coolbear2010

@coolbear2010 (23)

China • Age 35

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What in your opinion is the main reason for someone to suffer from depression?

blimb @grkelly (1206) • Malta 26 Aug 10

In my opinion depression is predominantly caused by a radical change in one's life which causes the person to feel helpless or sad. Another main factor is loneliness and the need to feel a sense of belonging but failing to do so...

depressed

lonely

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coolbear2010 the main reason of my depression is a sense of failure.when i see others' success especially of my age,i feel depressed.and when i am turned down i have the same feelling.

27 Aug 10

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Shifting nature of a person

picjim @picjim (3002) • India 26 Aug 10

How do you deal with a person who keeps shifting his thinking and doesn't fulfill his commitments on one pretext or the other?I have found it very difficult to deal with such people after investing with them.Any tips on how to...

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coolbear2010 just don't care what he said too much,just smile to his commitments and don't give your promise to him.if i was you,i will keep him from distance.

26 Aug 10

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Should carrying pepper spray be legal?

Linda4ualways @Linda4ualways (2282) • United States 26 Aug 10

Would you feel better walking the street if this was legal? I know it is not legal because I asked a cop in the police station the other day. I have fears walking in my neighborhood at night. The crime rate here in Mount Vernon Ny...

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coolbear2010 it's ridiculous to be legal carrying pepper spray while gun is allowed in the US.especially for young girl it's essential to equip a protecter when they are along in the street.

26 Aug 10

My friend is depressed no matter how I try to uplift her spirit

caliya @caliya (1169) • Philippines 25 Aug 10

I have a friend who lives and work in a foreign country. We used to be room mates back in College but she has to live and work abroad with her family. She was very down and she said that she might be suffering from depression....

depressed friend

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coolbear2010 personally, a different environment is her source of depression.maybe you have a visit to her can help her.

26 Aug 10

Would you like your girl to dress up at all times?

deve_annrn @deve_annrn (1856) • Philippines 21 Aug 10

Hi guys.. this is for intended for men but ladies can drop by and post their opinions too.., I have observed that men in malls stares on ladies who dresses up and are fully made up.., Would you prefer your girls to do the same...

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coolbear2010 man is a kind of strange animal who like pretty girl to be gf and hope their gf not look too sweet when they have own them,haha.just to be confident of ourselves,go out with our girl dressing up well.

21 Aug 10

Would you still communicate with your ex though you have a new and better lover?

ShenniLy @ShenniLy (45) • Philippines 18 Aug 10

I have a 7-year boyfriend now and we are planning to get married 2 years from now. Just last year, my ex-bf (for almost a year)and I met in a disco bar accidentally. I was with my girl friends and my bf was at his evening work. My...

long time bf or gf

lover

texting

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coolbear2010 you just did what you shall do.everyone is supposed to be loyal to his or her lover even though it's one night stay.if it happens to me,i will let the opposite side to known i'm happy to be with my lover and what has happened between us has gone.

19 Aug 10

Is It Hard to say I LOVE YOU????

bird123 @bird123 (10652) • United States 14 Aug 10

Who knows the reasons we have for not saying I LOVE YOU? Perhaps, it's no more than we haven't said it in so long that it feels funny. Unseen hurt can develop in us all when we avoid this. We all need to hear I LOVE YOU!! We all...

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coolbear2010 we can say i love u to my parents,brothers,sisters etc.if we aways say i love u to someone defferent in nature,he or she will wonder if you really means so and mybe feel embarrassed if she or he dislike u.we shall say the sentence to our lovers not to...

15 Aug 10

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The Idiot Song

purplealabaster @purplealabaster (22091) • United States 10 Aug 10

I sing songs with my little one all the time, and she is now requesting songs herself when we are singing. Recently, she asked me to sing "The Idiot Song". I was not sure that I heard her correctly, so I asked her to repeat it,...

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coolbear2010 several days ago,when i was at school,i went out of my classroom for teacher's help.on my way back to my classroom,i was thinking about the exercise problem.i went into the classroom and sitted down not realising many student staring at me surprisely.i rised...

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Which things would you do more often if you didn't have to worry about money?

Porcospino @Porcospino (31366) • Denmark 10 Aug 10

In what ways would you change your life if you didn't have to worry about money? There have been plenty of discussions like: "What would you do if you won a million dollars?" but this discussion in not about a million dollars or a...

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coolbear2010 the fist thing is choosing a good palaestra.i will do my body-building training in the palaestra in stead of at home,couse i can get more profesional advises.what's more i can make friends who are falling in love with body-building,too.the sesond thing is...

