax payers were discussing about the annual feature of payment of Incometax.One man was saying that...

20 Feb 11

"Do as I say, not as I do."

Lore2009 @Lore2009 (7378) • United States 16 Feb 11

Inspired from my other discussion, what do you think of this saying? Some parents teach children many lessons from their lives, from regrets to success. Why do you think parents say this to their kids? Have they already given up...

lessons

parents

regrets

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chayapathys By teaching or telling their experience and knowledge during their life time to children the parents can not be considered as having stopped learining further for any reason.Where is it said that they should not learn?Parents consider that their experience in...

17 Feb 11

Depression in spite of no obvious cause behind.

DoctorDidi @DoctorDidi (7018) • India 12 Feb 11

I know a man who has the habit of always being in a state of depression. He is a high ranking officer under the Government of India drawing a lucrative salary. His only son is in his teens and is a brilliant scholar always...

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chayapathys The man who you have mentioned in the discussion must be the happiest man on earth.But He is not.There must be some secret behind it.How is he fairing in his official duties.Is he fair and honest.Many dishonest officials are unhappy for the reason that they...

17 Feb 11