clamrnguy

@clamrnguy (38)

Age 51

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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should needy families be required to take drug tests to receive aid?

raydene @raydene (9871) • United States 19 Aug 08

What do you think? I think it's not a bad idea as long as they will offer rehab. I do worry that children will suffer for the parents bad habits. I go back and forth about it. It's complicated! xoxoxoxoxoxo

drug problems

rehab

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clamrnguy yes,yes,yes. not complicated for me. i'm not buying noone else's drugs if i have a choice.

20 Aug 08

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I'm Watching Barack Obama Speak to the Veterans of Foreign Wars.

lloydanthony111 @lloydanthony111 (4698) • United States 19 Aug 08

Barack Obama makes so much sense that I find it difficult to understand why anyone would question his ability to lead our nations. He has receive numerous applauses from this group. They know he's making sense. Why should...

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clamrnguy I believe he is the modern antichrist. sorry, just an opinion, but the antichrist will be very crafty, "make sense", and have many followers. i hope i dont get murdered for saying this.

20 Aug 08

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Was the Death Penalty justified in this case? I don't think so.

lloydanthony111 @lloydanthony111 (4698) • United States 18 Aug 08

I just read this article and can't believe how callous this whole situation sounds. Here is the story. BRAIDWOOD, Ill. - Illinois State Police say four buffalo have been killed after escaping from a farm and blocking morning...

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clamrnguy i think it was justified, only if there was no other means of removing the animals, but if they had been people,due to new stipulations in the law these days, and there was no other way they would have shot them too. this i definately have a problem with, but...

18 Aug 08

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Bottled Up

lisa0351 @lisa0351 (303) • United States 12 Aug 08

My husband bottles up his feelings and emotions until one day he just breaks down. We've been working on it, but he is getting nowhere. I can tell when something is bothering him, sometimes he tells me, other times he doesn't....

brushes

emotion

love

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clamrnguy I am exactly how you described your husband. i have always been this way and did not even realize i was until recently, when i almost lost my wife of 7 yrs. it really opened my eyes to a lot of things, but nothing compared to what i discovered when i started...

18 Aug 08

I heard my two year old cursing while playing...

aseretdd @aseretdd (13730) • Philippines 15 Aug 08

Well yes... she started cursing when her toys would accidentally fall on the floor... and i was shock and apppalled... i do not curse so she could only have learned that form her grandparents... since she spends the whole day at...

cursing

grandparents

two year old

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clamrnguy i think you should talk with the in-laws, but she will here these things all her life(and see things). i believe you can and should punish her, but not at first. continue correcting her until you are sure she knows the rules and then warn her that there will...

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Surprising Dad...

slepart @slepart (207) • Philippines 15 Aug 08

My dad and I have never been close but this year, I want to do something special for his birthday. I want to let him know I care but I don't think I can do something too demonstrative or affectionate.. That just might end...

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clamrnguy Slepart, you might be surprised to find that your dad has been longing to be closer to you. no matter what kind of personality type he is, he probably is thinking a lot of the same ways you are. he probably feels even more so than you, that he has let you...

16 Aug 08

i am a new father

alvinligan @alvinligan (3) • Philippines 10 Jul 08

i have very cute baby boy and he is 3 months old. can anyone give me important and valuable tips of experiences of how to be an ideal father? thank you..

dad

father

papa

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clamrnguy 1) bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the lord. nothing you can do for your children is more important. teach them about their true creator, and they will not depart from him. 2) provoke not your children to wrath. be patient with them. be angry...

31 Jul 08

Is it always gonna be about the color of your skin?

IBWISE @IBWISE (145) • United States 31 Jul 08

I live in Caldwell Idaho with my wife and three children, I am black and she is white, 2 the kids are bi-racial and 1 is white, welived in Washington State and we were faced with racism so we left. We moved to Idaho where we both...

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clamrnguy racism is sad because every one is made in the image of God. a piece of him is in every soul on earth. racism has been bred into many generations, and although we seem to be accepting other races more we have a long way to go. my children face much criticism...

31 Jul 08

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are you willing do grow old with someone?

nylnemnad @nylnemnad (166) • Philippines 31 Jul 08

relationships nowadays are like having cellphones. easy to ditch whenever you have much money, for something more latest and convenient. im wondering myself if everlasting love really exist. with the aceptance of divorce and...

relationship

true love

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clamrnguy hello, nylnemnad. i asked this same question in the"things i want to do with my life" catagory and started a new interest,"grow old with wife." read and respond if you like. everlasting love really does exist. why do you think old couples usually seem very...

31 Jul 08

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Whom do you prefer?

mobilecubie @mobilecubie (820) • Philippines 31 Jul 08

Hello everyone, I don't know if many people have already asked this but in case you were to select a partner in life whom would you prefer? someone who is younger than you or someone who is older than you? I don't think a one year...

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clamrnguy iv'e always been attracted to women younger than me because, with my low self confidence and insecure feelings about myself, i felt i could make a younger one fall in love with me. now i think if i would have chose an older more experienced woman, she would...

31 Jul 08

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Chicken or egg?

dextornap @dextornap (333) • India 31 Jul 08

What you think? which came first in this world? We all know mankind story. But what about chicken? what you think?

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clamrnguy yes,nice, lite, and lively discussion. we may not no for sure, but i think God made the adult chicken first and then gave him a mate. Adam was made from the dust of the earth like all living things, but was he first an adult male, or did God make him an infant...

31 Jul 08

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How did you propose to your fiancee to become your wife?

majestic12 @majestic12 (270) • United States 30 Jul 08

Was it traditional or creative? Do tell in detail.

love

marriage

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clamrnguy big problem in a lot of relationships. forget the past, look to the future, change the things you can, forget the things you can't. sure you are making memories, but forget the negative things that don't make or break the relationship.

30 Jul 08

do you love with your wife?

nasohail3 @nasohail3 (355) • India 25 Jul 08

this messgage is only for those who are married and they are happy after married some people are not happy after married they are in trouble one of my friends also there after married he is not happy do you like your wife

do you like your wife

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clamrnguy my wife and i have been married 7 years. i know to some, that's not long, but my love has grown even more deeply than at first. but i thought my love for her was enough until recently when one tuesday night she left me and took our four children (don't worry...

30 Jul 08