chrys84

@chrys84 (118)

United States • Age 40

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Politically correct! MIscarriage

Debs_place @Debs_place (10520) • United States 19 Nov 07

A girl I work with just had a 'miscarriage' at about 12 weeks into her pregnancy. I was corrected by someone who told me that the word 'miscarriage' is no longer used, because it implies blame. I was told that 'Spontaneous...

miscarriage

politically correct terms

spontaneous abortion

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chrys84 I think the word "spontaneous abortion" implies blame. I would rather tell people or be asked if i had a miscarriage rather than the other way. It's a less offensive word and implies sincerity and concern.

19 Nov 07

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Best city you have visited???

Pablofrase @Pablofrase (44) 11 Nov 07

I just wanted to find out what people's favourite city and for what reasons. Whether its the culture or the architecture or the history or if it's a city you have just had a great time in and means a lot to you personally. My...

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chrys84 Hands down LAS VEGAS!! yea baby!! i dont think i need an explanation for that city. But if you've never been there, then i'll list a few things. #1 All you can eat buffet #2 Free drinks while you gamble #3 Hot tubs in your hotel room #4 (the best reason)...

11 Nov 07

Robbing the Cradle

nixtickleme @nixtickleme (349) • United States 7 Nov 07

Do you think its a bad idea for a woman who is 28 to date a guy who is 20? Lets say in the next three months he will be turning 21. Let's say he just reminds her of what it was like to be 20 again and she likes that naivety he...

love

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chrys84 What i say is "to each his own". You can't judge other people's lives. I bet there are a thing or two you wouldn't want people to know about you because you'd be affraid of judgement. Right?? I'm just saying, everyones different and as long as their happy,...

11 Nov 07

If you had 1 Wish for today, What would it be?, and Why?

Stephannie @stephcjh (38473) • United States 26 Jan 07

Hi. I often wander what tomorrow will bring when I lay my head down to sleep at night. I often pray for the next day to be alot better than the day before. I also find myself thinking about, what was so wrong with today as...

joy

peace

wishes

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chrys84 If i had one wish for today it would be for my exboyfriend to fall back in love with me. I miss him so much and i'm still in love with him. We're still friends because the relationship didn't end on bad terms at all. He just fell out of love with me. I don't...

6 Nov 07

Who else out there does this highly annoy?

Dask1221 @Dask1221 (160) • United States 4 Nov 07

This is something that really bugs me. I am big on grammar and proper English and what not, when talking or writing. Of course, I know everyone slips up sometimes, but come on, when it's constant and the people obviously know...

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chrys84 I think your post was completely uneccessary. People shouldn't have to feel like they need to use proper english or grammar when they're online. This media has encouraged lots of new words and acranyms.(i'm pretty sure i spelled that wrong) As long as you know...

4 Nov 07

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Shoes.....How many do you have?

daycarepal @daycarepal (1998) • United States 2 Apr 07

How many pairs of shoes and sneakers do you have in your closet right now? Do you have some that you never wear? I have about 12 pairs. During the week I mostly wear sneakers. I do have a nice pair of boots that I like to wear and...

feet

shoes

sneakers

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chrys84 OMIGOSH!! i have sooo many shoes!! i love shoes, and i can't go to a mall or store or anything without buying a pair. i beat myself up over how much i spend on them too beacuse if i would have saved all that money i wouldn't be on here earning extra. Ha ha ha....

30 Oct 07

Is Money Evil??

eashoor @eashoor (307) • Canada 11 Jul 07

The entire concept of money and work truly bothers me. I watch friendships and families and relationships fall apart and get destroyed because of money. Comments??

money

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chrys84 i agree with jimbo that money is not what's evil. People make such a big deal about how much money THEY have and how much other's DONT have. It's really sad. But we have been using diffent types of currency throughout the centuries. before people traded goods...

11 Jul 07

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Finish my sentence.... game

sahm35 @sahm35 (890) • United States 18 Jun 07

I am so tired...

games

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chrys84 of being sick and sick of being tired.

11 Jul 07

At the End of My Rope!

