cheodej

@cheodej (102)

Germany • Age 52

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Responses (53)

cheodej's Responses

Learning to drive...

spoiled311 @spoiled311 (5500) • Philippines 24 Oct 07

At age 31, this is the first time that I changed roles, from merely being a passenger to the one calling the shots. This is the first time that I slid behind the wheel. The problem is, I'm a very short girl, so I had to adjust...

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cheodej You are absolutely right! I can still remember my lessons in driving together with my husband & my driving teacher itself. I've got my license 6mos. after when I first arrived here in Europe 2003. My husband & I fought everytime when he teaches me to drive....

25 Oct 07

Did or Do you make your baby's food homemade?

nehrlas @nehrlas (202) • United States 23 Sep 07

When my daughter was a baby, I bought babyfood, but when my son was born, I made his homemade. Its funny, it saves a TON of money, and I didn't need to save it as much when I had my son as I did when I had my daughter. I just...

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cheodej you are absolutely right! homemade foods is always the best one for babies & for your pocket. it taste natural and is more healthy for the babies. keep it up.

16 Oct 07

What kind of friend are you?

ctrymuziklvr @ctrymuziklvr (11057) • United States 17 Sep 07

I tend to go overboard on everything I do. When I'm someone's friend I will literally give them the coat off my back...in the rain...lol. This actually happened to me one time but it's a long story I won't bore you with. I'm...

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cheodej through thick & thin, for good times & bad times, in sickness & in health & tell death do as part. if you are a real friend & this is what you must do. not only in words but also showing it. with no joke, that's what i am to my real friends.

18 Sep 07

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seperation and work it out?

jcyap888 @jcyap888 (721) • Philippines 17 Sep 07

i got this friend who work as a house helper. She been bothering from what his husband is doing, (he has girlfriend and he is always visiting her. until he confess that he loves the girl.) she is very confuse and at this moment...

seperation or work it up

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cheodej they must talk about it & make a decission. i don't understand why this things happen but she must be strong in dealing situation like this. i'll pray for her that she can overcome this obstacles in life.

18 Sep 07

Is it necessary to say "I love you"?

patgalca @patgalca (18366) • Orangeville, Ontario 8 Jan 07

I always tell my husband (and my children) that I love him. He usually responds the same way. We had an issue at Christmas that I thought would bring my marriage to an end. Slowly things got better. I told myself I would not know...

say love

show love

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cheodej for us wives is a bit important that we hear i love u's from the person we love and vice versa but never do as a habit. say only when you feel it. and it is not necessary for husbands to say i love you when they let us feel what they really feel like what you...

13 Sep 07

DO you say I love you all the time?

zrosado @zrosado (69) • United States 12 Sep 07

I was watching an episode of King OF Queens and DOug came across a good point. Him and his wife say I love you after ever hang up of the phone,after every good bye and he said do we have to say I love u, can we just say it only...

king of queens

say i love you

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cheodej i hardly say i love you not unless to the one i really love but saying i love you all the time is not good for me because it has no sense at all. my husband & i say i love you when it is needed or when we feel like it but not that often. you are right, it...

13 Sep 07

i enjoy watching hell date

ajyukie15 @ajyukie15 (217) • United States 13 Sep 07

i really like this show i like it because its reality show i like to watch how the victim react when the date starts going crazy lol do you watch it too?

hell date

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cheodej wow!that's interesting! i never heard of it. i think i should search it in you tube. thanks for the info. have a nice day!

13 Sep 07

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How to survive in a break up?

reignissah @reignissah (13) • Philippines 13 Jul 07

I always hear people say " love means never having to say you are sorry". But when lovers break up, why is it that the usual phrases you will hear is " I'm sorry I tried my best but this will never work out anymore". Love hurts...

break

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cheodej yes, break up hurts. if u want to start all over yourself, you must first accept the fact that all happen to your past is finished and no turning back. refresh your mind and make something new. search for your self and don't stay alone at home. go often with...

12 Sep 07

threaten me with our daughter

nimwia @nimwia (29) • United States 12 Sep 07

I am having issues in a relationship I have been in for almoat 6 yrs.I have a 5 yr old daughter and when talk of spliting up comes up he threatens to take his daugher and move half way across the contry. That is not fair and I...

