chellymarz

@chellymarz (408)

Philippines • Age 46

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Newlyweds: Pregnant or not?

amyers06 @amyers06 (61) • United States 25 Dec 08

I just got married on Oct. 4th of this year. So far, everyone I know has asked me is I am pregnant or when will I be pregnant. I realize that this is the natural order of things. At the same time, everyone I know has either been...

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chellymarz i got married the same month as you did but differ in year, it was 2006. its a normal thing that people will expect you to be pregnant few months after the wedding, and some would think that you got married because you are pregnant. like me, my mother and...

25 Dec 08

First time Pregnancy!!!

questionsnoanswers @questionsnoanswers (622) • Canada 21 Dec 08

I am 20 years old and in about 5months i will be a first time MOMMY. I am a little scared but still happy. Is anyone else experiencing their first pregnancy? Or are there some mothers out there who would like to give first time...

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chellymarz hi there! i am also a first time mom. indeed having baby is quite expensive. that is why preparation is very important. i would suggest that you buy baby stuff little by little. that way the money that you will be shelling out will also be in small amount. u...

22 Dec 08

Imagine a life without cell phone?

prasanna1990 @prasanna1990 (816) • India 22 Dec 08

Yesterday my mobile got hanged and i went to service centre and got repaired the service man told you'll get ur mobile only after 2 days and i was feeling like my one hand was broken due to the absence of mobile phone i felt very...

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chellymarz hi there! the first time i got a cellphone was a year after college graduation. i was already working then. that was year 2000. before that, i dont mind not having a cellphone. we used landline to communicate. if ever me and my friends, family or boyfriend...

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in one word...describe 2008 for you...

shiloh_222 @shiloh_222 (5479) • Philippines 19 Dec 08

mine would be rollercoaster. so many twists and turns... disppointments and derailments... but i know that things happen for a reason. i hope for a better year...a better 2009...how about you?

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chellymarz mine? WORST! but i learned so much.

20 Dec 08

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Simbang Gabi starts..

warrior_777 @warrior_777 (1392) • Philippines 16 Dec 08

Today is Dec 16 the first day of simbang gabi. It was actually starts this morning. Did you go to simbang gabi? With whom? Do you buy bibingka or puto bumbong before going home after simbang gabi?

simbang gabi

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chellymarz im 30 n i only went as far as i could remember to 2 simbang gabi. i felt asleep during the mass. i only went because my sister dragged me and because of the puto bumbong.

17 Dec 08

Should I be worried..

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 17 Dec 08

when hubby says that on his way to work a couple of streets down there is a guy (or ugly woman.. couldnt tell) standing in front of a house staring at it blankly with huge butcher knife?? LOL im not answering my door today!!...

stranger in the neighborhood with butcher knife

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chellymarz if i were you, i would be scared. but i wont panic... i will call the police and report that there is someone out there in the neighborhood that looks really harmful.

17 Dec 08

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Do you dictate your children's life?

rosdimy @rosdimy (3926) • Malaysia 17 Dec 08

I was brought up by parents who believed that children have the right to choose certain things in life. Parents are there as teachers giving guidance and suggestions, not as total law enforcers. My parents had their reasons...

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chellymarz generally speaking, my parent allowed me to make decisions like what career to have, what school etc. but they sometime impose their own thing which contradict to mine. as a result we argue and at the end they still win because they are my parents. later i...

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Bah! Humbug!! Christmas is cancelled at our house!!!

mentalward @mentalward (14690) • United States 17 Dec 08

I've lost what little Christmas spirit I had. It has nothing to do with finances, although Christmas would be a little thin this year because of the economy. That normally doesn't phase me at all because Christmas really is in the...

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chellymarz last year i did feel the christmas spirit because i just gave birth and recuperating from labor pains and sleepless nights. but i had my baby so she is the best gift i had last year. this year, i told myself that i dont feel the christmas spirit again. because...

17 Dec 08

Do you think you will have a Merry Christmas this year?

warrior_777 @warrior_777 (1392) • Philippines 17 Dec 08

Because of the world crisis most people think that this Christmas will be their loneliest Christmas maybe they can said that because of their earnings these year. Maybe they compare to last years earnings they earned less now. But...

christmas

christmas party

exchange gifts

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chellymarz study shows that during these Holidays season, its been rated that the percentage of people getting depressed rose. the reason, people are putting pressure on themselves. like pressuring themselves to buy gifts even the budget is tight, preparing for parties...

