frndzb4

@frndzb4 (131)

Age 53

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Divorce....how to ask for it without hurting someones feelings?

winky73 @winky73 (1404) • United States 28 Jan 07

I've been living seperated from my husband for almost a year now and I have to say that I moved on.My husband on the other hand hasn't.I'm ready to get divorced for the fact that I have met someone that I really care about and I...

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frndzb4 I think u should tell him that since u both are living away and you don't want him to keep suffering just because of you, as u don't have the same feelings for him .. or whatever the other reasons are !! .. that's why u r planning to have a divorse .. so that...

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Would you marry someone from a different race,culture,religion,caste?

tarachand @tarachand (3895) • India 27 Jan 07

If yes, why, if no, why not?

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frndzb4 It depents on the comuunity, cultural beliefs, personal choice and family back ground ... most of the Asians are still apprehensive about these kind of relationships ... but rest part of the world is quite open in getting married with anyone they love.

28 Jan 07

Do you feel comfortable leaving your kids with an ex?

carissa765 @carissa765 (1097) • United States 27 Jan 07

My kids went to their dads for the first time in like a year this weekend. I miss them deeply, and obviously it has been a long time since they have gone so I'm a little uncomfortable with it. I first of all am very uncomfortable...

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frndzb4 Don't worry everything will be alright.. he is too their father and must have had a realization by now that he was wrong somewhere. The way u r concerned with your kids similarly he must be having the same emotions for them.. let them have some time...

28 Jan 07

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a serious question on my marriage

mw6961 @mw6961 (50) • India 26 Jan 07

friends i have started this discussion to get some idea,suggestions which will help me in taking a good decision. iam in love with my uncle's daughter. iam 29 years old but she is only 17. i know she is too young for me but can i...

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frndzb4 I think u r muslim, so in your community it's allowed to get married within the relationship.. that's fine but the kind of age gap u both have .. it's not justified to marry with a girl who is too young .. U both r not matured enough to take the decision....

27 Jan 07

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This is not English

MsTickle @MsTickle (25180) • Australia 26 Jan 07

Dear friends....I thought the discussions were supposed to be written in English. I see lots of short cuts and I have to say I'm having some difficulty understanding the meanings of some of the messages. I think it's terribly...

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frndzb4 I agree with you but I think we have all kind of members who are happy to earn and improve their language skill. I will request to all the native speakers to write a message with correct english and better vocabulary... so that we all can improve our...

27 Jan 07

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Would You Marry someone OLDER then You?

abhax123 @abhax123 (1695) • India 27 Jan 07

One of my friend is in love with a girl who is five year older then him. They both love each other too much and have told there family that they are going to get married. The girls family has no objection but my friends family is...

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frndzb4 Age doesn't matter provided both the partners are matured enough to take the decision. but if u are too young to take this step ... then u might regret later.

27 Jan 07

Hello again, myLot!

Stacey @xstitcher (32783) • Petaluma, California 23 Jun

Hello, all! I'm home from church. I really enjoyed the sermon today. Of course, while I was in church, it got hot out. I know there are places that are hotter, but according to my computer thermometer it's 84° out. I...

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frndzb4 Hello, all! I'm home from church. I really enjoyed the sermon today. Of course, while I was in church, it got hot out. I know there are places that are hotter, but according to my computer thermometer it's 84° out. I believe it. ...

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Can u hate someone you onces loved?

mikokre @mikokre (132) • Nigeria 26 Jan 07

Can you really hate somebody you were truelly in love with?

love hatred

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frndzb4 No u can't hate but at times u just get fed up when your true lover becomes over demanding.

26 Jan 07

Perfume...Misuse..why?

Rashu169 @Rashu169 (4391) • India 25 Jan 07

my close friend sprays like gallons of perfume on herself... yikes...the smell is just so very strong...she says she feels refreshed throughout the day...and i end up having headache...do you know any one who misuses perfumes????

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frndzb4 I just can't bear strong perfume ... I too get headache, I always want to convey the msg to the strong perfume lovers ... that... It's better to take shower and use a mild deo to smell good than to dip in a perfume bucket.

25 Jan 07

How men can make women happy?

cathiza27 @cathiza27 (188) • Philippines 24 Jan 07

What are the things you should do make women happy?

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frndzb4 He should be trustworthy, intelligent, understanding but little dominating.

