debshie

@debshie (392)

Philippines • Age 41

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Life for me is a game.. you win some.. you loose some.

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We can differentiate if we love our work or not. Right?

joylynsebog @joylynsebog (72) • Philippines 6 Dec 11

I already had two jobs since I graduated. And based on my experience, I can say that I love my work right now. With my first job, every time I woke up in the morning, I always complain about it. With my job right now, every time I...

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debshie I totally agree! Its really different when you love your job because you stay positive at all times. You don't find things difficult and you are inspired all the time. I guess most effective and outstanding workers are the ones that love their work!

6 Dec 11

Teaching: is it worthy job or not?

mitchikoy0305 @mitchikoy0305 (88) • Philippines 18 Aug 11

I envied other people who earned so much money and yet their load of work is not that heavy. Unlike us, aside from doing the lesson plan, computing grades of the students and attending classes during official time make me wonder...

extra money

good job

teaching

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debshie I consider myself lucky because I get to work at home. I am earning but I can still look after my kid and take care of my husband. An employee, a mother and a wife at the same time. And my salary is above minimum, so yeah I am lucky! But lately, I have been...

6 Dec 11

Sleeping issues.

edsss17 @edsss17 (4394) • Philippines 2 Dec 11

Its been 5 straight days that I didn't have enough sleep! I don't know why but, when I tried to sleep and lie down in my bed and try to sleep, my mind doesn't seem to cooperate and so does my eyes! When I am sill working...

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debshie Yes I totally understand that! One suggestion is to to get a good book and read until you feel sleepy. This usually works for me. You can also try and make sure that you don't go to bed unless you feel really sleepy. Try reading the bible before you go to...

2 Dec 11

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Can you eat the same food if it's reheated?

besweet @besweet (9859) • Ireland 22 Nov 11

My mum used to cook two times a day when I was young, so we always had different food for lunch and for dinner. I lerned not to eat the same food twice, which was really wrong because it made me picky and strange. But when I went...

cold food

cooking

food reheating

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debshie Well eating freshly cooked food is really very different when eating reheated food. The taste would differ and the quality food would not be as good especially if it got frozen. However, if you are living on a budget, what you are doing is actually very good....

22 Nov 11

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Who are the 5 people you spend the most time with?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 17 Nov 11

Well, Who can you say are the top 5 people you spend most of your time with? Also, What do you think is their influence on you, and how much do you think have you influenced them as well? thank you!

5 people

influences

spend time

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debshie I spend most of my time with my husband and daughter. We influence each other which is actually great. We spend quality time together, we do this because we want to build beautiful memories together.

17 Nov 11

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i don't like to plan things ahead any more

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 17 Nov 11

because what ever i plan to do usually won't happen because something will happen along the way. so i feel that i may do some planning but i will still keep my options open in doing some other things in case that plan didn't push...

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debshie You know there are things that you have to plan and things that you don't. Sometimes, you plan and it doesn't push through for some reason. Sometimes its also fun to be spontaneous and just follow where your heart leads you. Don't be too stuck on a certain...

17 Nov 11

a sudden change

chadzie24 @chadzie24 (51) • Singapore 16 Nov 11

it's painful to say goodbye to someone you don't want to let go, but more painful to ask someone to stay when you know that they want to leave.

let go

move on

relatioship

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debshie That could be a very ugly situation to be in. If someone wants to leave then you will just have to let them be. In the end, the person might actually hate you or you will end up hating yourself. If the person is really destined to be yours, then you that...

16 Nov 11

How money solve your problems?

befrindwithme26 @befrindwithme26 (5805) • Philippines 11 Nov 11

What if you are in the hardest time, i mean what if you are facing in the middle of the hard tragedies like facing in hard earth quake,tsunami,hard wind blowing you so hard ,can money make that to solve your problems?Or Is God...

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debshie Money is an instrument used to satisfy most of our physical needs. There is nothing bad to it as long as we do not make it our god. The problem with people is they make money bigger than them. They make their world revolve around it and make money control them...

11 Nov 11

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How to withdraw money from alert pay in the philippines?

champoy186 @champoy186 (1638) • Philippines 11 Nov 11

hello everyone, i would like to ask if there's any bank in the philippines that accept alert pay? thank you.

alert pay

alert pay in philippines

how to withdraw alert pay in pi

withdraw alert pay

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debshie You could try Unionbank's Eon account. I'm not sure but I think you can transfer your Alertpay credits to your EON, that should work.

11 Nov 11

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How do you know you should stop?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 10 Nov 11

So, We give everything we think we should - in our relationships, in our work (so our careers would be better), to the company we work for, we give as much as we have to our family. We wake up one day and realize we have not done...

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debshie I think there is a great misconception or argument about what loving ourselves really mean. Others think that they should always put themselves first before others. Others also say that by loving too much, you are robbing yourself of love intended for...

10 Nov 11

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Life for poor people in a slum

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 28 Aug 11

Last night I saw a documentary about slums in Manila in the Philippines. It showed the living conditions of the very poor and some of the people had been living there for 20 years. Some of these people from the slums have been...

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debshie That's a lot of slums there but yes I agree with what the government is doing. Manila is shall we say the most developed place in the country - and the slum areas can be developed into buildings and commercial areas. By doing this, the government could...

28 Aug 11

Senator Zubiri Resigns

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33121) • Philippines 3 Aug 11

Hello Lotters, I never really had any kind of negative reactions to this man, and I do believe his doing his job well in this work and job.But whether he likes or not, if such trial calls upon him he better attend...

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debshie I feel for him. I can feel his sincerity and his desire to serve the country. He is right, we trial by publicity is very ugly and unfair. I just hope that his resignation would bring him and his family peace of mind.

3 Aug 11

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Proper Time To Accept Suitor After A Break Ups

xien2xien @xien2xien (1382) • Philippines 17 Apr 11

Guys, my friend here needs an advice, she's totally confuse with the whole situation.... She had this On and Off relationship with this man for 8months, she told me she really loves him and she even cried many times when they were...

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debshie There are some things in life where you cannot really set a bar, limit or standard. You just know when it happens and thats it! Same thing for accepting suitors and when not. Your friend will just know it, it will not come from someone else. She will know it...

18 Apr 11

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Oil prices are rising

francismalz @francismalz (520) • Philippines 14 Apr 11

Many things are happening in our country. Can't withstand the php60.00 per litter cost of gasoline. I've read in the newspaper that the revenue of the government is increasing because of the VAT imposed on crude oil.hmmm

gasoline

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debshie The increase in oil price has definitely affected most if not all people in the Philippines. Unfortunately, much as we want to lower it, there is really nothing we can do. Whatever government says about it doesn't change the fact that the poor are becoming...

15 Apr 11

i felt my heart crumble the other night

kristinad @kristinad (185) • United States 15 Apr 11

the other night i put my 5yr to bed. then latter on i went to go and cheack on him and he was sleeping so i go over to him and cover him with his blanket. he wakes up and says mommy why am i so stupid i go what did you say? he go...

i felt my heart crumble the other night

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debshie That little boy of yours need a boost. I think that it is normal for some kids to feel that way but it is a great responsibility on us parents to show our kids the gem in them. It is good that you are assuring that boy, just keep it up. Aside from telling...

15 Apr 11

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