ecpunzalan

@ecpunzalan (401)

Philippines • Age 48

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Can you list 10 good things about yourself?

devideddi @devideddi (1435) • United States 17 Jan 07

I'm going to try...lets see... I'm nice to other people, I share good, I am a christian, hmmm I am a good driver, I am dependable, I can cook pretty good,(when I want to) I put my children first, I am honest, Good sense...

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ecpunzalan i do my best to be a good mother to my child i do my best to be a good wife to my husband i care a lot about my family specially my parents i am easy to go along with i always see things in a positive way i am a God fearing person i am true to myself and...

18 Jan 07

why are eating disorders so rampant?

firefae @firefae (22) • Philippines 13 Jan 07

i have done a research about anorexia nervosa years ago but it's only now that i've seen it through reality slapping me back. a lot of people that i get to be acquainted with are anorexic if not bulimic. why is this becoming so...

anorexia

bulimia

eating disorders

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ecpunzalan i haven't but a friend of mine did, well they are 6 in the family all of them girls and her 5 sisters are either a model or a public figure here in our town so all of them are skinny she tried to be one but it went overboard, she got over it by asking help...

15 Jan 07

i m under severe depression...can u help me..??

trysameer @trysameer (219) • India 15 Jan 07

it was from the last few weeks...i m under a lot of mental stress.. due to my habits and my deeds...! i m just absolutely frustrated and really sometimes i feel tha i can commit sucide anytime... can u help me on this topic...plz....

depression

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ecpunzalan well we cant really help you if we dont know what your problems are habits and deeds are too broad to discuss be specific, maybe you can call a friend and talk it over, its nice to know and you will feel comform when you talk it out to someone, if you have a...

15 Jan 07

Can u keep Secrets??? Or do you tend to Gossip about it?

Rashu169 @Rashu169 (4391) • India 12 Jan 07

Seriously....once if someone tells you a secret do you keep it in your stomach and dont tell to anyone??? or is it that you tell it to someone else and ask them to keep quite????and keep it a secret????

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ecpunzalan I always keep a secret, and I know my friends trust me on that. I dont give hints that is why I dont have to tell anyone what i know. i wouldnt want them telling my secrets to anyone, why should I tell their secrets.

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fathers having extra marital affairs

bamshetty86 @bamshetty86 (35) • India 12 Jan 07

Its common to see people having extra marital affairs, but how its effects their children they dont tend to realise that fact that we are young and need role model. how would you react or feel if your father had an extra marital...

father

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ecpunzalan my dad had several, but it was between my mom and him, and my mom managed to forgive my dad and still accept him with open arms, she was able to make us understand that what he did had nothing to do with us, it was his baggage and we should not loose respect...

12 Jan 07

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Is there anything you can not forgive?

cristi20 @cristi20 (2139) • Romania 12 Jan 07

Is there anything you can not forgive??

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ecpunzalan as of now ive been cheated, been backstabbed, been taken advantage of but so far I have forgiven those persons, but I have not forgotten it yet...

12 Jan 07

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How do you tell if someone is cheating on you?

dsmmsd @dsmmsd (71) • Canada 12 Jan 07

Ive been with my girlfriend for approximately 3 years almost 4 and we started dating in our last year of highschool and now we are both in 3rd year university.. we go to differnt schools about 2 hours apart.. and i dono just...

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ecpunzalan talk to her and tell her how you feel, there could be a lot of reasons why she is "cold". Ask her and be honest with what you feel, if you know the reason why she is that why coming from her you might think otherwise. She might have a problem that you dont...

12 Jan 07

When should you buy your child a cell phone?

mzbubblie @mzbubblie (3839) • United States 11 Jan 07

From a previous discussion, This one came to mind. My son is 11 years old and he is dying for a cell phone. The first stage to this process is I asked him why he feels he needs a cellphone, The reason he gave was "if" he missed...

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ecpunzalan im not yet sure how old. My son is only 4 and most of the time he is with me, there is no need yet. Maybe junior highschool would be ok but it should be use for its purpose not sending unimportant messages and as a device to use for games (they have games now)...

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do u hav back pain or spinal pain????

gowthamteen17 @gowthamteen17 (182) • India 12 Jan 07

do u hav back pain due to spending a lot of time in sitting infront of the computers???????? if s wat r the steps or treatments r u under takening to get cure from it????????

pain

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ecpunzalan mine is not just due to the wrong posture when you seat, it also includes the airdock of the aircon at my back... I have a coat, and now I seat ergonomically... I try not to slauch... and have some massage once in a while... hot compress helps too...

12 Jan 07

Most painful moment of your life.

