dreamhealer

@dreamhealer (812)

Age 63

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Does Money and time required in a relationship?

xxj3ffxx @xxj3ffxx (501) • Australia 24 Nov 10

Once my friend told me... Jeff, if you want a girl you will need to spare some time for her and spend money going here and there... But in reality i really thing that once going out already spend lot of money paying her dinner,...

friendship

love

relationship

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dreamhealer Yes and yes to your question. The third thing needed is compatibility, if the relationship is to last. Shared interests, personality traits... Of course, it is great to have some differences too, to make life interesting and so you both have plenty to talk...

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Money for life ?

fey008 @fey008 (295) • Indonesia 20 Oct 10

Some one give me a opinion, that he can not life without money. I am really wonder, why he said like that. but i little agree with that so how about you, can you life without money ?

money for life

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dreamhealer For most people it is not possible. But money is just a form of exchange, to help us swap our goods and services, easily. Life can be lived with out money (if you mean coins and notes (bills)). Of course you will then probably have to offer your labour,...

20 Oct 10

Is it better to buy a house or rent one?

asxenon @asxenon (1440) • Malaysia 19 Oct 10

Previously, people would prefer to have their own house. But nowadays, house price are increasing like crazy. With a normal wage, one wouldn't be able to own a house. Even a husband and wife's total income is sometimes not enough...

buy or rent

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dreamhealer Like some responses have already said, it depends on your situation, but also on the housing market. Like other countries, the UK is going through quite a bad time economically, with high unemployment, wages stagnating or going down. Then there is the prospect...

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do you like to wear cute underwear to your bf/gf? ahah^^

sweetloveforeve @sweetloveforeve (13120) • Portugal 12 Sep 10

hi guys^^ do you like to wear cute underwear for your bf/gf?^^ i dont have a bf now but when i have and if we last for sure i will like to wear cute underwear for him ahah what about you guys?^^ please share

cute

underwear

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dreamhealer Certainly! Not so sure about cute, but yes a handsome style and cut of underwear can be a really good turn-on!

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no light at all

savypat @savypat (20216) • United States 12 Sep 10

Have you ever been anywhere that there is no light at all? Only in a cave have I experienced this. Can you even guess how bad it must have been for the miners who are trapped? I think they are in Columbia. Now that people know...

living with changes

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dreamhealer Would imagine it gets very claustrophobic down there and wouldn't like to imagine the toilet arrangements. As a group though, no doubt they are finding various ways to keep themselves amused. But what a long wait! - Possibly till Christmas!!!

12 Sep 10

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would you pose naked for 1.000.000.000 dollars?^^

sweetloveforeve @sweetloveforeve (13120) • Portugal 11 Sep 10

hi guys^^ would you pose naked for 1.000.000.000. dollars? ahah about me i couldnt^^ im shy of my body^^ what about you guys? would you?and why you would/wouldnt? please share^^

money

naked

pose

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dreamhealer I don't think even the top male model in the world would get that much - nine zeros after a one is a billion dollars, even in pounds sterling that is a huge amount of dosh! If it was done in a tasteful way, such as a calendar to fund raise for a charity or...

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Devon.... I am dreaming of Devon............/ Cornwall!

ronaldinu @ronaldinu (12422) • Malta 28 Jul 10

Well I have been absent from mylot for several weeks. This summer I am not going abroad as I have been accustomed to the past few years. I have other financial commitments. My wife suggested what about visiting Cornwall and Devon...

cornwall

devon

travel

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dreamhealer Depends a bit on how much time you have. If a week it is probably best to concentrate on just the one county. I have lived in the South-West of England all my life - mostly Devon, though now living in Somerset. As someone else has mentioned it will also depend...

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Two cars meet on a single track road, neither driver wants to back

urbandekay @urbandekay (18278) 11 Sep 10

Here in UK there are many single track lanes, where two cars cannot pass. Now it is possible to meet a car coming in the other direction at a point where there is no passing place in either direction without backing round a blind...

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dreamhealer Over the years have used many single track country lanes, but have never had any problem (particularly when I lived in the English county of Devon). But then again, if I feel that really it should be the other driver going back, wait a while and they don't,...

11 Sep 10

Tradesmen

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 28 Aug 10

There are lots of different tradesmen like builders, handymen and bathroom fitters. I have moved into my new bungalow. I got a builder to take out the fireplace because it was dangerous. He covered the ceiling with plaster to...

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dreamhealer I am wondering how you decided who to employ as your tradesmen? Were they members of reputable trade associations or recommended to you by friends as having previously done good jobs? There do seem to be so many horror stories around. From what you have...

1 Sep 10

Should married couples be forced to procreate?