25 Jan 07

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Age for a woman to get married.

berry9 @berry9 (590) • India 25 Jan 07

Yesterday I happened to see a programme for married couples. There was a couple who were interviewed by the host.What was shocking was that the girl was just 16 when she got engaged and then got married at 17.she looked so small...

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frndzb4 I think after 25 years of age, by this generally girls become quite matured & sensible to take the decision of their life. Getting married in a very young age can effect your reationship, as once u grow ... yr thinking process get totally changed.

25 Jan 07

How often do you say "I LOVE YOU" to the ones you loved?

hottie0728 @hottie0728 (1732) • United States 24 Jan 07

People are different in so many ways. Some people are very expressive while some don't even know how to express their feelings to their loved ones. Do you think it's important to say I love you as often as you you can? I do say I...

i love you

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frndzb4 Every one loves to hear it but at times u really get confused how and when to say. I do care for all my loved ones but I really find it very difficult to convey my feelings .. it's a difficult task for me.

25 Jan 07

Good Morning 8/25

snowy @snowy22315 (182646) • United States 25 Aug 23

Well, taking a break from the car drama today. I think I have a couple of things lined up though. So hopefully soon I will be sporting a new vehicle. I will still probably end up going to the DMV at some point, but you have 30...

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frndzb4 Well, taking a break from the car drama today. I think I have a couple of things lined up though. So hopefully soon I will be sporting a new vehicle. I will still probably end up going to the DMV at some point, but you have 30 days on temporary tags. They come...

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Repeating the process of abuse.

Outsider @Outsider (42) • Canada 24 Jan 07

Raised as one of seven children in a family without love... (never once throughout my entire childhood did I receive a hug or kiss from my parents... never once did I hear the words "I love you." from either of those two...

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frndzb4 I think it depends on the individual's familly conditions.. when u say that u have a big family of seven children means total nine family members.. at times it becomes very difficult for the parents to raise their children in a way they want..most of the time...

25 Jan 07

Baby mama drama

NJ Chicaa @NJChicaa (120297) • United States 6 Aug 23

The continuing saga between Chantal and the babydaddy goes on. I was over at the pool when the neighbor above the Moroccans texted me that he was screaming at her on the phone because supposedly she was drunk in Seaside when she...

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frndzb4 The continuing saga between Chantal and the babydaddy goes on. I was over at the pool when the neighbor above the Moroccans texted me that he was screaming at her on the phone because supposedly she was drunk in Seaside when she was supposed to pick him up....

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Long distance relationship!

hottie0728 @hottie0728 (1732) • United States 22 Jan 07

Has anyone been on a long distance relationship? I have a boyfriend right now and he started to work in the ship as a US Merchant Marine. He'll be gone for 6-8 months. We've been together for almost 2 years now and our situation...

love

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frndzb4 Its sad but I'm also having a long distance relationship .. though its been only three months, but I'm sure in myself .. that it will never get faded. Still I think we should always pray to God for our well being but at the same time we should be prepared...

23 Jan 07

Put it away...

Stacey @xstitcher (32783) • Petaluma, California 1 Jan 21

I've put the Christmas things away--started on the Nativities the other day, and today put away the tree and ornaments. This Christmas was certainly different. Hopefully next Christmas they'll allow us to be a bit more festive....

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frndzb4 I've put the Christmas things away--started on the Nativities the other day, and today put away the tree and ornaments. This Christmas was certainly different. Hopefully next Christmas they'll allow us to be a bit more festive. Other than that I went for a...

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Weddings, is the expense worth it?

Bunny2 @Bunny2 (2102) • Australia 21 Jan 07

In Australia, couples often have big weddings. Not only the reception, but the bride's dress, bridesmaids' dresses, wedding cake, wedding cars, party favours - and don't forget the wedding stationery, make up and hairdos for the...

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frndzb4 Marriage is a very big occasion of life .. & most of the people prefer to celebrate it at their best, just to make the event memorable. But in my opinion .. instead of spending a huge amount in decoration, flowers etc. .. one should spend reasonable & save...

21 Jan 07

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does age gap plays a vital role in relation ship

gokuclement87 @gokuclement87 (4) • India 20 Jan 07

me and my parents have a conflict ..i asked them to give internet facility but they were not ready..i thought that they didnt have money so they are telling then ..one day my father gave his card to draw money from atm..but i...

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frndzb4 U know parents are always protective and concerned about their children .. up to some extent he's right .. since he's already through with some kind of bad habits or addictions which he doesn't want you to repeat again .. & we all say that we r different but...

21 Jan 07