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deb8er @deb8er (49) 11 Aug 08

I have been a victim of gang violence. The incident happened nearly 18 months ago now and I have only just begun to be able to write about it. I have found some solace in people and things on the internet. I have a wonderful...

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positiveminded1977 No, I have never known any such victim personally, and I have never been a victim myself. I have only read about such cases. I am sorry you had to go through such an experience, and I am glad you have many people to support you. I am also glad that you are...

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fearie @fearie (153) • Philippines 12 Aug 08

So I just got home from work. Im really tired because of the rush hour. Would you imagine a shift from 8-5. That means i have to be up 5 in the morning just to catch up with the rush hour. Sometimes im even thinking of quitting my...

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fearie Id be happy to have it with you

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lisa0351 @lisa0351 (303) • United States 6 Aug 08

To start off, I will say that I am not an alcoholic, but the story you are about to read is from a night out with friends a few weeks ago. We had started off doing a few shots for my friend on her birthday at a sports bar, then...

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penny64 At least you kind of remember it. It's those nights which you can't remember at all that are the real worry!

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lisa0351 @lisa0351 (303) • United States 6 Aug 08

To start off, I will say that I am not an alcoholic, but the story you are about to read is from a night out with friends a few weeks ago. We had started off doing a few shots for my friend on her birthday at a sports bar, then...

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nicholejade We have all had those moments after a night of hardcore drinking. I have taken off my shirt, made out with other girls, danced on the bar and have done a bunch of hilarious stuff as well. I am no saint by any means. We do crazy things but the key to drinking...

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lisa0351 @lisa0351 (303) • United States 6 Aug 08

To start off, I will say that I am not an alcoholic, but the story you are about to read is from a night out with friends a few weeks ago. We had started off doing a few shots for my friend on her birthday at a sports bar, then...

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I keep reading about how people find it easy to make freinds here but I have not had the same experience. I was attacked 18 months ago and have had to have a lot of surgery done on my face. Before that I was quite shy and since...

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Marie Anne I know it isn't as easy as it sounds, and I'm glad that you're going out with your brothers. Have fun!

12 Aug 08

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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chadmwright I think coming clean was the best idea and if they have a problem with the mistae then maybe they were not so friendly after all I plan on posting a picture of yself on here I just haven't gotten around to it yet.

12 Aug 08

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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izhuce13 sorry to hear you encounter! i think you can read more book instead of makeing from the website.you know book is the best friend of human.is we willing to, they will always by our side.the meaning od common borage is courage!behappy!life have to be go on!best...

12 Aug 08

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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girlie_techie12 hey! uhmm.. Dont be afraid to tell the truth, there you'll know if they are really "FRIENDS". Remember this, "It is better to be hate by others because your are true to them, than loving or liking you because of pretensions... and Hey! No one is ugly......

12 Aug 08

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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familyguy The internet gives us all a sense of anonymity. Most of the people you are interacting with probably aren't who they say they are. That's one of the attractions to online socialization. It allows for everyone to be more than they think they are in reality. The...

12 Aug 08

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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medicguy You shouldn't have problem to make your final call. For you to enjoy a honest relationship and friendship, first rule and the most important of them is to be truthful no matter what. As you have yourself mentioned that those people there are quite friendly,...

12 Aug 08

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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night71 Look, you are not at fault and you need to build up confidence again so you can feel good about yourself. Confidence is the key to any relationship. I feel bad for what happened but you are still alive and you should rejoice. Do not go around thinking you are...

12 Aug 08

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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James72 Well as far as I am concerned the truth shall set you free! A TRUE friend will accept you for who you are; regardless of how you may currently feel about yourself. And making people believe that you are something that you are not will not allow you to learn...

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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rae777 I am assuming you told them the reason for the lie when I say this: if they don't understand after what you have been through then they never were a true friend. True friends forgive and are there for you. So just continue to go on making friends with others....

12 Aug 08

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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trishasantos thats okay.. as the saying goes, "no man is an island"... oh btw in such experiences you will know who are your true friends.. you will find friends but it will take time but you will find them maybe just not now...

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 11 Aug 08

I have been a victim of gang violence. The incident happened nearly 18 months ago now and I have only just begun to be able to write about it. I have found some solace in people and things on the internet. I have a wonderful...

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MOMMASAM no, i have never been a victim as you were. as you are still feeling. but, i work at a crisis center and i've received phone calls from victims. you will need to process this tragedy at your own pace. not anyone else's pace. only yours. if you do...

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I keep reading about how people find it easy to make freinds here but I have not had the same experience. I was attacked 18 months ago and have had to have a lot of surgery done on my face. Before that I was quite shy and since...

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lazeebee My dear, don't worry too much about it. Take your time, keep posting, and enjoy the discussions - in no time, you'll find a lot of friends. When I first started a few months back, I was just like you - hardly know anyone, and when I posted my first...

10 Aug 08

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I keep reading about how people find it easy to make freinds here but I have not had the same experience. I was attacked 18 months ago and have had to have a lot of surgery done on my face. Before that I was quite shy and since...

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lisa0351 The only advice I have to make friends online is by putting yourself out there. Post discussions and to topics that interest you. Also, try a social networking page like Myspace. Putting yourself out there will help to make new friends. You can add me as a...

10 Aug 08

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I keep reading about how people find it easy to make freinds here but I have not had the same experience. I was attacked 18 months ago and have had to have a lot of surgery done on my face. Before that I was quite shy and since...

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rae777 I think you have to take the initiative here and send a lot of friend requests. I have been here 4 days and have not sent any yet nor have I received any. So I am thinking you have to send them out. I just been trying to get the hang of this place. :)

10 Aug 08

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I keep reading about how people find it easy to make freinds here but I have not had the same experience. I was attacked 18 months ago and have had to have a lot of surgery done on my face. Before that I was quite shy and since...

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manojjonam10 its not easy to make friends wherever you are, because it doesn't happens frequently,because its just hard to find friends of our type

10 Aug 08

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