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deb8er @deb8er (49) 11 Aug 08

I have been a victim of gang violence. The incident happened nearly 18 months ago now and I have only just begun to be able to write about it. I have found some solace in people and things on the internet. I have a wonderful...

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deb8er Thank you for your reply. I can see by your username that you have a good outlook on life.

13 Aug 08

deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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deb8er Thank you, I have had so many people tell me to post a picture but I really am not ready for that yet. I appreciate your answer though. I am going to make a website where maybe I will put some pictures in time.

12 Aug 08

deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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deb8er Thank you. I am touched and humbled by your reply.

12 Aug 08

deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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deb8er My brothers are of the same opinion as you and they take me out whenever they can even if, like yesterday, one of them took their car to the garage and insisted I comee with him and we walked back together.

12 Aug 08

deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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deb8er You are right, of course, and I have come clean and, although it hasn't been mentioned at all the other person is carrying on as if I hadn't told them. That was hard to take at first, but I realise now that they have read it and decided it didn't make any...

12 Aug 08

deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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deb8er Thank you for pointing out that I am not at fault. As to feeling ugly, I remember when I was 13 I thought I was SO ugly because I had braces in my teeth! I would do anything to go back to that now. You are right though about being thankful to be alive and I...

12 Aug 08

deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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deb8er You are right about accepting that I am worthy of respect and friendship and most of the time I can agree, in fact all of the time I agree in my heart, but sometimes it is so hard to do. Thank you for your comment.

12 Aug 08

deb8er @deb8er (49) 11 Aug 08

I have been a victim of gang violence. The incident happened nearly 18 months ago now and I have only just begun to be able to write about it. I have found some solace in people and things on the internet. I have a wonderful...

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deb8er Yes, it is just as you say. Thank you for your reply and understanding.

11 Aug 08

deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I keep reading about how people find it easy to make freinds here but I have not had the same experience. I was attacked 18 months ago and have had to have a lot of surgery done on my face. Before that I was quite shy and since...

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deb8er Thank you for your reply and I know you have some good advice. I am going to go out later with two of my brothers. They are taking me to the cinema. They have been making an effort to include me in their outings (they are all older than me, apart from my twin...

9 Aug 08

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alpha7 @alpha7 (1910) • France 28 Jul 08

AS a father,what do you do to help a child that is use to crying,any little thing you do against his wish,he crys,can Children like this be help in any way?

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deb8er Did you solve this problem? I hope so as I know my parents were at their wits end when my little brother was whinging all the time. They did try patiently telling him that he should stop and calmly tell them what it was he wanted to say as they could not...

9 Aug 08

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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deb8er I have told the truth now, but the person in question has been on line at the same time as me four times and each time did not take the opportunity to acknowledge me, nor have they replied to my message. I now feel worse than I did and have half started to...

9 Aug 08

deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I keep reading about how people find it easy to make freinds here but I have not had the same experience. I was attacked 18 months ago and have had to have a lot of surgery done on my face. Before that I was quite shy and since...

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deb8er How right you are! I do sometimes get a bit down and can't see how fortunate I am. I have a wonderful family, my brothers and sister are fantastic people, very supportive and fun to be with and of course my parents are wonderful. I do appreciate you reiminding...

9 Aug 08

deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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deb8er You are right and i have told them the truth now and I haven't had any response at all. Maybe it takes some time to absorb the truth that someone you thought you knew would lie to you and maybe they feel they can't trust me any more. I know that I don't...

9 Aug 08

deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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deb8er Thank you for your reply. I have confessed all and the other person has carried on as if they have not read it. I am a bit unsure now what to do. Do I just carry on as normal or ask if they have read my (private) message?

8 Aug 08

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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deb8er Thank you. I have done it now and just for the record I have confessed but haven't had a reply yet.

8 Aug 08

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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4 people

deb8er Thank you for your reply and I realise you are right. I will go and do that right now.

8 Aug 08

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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deb8er Thank you for replying. I have decided to tell them as most of the advice here has suggested as I knew really that was the best thing to do. I will not be posting any photo's though.

8 Aug 08

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deb8er @deb8er (49) 8 Aug 08

I have done something really silly and now I regret it but don't know what to do about it. About 18 months ago I was attacked by a gang of teenage boys and left with lots of scars on my face and, until recently, in a wheelchair. I...

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deb8er Thanks for replying and pointing out that my age says 84! I have noticed that before and tried to put it right but went round in circles, for example: I click on 'profile' and Home, Interests, Discussions, Blogs, Messages, Friends, Photo's, Earnings and sign...

8 Aug 08

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