cheska26

@cheska26 (34)

Philippines • Age 38

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Your alltime favorite song/artist ?

NrgDfenZ @NrgDfenZ (1810) • Belgium 16 Mar 09

Hi all I"m looking for some good songs, and I was wondering what you like. Can you tell me what youre favorite song or artist is ? Thx a lot

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cheska26 oh wow.. I love music alot and I have a big collection of songs from cd's to playlists all over the net to itunes i get confused sometimes. The big winner for me right now would be bob dylan original - To Make You Feel My Love. I like Adele's version of this...

16 Mar 09

Do you still find yourself thinking about your EX?

bubbletush @bubbletush (1332) • Philippines 25 Feb 09

No matter what the reason was that made you and your EX part ways, there are of course good and memories you've shared. Up until now, do you still at times think about your ex, the good times or the bad times? What memory of your...

memories

reminiscing

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cheska26 well, i do sometimes even though i know im happy with the person im with right now it never stops me from thinking of my ex ever once in a while, he was my bestfriend then became my boyfriend and for some reason i've already forgotten we broke up and sometimes...

25 Feb 09

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Will Prayers Get Answered At Some point Of Time ?

sukumar794 @sukumar794 (5040) • Thiruvananthapuram, India 31 Aug 07

Quite often , I feel that my prayers remain unanswered.Is it just a feeling confined to my person only or does my fellow Loters feel the same thing at times.? I carry the conviction that God helps not in a way that you desire the...

futile attempts

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cheska26 i think that our prayers are answered in some form of sign/s. sometimes it is right in front of our face and we tend to see past it, we do not recognize that this is the answer that we've been waiting for all along, although some of it i think are answered in...

31 Aug 07

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would you marry a terrorist???

Miguel Z. @habichuelo (3100) • United States 27 Aug 07

would you???

lover

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cheska26 of course i would not know that he is a terrorist at first, but then i think if the relationship is working and i really really really love the person despite his absurd behavior i would. although what he believes in is a terrible thing and is considered bad,...

30 Aug 07

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someone is using you

babybluebellebj @babybluebellebj (413) • Philippines 29 Aug 07

what will you do if someone is around you, let say want you to be his/her friend...but he/she only does that because he/she likes your friend? and only using you to be with the one he/she likes...

friend

likes

love

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cheska26 if you know that the person is using you, why don't you talk to him or her about it and the situation calmly? and if proven or admited w/apology then go on and be his/her friend but not that clos anymore but w/o apology then leave that fu**ing person.

30 Aug 07

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what to do??

egyptmero @egyptmero (43) • Egypt 30 Aug 07

i don't know what to do i met a girl over the net i loved her and she say's she love me too but after along time and only before alittle from now i cought her striping on the net she was showing off and say's it's...

love

problem

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cheska26 well, you caught her.. have you met or dated? if you haven't then leave her.. its the best thing to do.

30 Aug 07

When do you know when you're ready to get married?

greikos @greikos (19) • Philippines 27 Aug 07

I'm 20yrs old and I really want to get married already before I reach the age of 25. Am I too young to get married? what's the marrying age?How do you know if you're ready?besides stability wise is intuition enough and the feeling...

age

marry

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cheska26 being ready for responsibility that is bigger than you. i guess. marriage is just black and white. its a contract that you sign to ensure that you are committed as in really committed. if no one objects to your idea of marrying her and you have thought of this...

28 Aug 07

how can i get my friend to realize that he's better off without her?

yuseff @yuseff (125) • Philippines 10 Jun 07

i have this friend who has a girl that does'nt want my friend going ou and having fun, wants him to call her up every night at exactly 10pm or she gets mad, she does'nt want him going out but she does'nt want us, his friends to...

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cheska26 are you two close? maybe you can ask him - if he's not happy then why does he stick to that situation? can't he like introduce you guys to his girl so that she can get to know his friends and somehow learn to trust them. as a friend you have to help him or...