II2aTee @II2aTee (2559) • United States 17 Aug 10

We’ve all heard the argument that marriage should be between one man, and one woman for the sole purpse of raising children. (Of course love, dedication and companionship should never be considered when deciding to get...

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dreamhealer You've certainly designed your question to get response!!! Wow!!! If the US of A is the land of the free, then the answer is no. Of course the States are not always so united. I suppose if you went to Texas or you went to California, you would tend (not...

17 Aug 10

Television

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 1 Oct 09

On 30th September the television channels changed. I keep trying to re-tune but can't do it. There is a telephone helpline but it says please hang up now all our advisers are busy. I think that it is annoying that I can't get...

channel 5

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dreamhealer I would imagine there is probably a website that you could look at for advice and ideas on how to approach your retune. One thing to remember is that the different set-top boxes can have slightly different words for the same function, so sometimes it can pay...

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Life is valuable so why is abortion allowed?

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 22 Aug 09

In my home country abortion is legal up to 24 weeks pregnancy. It is available later than that if the mother's life is in danger or if born the baby would be seriously disabled. I think of aborted babies as the missing people of...

abortion

life

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dreamhealer The simple answer to this question is that the mother's life is valuable too! My belief is that there is not a black or white answer to this question. A balance needs to be struck between all the protagonists in the equation. As I have expressed in previous...

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Staying on the positive side of thinking

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 25 Aug 09

Yesterday I went on a bus journey to Bristol to go shopping. I sat next to an old man that got chatting to me. We said that it was wet and rainy for August. He said our home country would always have bad weather every summer from...

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dreamhealer He certainly sounds like a strange and irresponsible person, a bit like someone who would choose to commit suicide on the M5 Avonmouth bridge just as thousands and thousands of motorists are driving to the Westcountry, plus many more are driving north....

29 Aug 09

why do witches say - merry meet..???

drdivu @drdivu (1011) • India 6 Jul 09

well, i have seen witches aknowledging each other by saying merry meet..!! why do they all say simply merry meet..?? many wich websites also end with love and light...merry meet...!!!! do u have any clue for this..?? thanks...

merry meet

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dreamhealer Many things get said through tradition or custom. But I suppose they mean a happy meeting, or looking forward to a happy meeting, as in "...merry meet again...". As for "... love and light..." this is very common in new age circle, not just with witches. I...

6 Jul 09

any beautiful quotes which inspire u daily..???

drdivu @drdivu (1011) • India 6 Jul 09

do share ur beautiful quote which inspire u daily..!! which make ur day even when u low...mine is as follows... they laugh at Me for I m different.. I laugh at them for they are all the same..!!! Thats Attitude...!!!

quotes

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dreamhealer That's a funny one!

6 Jul 09

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My laptop is better

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 5 Jul 09

A couple of weeks ago Fire Fox wouldn't let on post on My Lot. So I used Explorer instead. Now I am amazed to be using Fire fox again without any problems. I am amazed because the computer specialist failed to get it working for...

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dreamhealer Yes, I had the same problem. Thought there might be some bug in the system and so got my AVG programme to do a full scan. Also used some freeware called CCleaner, to try and clear any junk out of the system. Had some problem with email for a day or two where...

5 Jul 09

I don't even want to be here

p1kef1sh @p1kef1sh (45681) 4 Jul 09

But I have crept back. I don't feel too well today and have decided that it has something to do with the amount of time that I spend in front of the computer screen. So why am I here? Do you sometimes baffle yourself by doing what...

addicts

junkies

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dreamhealer Yes, its called internet addiction - don't worry, I suffer myself! And yes it can certainly make the eyes pretty tired, something to do with the fact the eyes are focused on the same fixed distance for long periods of time... And we both know...

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It is painful to have no internet access...

mermaidivy @mermaidivy (15395) • United States 2 Jul 09

I was so miserable yesterday; dog rained for almost a whole day and the thunderstorm came... I could access to the internet at all because for whatever reason, my model just won't connect when it is big storm... I didn't know what...

go online

internet access

mylot

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dreamhealer Yes, it can be quite tricky to say the least..... The connection here is okay most of the time, but because it's 'wireless', can be quite temperamental at times. Noticed one evening when I played quite a few 'You Tube' music videos, some in HD (high...

3 Jul 09

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Addicted

vipersworld18 @vipersworld18 (117) • United States 2 Jul 09

It seems after only a week or so of being on mylot, I am addicted. It didn't take long and I'm really not even on that much. However, I find myself racing to get on the internet and logging into mylot as soon as I sit down at a...

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dreamhealer There is definitely an addictive quality to myLot! The variety of discussions and people on here AND of course the fact that it is worldwide!! Been on here since summer of last year, a few months, then addiction kicked in

3 Jul 09

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