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firefae @firefae (22) • Philippines 13 Jan 07

i have done a research about anorexia nervosa years ago but it's only now that i've seen it through reality slapping me back. a lot of people that i get to be acquainted with are anorexic if not bulimic. why is this becoming so...

anorexia

bulimia

eating disorders

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vehaileairu @vehaileairu (2286) • Philippines 12 Jan 07

can you live everyday being alone and no one else around your life? we are social beings and is created to help and interact to each other... some people rather be alone, s it healthy to live most of your life not to mingle and...

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firefae absolutely not! especially now, i've come to realize that my life seem to revolve and rotate around people that i cherish. there's my family, my best friends, and my boyfriend who seem to color my world so well. On the other hand, there are my other...

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firefae @firefae (22) • Philippines 7 Jan 07

what should a college student running for an honor do when she gets pregnant? have an abortion or let the baby live? how should she face the consequences without her sanity falling apart?

sanity in danger

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vehaileairu @vehaileairu (2286) • Philippines 19 Dec 06

the movie that engraves forever in your heart and memory, i think theres a lot i can mention, but i will never forget UNTAMED HEART.. that movie made me believe theres an existence of real love, genuine people, despite of the...

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firefae I had seen this movie during my summer vacation last year and yet I could still fully remember it until now. It was entitled 'The Evil Lake'. Kinda old Japanese movie and quite touching... It was about the struggle of love between death and evil when trapped...

7 Jan 07

firefae @firefae (22) • Philippines 19 Dec 06

how should i control my temper when it comes to my boyfriend? he is so patient with me and my imperfections but i just can't practice the same values as with him. On the other hand, I'm quite patient with friends, family and other...

needs to be patient

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itsjustmeb @itsjustmeb (1212) • Canada 19 Dec 06

Okay. I have a daughter who's father denies paternity. She has seen him off and on, but knows nothing of him being the other half of her. I do keep contact with him, because part of me wants to be civil with him for her sake....

parents

sperm donors

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firefae just let go of any connections with him. He's irresponsible and irrational. Why still push yourself on him? You and your daughter deserve a peaceful and happy life. With him around, that would be impossible.

19 Dec 06

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firefae @firefae (22) • Philippines 18 Dec 06

is it just right for a man to hate his wife after she flirted with another man in a chat session? Prior to that , the man was the first one to commit infidelity when he dated with another woman in another country where he worked....

avenging wife

disloyalty in marriage

unfaithful husband

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firefae You have overlooked the fact that the guy cheated first... It wasn't the woman's sole mistake that ruined them. Do you think she's the only one to be blamed?

19 Dec 06

firefae @firefae (22) • Philippines 14 Dec 06

I'm not much of a dominant person or authoritative for that manner. I'm not even possessive but why is my boyfriend so submissive? He gets the craps out of me sometimes. He won't even try to argue despite the fact that he already...

boring relationship

submissive lover

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firefae Yeah, I'm also aware about the importance of communication but it's challenge that keeps me going. he is much into me, giving and agreeing so easily. Anyway, I already talked to him about it and i think he's doing something to solve the issue. It's one of his...

18 Dec 06

ModelMom @ModelMom (129) • United States 17 Dec 06

I dont know if you can really call this a friendship since we havent known each other for long, but I met a girl a few months ago and we started to talk about a lot of things we have in common. I thought she might be a cool...

friendship

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firefae why cut your friendship with her? Are you afraid of the responsibility that she might lay on you? You never know, she might be needing your help or support. Friendship isn't just about ups and goods or about the cool ones and the happy peers. Real friendship...

18 Dec 06

vehaileairu @vehaileairu (2286) • Philippines 17 Dec 06

im kinda sick and tired watching all the stuff... it was entertaining, then later, its been too much of human violation. you'll see too many stuff that are parental guidance and might have a bad nfluence of children who are not...

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firefae the only bracket of reality tv shows that I really don't like is the search for new 'talents'. There have been too many of them sprouting around like mushrooms for the said purpose of getting new 'talented' personalities. People have overlooked these...

18 Dec 06

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firefae @firefae (22) • Philippines 18 Dec 06

is it just right for a man to hate his wife after she flirted with another man in a chat session? Prior to that , the man was the first one to commit infidelity when he dated with another woman in another country where he worked....

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vehaileairu @vehaileairu (2286) • Philippines 13 Dec 06

Linda Perry wrote it... do like the song? when i hear it, i wanna see my dad again... even if i didnt gave him so much trouble like my sisters did.. but i just miss him when i'll hear this song.

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firefae I think it must be really meaningful to move you that much. Anyway, you'll be seeing your dad again so it would be a quencher to the feeling that the song implies to you. You're such a wonderful daughter... I hope your dad knows that.

18 Dec 06

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firefae @firefae (22) • Philippines 14 Dec 06

I'm not much of a dominant person or authoritative for that manner. I'm not even possessive but why is my boyfriend so submissive? He gets the craps out of me sometimes. He won't even try to argue despite the fact that he already...

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firefae Perhaps I'm truly lucky... Despite of his being too submissive, I still think that he's one of the pretty fine decisions I made. I thank God for that and my great bestfriend, whom I'm about to see again this Christmas, for standing as my inspiration to take...

18 Dec 06

firefae @firefae (22) • Philippines 14 Dec 06

I'm not much of a dominant person or authoritative for that manner. I'm not even possessive but why is my boyfriend so submissive? He gets the craps out of me sometimes. He won't even try to argue despite the fact that he already...

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firefae well, i tried doing what you had just suggested and it hurt him at first. On the other hand, it seems that he's working on it these days and I'm hoping that he would continuously do that and change things for the better. Thanks for the valuable message!

18 Dec 06

firefae @firefae (22) • Philippines 14 Dec 06

I'm not much of a dominant person or authoritative for that manner. I'm not even possessive but why is my boyfriend so submissive? He gets the craps out of me sometimes. He won't even try to argue despite the fact that he already...

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firefae @firefae (22) • Philippines 14 Dec 06

When I got to college, I've realized that one of the most essential things in life is rest, specifically SLEEP. I get to have eyebags, headaches, fed-ups, tantrums and desires for that nice and comfy sleep yet I still can't drop...

adversity in sleep

slumber crisis

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firefae Thanx for welcoming me! I think I still have a lot to learn in balancing my duties...

14 Dec 06

firefae @firefae (22) • Philippines 14 Dec 06

When I got to college, I've realized that one of the most essential things in life is rest, specifically SLEEP. I get to have eyebags, headaches, fed-ups, tantrums and desires for that nice and comfy sleep yet I still can't drop...

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firefae yeah, you're right... yet it gets hard beacause i love sleeping a lot. I'm online 'cause i'm surfing the net for a research. Well anyway, thanx for replying!

14 Dec 06

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