28 Aug 07

Do you fall in love?

vishwas81 @vishwas81 (359) • India 28 Aug 07

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cheska26 this is challenging, hmm.. falling in love? well, i guess i had, have, will fall in love over and over. i compare that feeling with breaking up. you see when you fall in love, you can't eat, sleep, you tend to freeze and stare in space, feel butterflies inside...

28 Aug 07

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Love

Jacky1000 @Jacky1000 (1) 28 Aug 07

I have a relation with 2 men.They don't know it from each other and i like to keep it that way. What you think should i stop ad tell them or go on and just have the fun i am having know ?

love

sex

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cheska26 what 'he' (both of them) doesn't know wont hurt him.. right? if your just playin' then it ain't bad. so just keep it together and don't blow your cover.;p

28 Aug 07

Do you think your significant other should tell you what your going to do?

Laurla98 @Laurla98 (786) • United States 28 Aug 07

Should your significant other be able to tell you what you are or not going to do? How do you deal with it? I would just tell my husband that he isn't going to tell me what I'm going to do and thats that. I can't stand how people...

bossy

controlling

inconsiderate

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cheska26 not actually 'tell' but rather suggest. in my case my fiancee and i discuss things, before we rely solely on what the other would decide upon, but now we talk about it, the situation, pros and cons of our soulutions then we both come up with the decision....

28 Aug 07

Do you always say hi when you see someone from your past?

whywiki @whywiki (6066) • Canada 28 Aug 07

I was in a store buying something the other day and the clerk was really familiar. About halfway through the transaction I realized who it was. I hadn't seen him in 20 years and he didn't seem to recognize me so I said nothing and...

day to day discussions

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cheska26 it depends, sometimes when i come across a person whom i've known for so long,i think that i'm too shy to say hi or greet the person but if that person would greet me first then i would reply. its hard just to say 'hi' cause he/she might mot even recognize me...

28 Aug 07

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I got to admit, that ...

deliciouslyjuicy @deliciouslyjuicy (364) • Philippines 27 Aug 07

I am a failure in every relationship i entered myself into.. got this attitude "My way or the highway"...ive realized that this isn't doin any good to my boyfriend and to myself as well. I am punishing and suffocating my...

relationship

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cheska26 maybe you can ease in the idea of giving in to your partner, letting go of yourself. imagine yourself in his shoes, something like that. you are not a failure, its just that maybe you are afraid of letting go or losing grip that you tend to control, people can...

28 Aug 07

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do you feel lonely???

imcreative @imcreative (17) • India 26 Aug 07

hi, do you feel lonely sometimes in spite of many people being around you. please tell me. i am all ears to it.

do u feel lonely

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cheska26 yes. sometimes, i think it is called depression? but i do, whenever i am stressed soooooo much, i even end up having a fight with my boyfriend or my mom. it hard when you pretend that you're ok even though you feel empty inside.

26 Aug 07

I have one message for lovers..!!

prasanna9 @prasanna9 (154) • India 26 Aug 07

Don't lose your loved ones,for those who are interested in arranged marriage:Try to love your partner don't neglect them,give a bit of important to their feelings, its a message from a lone heart...!! so if you have any messages...

dont negelct

love

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cheska26 i agree. this is good one. whoever you have or got you have to love, respect and care for them no matter what.;p

26 Aug 07

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Your lover, your parents, your friends, WHO DO YOU BELIEVE IN MOST?

willypicky @willypicky (128) • Vietnam 25 Aug 07

On my opinion, I believe in my parents most. Because they are truthful. Anyway, your friends are so good to believe, and when your lover become your husband/wife, you can believe in him/her.

believe

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cheska26 believing is relative. our parents, friends or lovers believeability(if thats a word) depends solely on the issues or things they may say, sometimes we depend so much on them that we lose our own judgment and we forget that no matter what they say, it is...

25 Aug 07