Keba83 @Keba83 (55) • United States 11 Jan 07

Helll yeah, i was 14 and went on an overnight fishing camp with my friends family, found a giant black scorpion and thought it was kool to tie it up with a string and play around. he waited for his time and got me around evening...

pain

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ecpunzalan I lost my brother 6 days before my birthday in a Tanker Accident (Gasoline Tanker) and the most painful thing is I saw everything and I could not do anything about it...

12 Jan 07

The wedding ring dispute!!!!

sunshinecup @sunshinecup (7871) 12 Jan 07

Do you wear your wedding rings everyday? I ask because, I don't. I can't sleep in them, don't ask me why other than I am a nut I assume. However some mornings I forget to put them back on. My husband has never took his off and...

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ecpunzalan I always keep it on, its a symbol of my bond to my husband, my husband wears it too, but since he drives a lot sometimes he gets irritated so what he did is buy a necklace and wear it as a pendant, think of how you can wear them everyday even when you sleep,...

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do not re-use mineral water bottle

ChoukseyMK @ChoukseyMK (1044) • India 8 Jan 07

Few days it was a news. bottle contains some carcinogenic elements which leak into water when you wash mineral water bottle for reusing. can someone tell alternative?

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ecpunzalan use a real water container... mineral water bottle is really not safe if reuse, any type of bottle is not so safe when re used...

8 Jan 07

Parents stunt disabled 9 year old growth so they care for her.below

Justme2007 @Justme2007 (1848) • United States 4 Jan 07

Here is a story that has made a lot of people angry. CHICAGO (Jan. 4) - In a case fraught with ethical questions, the parents of a severely mentally and physically disabled child have stunted her growth to keep their little...

disabled child

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ecpunzalan That could have been a very hard decision for the parents, I think its love and not for anythingelse. Parents would know best on what to do for their kids. I could not imagine what they are going thru. Whenever my kid is a little sick I always say, let me be...

5 Jan 07

How old should children be to start learning responsibilities?

mschase @mschase (20) 29 Aug 06

when should we give the kids chores? i say as soon as they are able to walk and make a mess... little words like pick it up throw it in the...

what do you think

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ecpunzalan well, since my son could understand, I already taught him how to clean up mess, starting from their body (washing hands etc...) packing away their toys, sometimes helping out (for fun) cleaning. there is no age really, of course the more they age the more...

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Parents and discipline

tanaclark @tanaclark (570) • United States 4 Jan 07

Do you think some parents are to strict on their children? Are some parents to leanient? What do you consider to be to strict or not strict enough? Some parents seem to be way to overprotective. While others seem to just not have...

children

discipline

parents

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ecpunzalan too much of anything is bad! at least thats what I think. overprotective could be a bad thing for a kid that in time they wont be able to handle things by themselves because they know someone else will do the saving for them. you have to balance everything,...

5 Jan 07

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What Is The Bravest Thing You've Ever Done?

danishcanadian @danishcanadian (28955) • Canada 4 Jan 07

You know, it's no damn wonder I'm afraid of very little, and don't have much tolerence for people who aren't willing to stand up for what they believe in. Here are a list of the few things I've done in the past year....

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ecpunzalan gave birth on a normal procedure even though I had a heart condition.

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what do you think about having kids at 21?

italianbella8686 @italianbella8686 (87) • United States 4 Jan 07

Me and my fiance cant wait to have a baby. but were not sure yet because where so young. Howeverhis family is used to having kids at a young age.. his gma was 17 when she had his mother and then my fiances mother had his oldest...

have kids

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ecpunzalan its not on the age that you will be having a problem if you are talking about having kids... if you like kids and responsible enough to know how to raise them by all means, your problem would be pregnancy. for women ideal age would be 24-29. but having kids...

5 Jan 07

Is too much conditioner bad for the hair???

certified_alice @certified_alice (1854) • Philippines 5 Jan 07

I wonder if it is bad because I put a lot of conditioner on my hair nowadays. My hair is too long so I have to consume atleast 2 sachets of conditioners on one day. What do you think?

conditioer

hair

shampoo

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ecpunzalan anything that is too much is bad... maybe if you really to put a lot try a milder type of conditioner

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what is the nicest thing you have ever done out of the kindeness of your heart?

jhannon @jhannon (1406) • United States 11 Sep 06

I took care of a sick friend brought some soup over..

kindness

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ecpunzalan I collect toys for kids during the holiday season, make sure I buy some food for the poor kids near our village every pay day. make some donations here and there wherever I would be needed...

5 Jan 07

At the Checkout at a Store.....

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45940) • United States 4 Jan 07

Would you let another shopper go in front of you? I do this quite often. If the person behind you only has a few groceries and my cart is full, I will let them go ahead of me. If the person has children with them and they are...

checkout

random acts of kindness

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ecpunzalan I do this too all the time. But I seldom experience someone letting me pay first even though I only have one or two items to buy, but as they say better to give than to receive. You are right if only everybody would do it, we would have a better place...

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