10 Aug 10

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What was your biggest scar in your life ?

wildlittlefan @wildlittlefan (4680) • Hong Kong 10 Aug 10

Life is not east and many of us has gone through some difficult times of life and leave a scar in our history.This scar won't go awayt and it seems that bit alwyas influencing every arear or some parts of your life.It can be a...

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coolbear2010 biggest scar in my life is losing a girl's love.we had a friendship and are all happy with each other.but one day,i came aross another girl who was attractive.after that i spend my most time being with the other girl.now when i look back,i realise i made a big...

10 Aug 10

How To Live A Peaceful Life??

DeepakCool @DeepakCool (434) • India 10 Aug 10

Life, A Great gift that god has given us...... We have to live out life in a nice mannar.... Peace is very imprtant in our life.... How can we live a peaceful; life??h

peaceful life

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coolbear2010 be friendly to others,hold your temper,be concerned with others,let your mind filled with knowlege,to be wisdom,so you will have peaceful life.

10 Aug 10

Have you ever dated someone on the strength of someone else??

LaLa Leo @mrscallands22 (2851) • United States 10 Aug 10

This has never happened to me personally... but a few nights ago.. I was watching the sitcom "Family Matters" (which I'm sure that most of you are familiar with) and Carl (the father, man of the house and policeman) convinced...

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coolbear2010 i think we can see this condition from twe sides.if tne one ask you out to date with somenoe for her or him own,you just object to her or him.if she or he think about things on tne side of the angles,you need give it a consideration,not just depend on the...

10 Aug 10

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Do you wear sleeveless tops?

jillhill @jillhill (37354) • United States 5 Aug 10

I used to think I couldn't wear them as my arms are bigger then alot of women. Not flabby but just muscely! LOL....I finally have a tan for the first time in many years and now I have decided to wear sleeveless in this hot weather...

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coolbear2010 we charge a clothe from its appearance and comfort.women pay more attention the former,but men care its comfort more.it's no doubt that looking good in a sleeveless top give you a good day.

9 Aug 10

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do you/did you date outside your race?

keshia2007r @keshia2007r (2880) • United States 6 Aug 10

Hi friends and mylotters. This discussion is based on dating outside your race. Do you? or Have you? If not what do you think about it? Personally, I think interracial relationships are beautiful. Although i've never did date...

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coolbear2010 outside your race means different culture,different food,different way to think and to act.date with a gay like that,anyway you should accept those differences.someone can do that,but someone not.I don't knowe whether you can do that.if yes,it's a good...

7 Aug 10

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Meaning in life!

bekosfc @bekosfc (235) • India 7 Aug 10

Which of the two do you think gives meaning in life? Service for self or service for others? And give your reason for supporting either of the two! Thanks

life and meaning

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coolbear2010 of course is servicing for others.lei feng(1940-1962) is an famous example in china who aways helped people stilly.the way we define how great someone is is how many people he or she sevice not how many people sevice him or her.

7 Aug 10

online money making is tough

real_rhodella @real_rhodella (59) • Philippines 7 Aug 10

I've been online for more than a month now, spending most of my time looking for legit sites, reading forums and site guidelines. I'm so amazed with those people saying they had their payment for just spending a little time...

online money making

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coolbear2010 as a person from a country where poeple don't speak English,it will takes me more time to familiar with the way of earning money online.but i believer that once i grasp it,it will be easier to earn money only.

7 Aug 10

Please, I need help...

spazz435 @spazz435 (322) • United States 5 Aug 10

Okay, so my story is is that a year and a half after I was born, my biological father left my mother for another woman. So, today is my seventeenth birthday, and who is it that is the last person I find out to have wished me a...

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coolbear2010 when we young,we make some mistakes,it seems can not be avioded.your father is just one of them who want to make up for what he have done.maybe you should listen to his reasons why he left your mather and you before you make a decision.when you grow up,you...

5 Aug 10

i love you goodbye...

sincerelyne @sincerelyne (156) • Philippines 5 Aug 10

if there's a beginning,it also needs to have an ending. but the hardest part is,to say, i love you but i need to say goodbye,there are some instance in a relationship that maybe need to let go even if the love still there,not all...

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coolbear2010 I have ever loved a girl very much,but someone alse wes in her heart.I have tried to take his place in her heart,failed at last however.under that circumstance,i had two chioces ,quit or stick to.in the end,i quited.i believe setting her free is better to each...

5 Aug 10