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cheodej that is a sad story i've ever heard. i can't even think of me when i'm in your shoes. but living with unhappy married is nothing. i suggest refer your problem to a lawyer because i think you have the strong custody for your daughter because you are the...

12 Sep 07

can teach me how to earn money in mylot ??

Hawaiiblue @Hawaiiblue (422) • Malaysia 12 Sep 07

anyone can teach me how to earn more money at mylot... i no t so sure to use tiz...plz teach me ...thank you...

make extra money

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cheodej refer friends, start discussion(anything u could think of) and response to the discussions. that's all u have to do and little by little u can see ur earnings.

12 Sep 07

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Congrats to my daughter, Celestialceece on your 10 star rating!

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45940) • United States 11 Sep 07

My daughter has made it to 100 posts and has a star rating of 10! She has told me that she really enjoys being on MyLot and the many connections she has made. Right now, she is having a flare-up of her rheumatoid arthritis...

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cheodej congrats to her and extend my prayers for her. may she get well soon!

12 Sep 07

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Do you have those days when you find yourself unable to make a response?

Storm @jcj_111776 (3216) • Philippines 12 Sep 07

Because sometimes there are days that I really can't think of any good ideas to put in my response. Like today. First, I tried to give comments on those who responded on my discussions, to keep the discussion more interesting. An...

cant think of a good response

give comments

those days

wiring

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cheodej likewise here my friend. i do sometimes need to think more about what response do i have to give. and you're right, we need to take a break. goodluck!

12 Sep 07

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Were you ever teased when growing up?

BlueAngelRS @BlueAngelRS (2899) • Canada 21 Aug 07

All through my child hood in my home town I was teased called names and people would always make reference to my weight or what have you... I do have a few good child hood friends I still have contact with but they are slim and...

blueangelrs

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cheodej some people are so mean when they tease someone but i don't mind them and they stop, that simple. they are just bored human beings that has nothing to do with their own lives.

21 Aug 07

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Anniversary Next Week

nicolecab @nicolecab (923) • United States 5 Jun 07

Ok my anniversary is next week and I have no clue what to get my hubby. This will be our third year of marriage. The only thing that I know he really wanted he went out and bought himself. Need help finding a gift got any ideas?

anniversary gift

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cheodej bake a cake or cook his favorite food. this is better than spending expensive gifts.

30 Jul 07

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What to get my 2nd child for his 1st birthday?

snookumsnort @snookumsnort (313) • Philippines 30 Jul 07

We came from a vacation from my mother's and she has absolutely spoiled my 2 children with toys. With a lot of toys, I'm stumped on what to get my son for his 1st birthday because my daughter already has toys that she can pass...

birthday

gift ideas

musical instruments

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cheodej we're all the same! but eventhough they have a lot of toys 1 yearl kids still love to have new toys but buy little ones and not expensive ones, they appreciate it better than any other things i guess.

30 Jul 07

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Mothers Stories.....

viollet_ry @viollet_ry (968) • Indonesia 27 Jul 07

How old is your mom now? And how is she? My mom is 51 now. And she is still healthy actually. I can say she looks younger than her age. She is a very busy person. She like to do things all the time without complain. She never...

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cheodej as of my calculation my mon is now 77years old but sad to say she is 24years now away from us and we know that she is happy now with her creator. as far as i can think of my mom is a very good cook also. a teacher and a good mother too. i was just 12years old...

27 Jul 07

What would you have done? Please read on...

dana234 @dana234 (2114) • Spain 15 Jul 07

Our neighbours, a couple in their thirties are forever violently arguing and making up afterwards. Today he was holding her down to the floor by the throat and hitting her at the same time. We live two floors above and I could...

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cheodej of course you are not overreacting! such couple is unbelievable. i don't understand why the wife is still staying with him? love? i don't think so. you don't beat or hurt your wife when you really love her, right? just close your eyes & ears and pretend you...

26 Jul 07

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new age

storyteller66 @storyteller66 (67) • United States 25 Jul 07

Whst would you do if you found out that your daughter's boyfriend has been beating on her.

mother

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cheodej he can't see my daughter again, ever! if he comes back, i can't promise if i can control myself. he maybe look a place to hide! nobody beats my kids!!!

26 Jul 07