17 Dec 08

Can other people drive you LITERALLY Crazy?

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 17 Dec 08

do you think if you grow up with some one or marry some one crazy that they could eventually just drive you nuts or do you think if that happens the spouse/family member already was crazy before hand but that person brought it...

crazy

family

human psyche

insane people drive others insane

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chellymarz hi there. a lot of people do things that get into our nerves. example of those things are betrayal, abuse, dishonesty, infidelity, sloth, murder etc. the list can go and on. when these things happen to us, what will make us crazy is how we are going to deal...

17 Dec 08

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One mistake that changed my life

johossain @johossain (35) • Bangladesh 16 Dec 08

I am not that big I mean old. Only 20 years of age. But at a very early stage I made a mistake, a big mistake for which I am paying every second. When I will tell about the mistake I know you will laugh at me thinking it is a...

in life

mistake

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chellymarz hi jo. welcome to mylot! people make decisions everyday. everything is done through deciding. what to eat, drink, wear etc... making decisions is very important because it has consequences. do we like it or not, we are going to face that consequence. you are...

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is suicide a way out if you learned that you're cheated by the one you love?

kenchiprincess @kenchiprincess (5296) • Philippines 16 Dec 08

boyfriend really felt bad last night. we were talking over the phone and he told me that a comrade of him is cheated by his fiance. boyfriend's friend and his fiance are set to be married January 2009 but the sad thing is the girl...

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chellymarz hi friend that really sad. sometimes when people in a situation that is so hurting, their mind becomes clouded and they do things that are not good. that's why it is really important that we have Jesus in our life because only Him can help us. if i were that...

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Do you think honeymoon is important?

Lee Ka @kaka135 (14931) • Malaysia 17 Dec 08

Many people, especially girls think honeymoon is very important, they think "we must go for honeymoon after we get married". Before and after I get married, many of my friends asked me this question. But actually I don't really...

honeymoon

marriage

travel

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chellymarz hi there. for me, honeymoon is important because after the wedding, its time to be intimate with one another. its the time to enjoy each others after the hectic wedding preparation. ideally honeymoon is done by newly wed to celebrate their marriage in...

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what is your wish for christmas?

shiloh_222 @shiloh_222 (5479) • Philippines 14 Dec 08

mine is a "merry Christmas and a blessed new year"... from the bottom of my heart. how about you ?

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chellymarz mine is a better year in 2009.... Merry Christmas!

14 Dec 08

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If I Never Knew You...

shiloh_222 @shiloh_222 (5479) • Philippines 11 Dec 08

If I Never Knew You is one of the title of the songs from the Disney's song... and it goes this way... If I never knew you If i never felt this love I would have no inkling of How precious life can be And if I never...

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chellymarz hi there. every person we meet, every situation we went through, and every little thing that happen in our life has its purpose. all these made us who we are at the present. i believe that not meeting people that are special to us now, would be like a missing...

11 Dec 08

work or husband?

spoiled311 @spoiled311 (5500) • Philippines 11 Dec 08

hi all! well, i just want to know, which would you choose or put first? work or husband? i will give you a scenario. you work at home and work nights. but your hubby needs to sleep early because he works early too. would you...

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chellymarz hi there. i would also do the same. our husband needs our care and attention. in the midst of our busy schedule, its really good to spare a good amount of time with husband and family. work will always be work. but quality time with family is priceless.

11 Dec 08

Do you believe in woman instinct or gut feel?

dorisday1971 @dorisday1971 (5657) • Philippines 6 Dec 08

Sometimes women get to discover the not so good activities or even the extra-marital activities of our partners simply through our own instint. They say that women have this special "talent" to catch the "illegal" activities of...

instinct

women

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chellymarz i do believe that. Woman's instinct. So many times my instinct are reliable especially if my partner hides something from me. i just have this feeling telling me that there is something wrong. what i do is ask my partner or that person to whom i have a gut...

6 Dec 08

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choose between a gift or a gift certificate, which will you have?

kenchiprincess @kenchiprincess (5296) • Philippines 6 Dec 08

i am just wondering how many of my fellow mylotters would prefer receiving gift certificate for a gift or would want to get a gift itself, either bought from the store or personally made? please share what are your thoughts on...

choices

gifts

people

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chellymarz for me, gift certificate so that i could buy whatever i like with that gift. because sometimes, people give something that i dont need, so i might not be able to use that item. so i would rather receive a gift certificate rather than a gift. but receiving...

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