Aurone @Aurone (4755) • United States 10 Jul 07

I hate to dump on everyone, but I am at the end of my rope! My husband is in graduate school and has been ever since I have know him. He comes home every day with the "grad school is hard poor little me routine. No one has ever...

depressed

help

husband

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chrys84 That's really sad to hear, i hate reading stories about relationships going down the drain, because it discourages me. I really want to get married one day and i want it to work. But life isn't a fairytale and sometimes things don't go according to plan. Can i...

10 Jul 07

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Why is it so hard to become a christian?

lokayna @lokayna (18) • United States 10 Jul 07

I grew up in a christian family home all my life and have always believed in God. I really want to give my life over to the Lord but it is sooo hard to do! How do I get where i want to be? How do I let go of all the things that...

becoming a christian

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chrys84 i feel your pain. I know how hard it is to live the perfect life. I started going to a christian church and the more i learned the more i realized how much wrong i really was doing. and when you have been doing those thigs all your life it's hard to just kick...

10 Jul 07

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What do you all do for excitment?

fyrechsr @fyrechsr (293) • United States 10 Jul 07

Im just curious and also looking for ideas. It seems I live a boring life as I feel we never really do anything. I mean occasional trips to the park or out to eat. Once in a while the boyfriend and I catch a movie. So anyway...

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chrys84 I don't know where your from i'm not familiar with Woodbridge, but around here there are all sorts of things to do. I spend so much money because were always doing things out here. I'm from southern California, San Pedro specifically, and we have ports o'call...

10 Jul 07

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Lasic Surgey

tgfan51 @tgfan51 (6) • United States 10 Jul 07

Is lasic surgery really worth the money it cost. Looking to have it done soon. Around $3000 an eye. Anyone had a bad experience with it or know someone who has.

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chrys84 My mom just got it done and she say's she cannot explain the feeling you get when you can open your eyes and see. She was so happy she cried. The next day i took her to her follow up appt and she was reading EVERY SIGN in sight. It was funny, but i could tell...

10 Jul 07

Who cares more for the parents ? Son or Daughter

kudeshi @kudeshi (529) • India 10 Jul 07

Who cares more for the parents ? Son or Daughter

care

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chrys84 It doesn't matter wether your a son or daughter it depends on the relationship you have. Some son's are more close to thier mothers and vice-versa with son's and fathers. or Daughter's and fathers. It's the relationship you create and keep.

10 Jul 07

Would you do this to a co worker?

nicolec @nicolec (2671) • United States 10 Jul 07

The other day I had decided to get lunch from a local restaurant. I told my coworker that I was ordering lunch, did she wanted anything. At which she replied 'yes, will you please order me ....'. Ok, so I call in our order, they...

food

money

work

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chrys84 OH that's rude. I would never do that. We're always ordering food here at my office and if i don't have enough money to cover what i want (including, price, tax and tip) then i don't include myself. She shouldn't have done that, she totally took advantage of...

10 Jul 07

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Have i done the right thing?

Mahini @Mahini (14) • Australia 9 Jul 07

I have a 16 year old son from a previous relationship and have 3 children to my second husband... my 16 year old son does not get along with his 7 year old sister and im always stepping between them to sort out fights ......

siblings

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chrys84 Oh my gosh. That is very heartbreaking. I wouldn't want to say anything to criticize your parenting, but what would compell a 16 year old to hit a 7 year hold. You would think at that age he'd know better, 1. not to hit a girl and 2. especially not a 7 year...

10 Jul 07

What is the age difference b/w u & ur husband/wife?Does age difference meanfor u

madhuraks @madhuraks (425) • Kuwait 10 Jul 07

My & my husband age difference is 3yrs & 4 months.I think the age difference b/w partners should b with in 5 yrs bcoz they will have same mentality,understanding,etc....If the husband age is more then he will b having matured...

difference

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chrys84 there are two years between me and my boyfriend. I think as you get older things like age really don't matter too much it's about the person and even though it is a scientific fact that men's brain age slower then women's brains some men are more mature than...

10 Jul 07