gary87

@gary87 (129)

India • Age 38

Joined myLot 19 years ago

long live coolness down with rudeness

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Who Has The Right To Decide How Many Children You Should Have

browneyedgirl @browneyedgirl (1264) • United States 6 Mar 07

You're married and already have one child. You want a second child. Your husband doesn't. Who has the right to decide whether or not you have the second child? You or your husband? Would you get pregnant anyway? What would you do...

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gary87 first of all i would like to say that both of the partners have the right to decide how many children you should have. husband is the one who is the earning member and if he can feed more then why not, but still if wife refuses no one can go for it.

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Am I being too strict?

byfaithonly @byfaithonly (10698) • United States 5 Mar 07

This has been bugging me for 2 days now. Saturday evening my 15 year old son asked if he could spend the night at his girlfriend's house. I said No No No - he asked repeatedly and I gave the same answer. He could not understand...

overnight stays

parenting

teens

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gary87 i think that you did the right thing. children should be given full freedom in certain respects but they should be treated with strict hands in some other respects, otherwise they would not go in the right path in the future, so dont get yourself blamed for...

6 Mar 07

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Are you comfortable meeting people from the internet in real life?

Karmalina @Karmalina (647) • Australia 6 Mar 07

The majority of my friends are people that I've met online. (How do you think I ended up in Australia? Hehe.) How do you guys feel about meeting people you know from chatrooms and games and such?

chat

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gary87 i love chatting very much whether the person on the other side is a male or a female or whether i know him/her or not.... chatting is a way to express yourself and to know about others , so dont hesitate dear and just go for it, you will soon become...

6 Mar 07

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How to feed a family of 5 on a budget?

swietekfam @swietekfam (363) • United States 5 Mar 07

I don't know about you but I hate going grocery shopping lately. It seems like you barely have anything in your cart and your still spending a load of money. So I am trying to find some great ideas and recipes on how to feed a...

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gary87 i think that you must concentrate on food containing less of the spices and also cheap food material..... but i really think that a compromise on food is not at all ratinal in spite of the increasing prices......

6 Mar 07

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Roses

LadyWhiteheart @LadyWhiteheart (111) • United States 25 Feb 07

What's your favorite color rose and does it represent something extra special to you?

flowers

gardening

roses

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gary87 i love the red rose the most.... there being a strong reason behind that...it signifies love and since love is everything to me and i suppose to everyone, so red rose is my strong favourite.......

6 Mar 07

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Wanting More

ahdorein @ahdorein (29) • United States 5 Mar 07

I can't begin to tell you how utterly miserable I am in the relationship that I am in right now. We've been living together since the first night that he spent the night, and I've loved him for a time now. But I want more. He told...

love

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gary87 i think that you are in a terribly critical position right now and you are the only one who can get you out of this position. what if someone betrayed you... there are lots of people out here who can give you the respect you deserve, so dont take life to a...

6 Mar 07

Wedding plans...

itsjustmeb @itsjustmeb (1212) • Canada 5 Mar 07

Okay. In the hopefully not so distant future, my fiance and I will be planning a wedding. Now our original plans were to fly off to Vegas and get married, but seeing as my younger sister stole my idea...I can't use it. If I do,...

marriage

wedding plans

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gary87 let your family be as it is, it maysound depressing to most of us, but as known by all of us, all the fingers of the hand are not the same and thats the case with you.. so dont get dpressed at all something will surely show up in the future......

6 Mar 07

what job do you have?

LALI200380 @LALI200380 (467) • Romania 5 Mar 07

i work in ofice and i make many papers.you ?

life

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gary87 i have not yet completed my studies, right now i am studying B.Tech and i hope that i can get a better job after completion of the course.........

5 Mar 07

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Work Absences

webeishere @webeishere (36313) • United States 4 Mar 07

Okay now I haven't had a full time job in quite a few years as I am the care giver for my father now. But I recall when I was a machinist, that Mondays always seemed to be the days' where the most call-ins for sick days occured,...

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gary87 i dont want to share any of these experiences and i hope that you will come up with interesting discussions in forthcoming days........... best of luck dear......

5 Mar 07

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Children should not be allowed to watch TV!

Sawsen @Sawsen (793) • United States 4 Mar 07

I am a firm believer that children should not be allowed to watch TV. Sometimes it gets so upsetting to see these children wasting hours of their day watching TV and doing nothing that is stimulating their minds. I believe there...

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gary87 i have a personal view point which may not match with most of the parents out here.. according to me children should be allowed to view television to a certain extent. some interactive programs and eduv=actional programs would be very helpful to them. so...

5 Mar 07

Question

lonnieN @lonnieN (428) • United States 5 Mar 07

first a short introduction: i am a single father of 8 year old twin boys. (their mother died 4 years ago of complications of diabetes. They are both diabetic and that scares me but that isn't what i want to ask about) I strongly...

cartoon network

parenting

question

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gary87 i think that you have done the right thing, after all you are a father and its your duty to look after how your children develops, so go for it and believe me it would not hamper your relations in any way, well it may strengthen it rather........

5 Mar 07

Do you enjoy Mylot discussions or do u join for money???

pearlypearl @pearlypearl (95) • Indonesia 15 Jan 07

Mylot is supposed to be a place where people can discuss many topics and find friends with the same interest and communicate with them. The goal is to create a circle of friend, to find solutions for problems, and share your...

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gary87 i think i enjoy both, having money and responding to and starting new discussions on mylot. both of these gives me tremendous enjoyment and that's why i visit it every single day. i cannot imagine a day without visiting mylot

15 Jan 07

noisy neighbors

strawberrymudd @strawberrymudd (330) • United States 13 Jan 07

Do you have really noisy neighbors? How do you deal? I live in an apartment, and my neighbor across the hall is horribly noisy, and when we ask to her to be quiet, she temporarily obliges, but then begins her excessively loud...

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gary87 i also encountered a same situtation some days back. my neighbour had a boy of 10 years and the time i went to sleep at night their orchestra of noise was on. then one day when my mom and dad was not at home, i and my friends started to tune in the radio to...

14 Jan 07

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Would you be willing to marry a different race?

emilieespino @emilieespino (963) • Philippines 17 Dec 06

Would you consider dating someone from a different race? What race would you consider being with?

marriage

race

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gary87 there is no harm in that as long as there is true love between the two of us. race has never been and can never be a barrier for true love, love is eternal and no barrier can stop it from going far beyond imagination

13 Jan 07

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Online dating

megh4u @megh4u (372) • Alpharetta, Georgia 13 Jan 07

Is online dating prove helpful to create new relation or just making money from them.........???

dating

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gary87 online dating is nothing but fun and has no future at all. but i can test it on you. WILL YOU BE MY DATE. these are the words i shall tell you if you respond to me at suprotim_c@yahoo.com and start a new relation with me. will you???

13 Jan 07

is hrithik better than john as MR A

pratmicro_20 @pratmicro_20 (10) • India 12 Jan 07

Hrithik is good but he is no match to john

dhoom2

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gary87 of course hrithik is good, may be better than john. he has the looks, glamour and the personality to be Mr.A. he is the perfect man who could have done the role. his dancing skills has taken him a lot ahead of john

13 Jan 07

This Is Not A Dating Service!

misskatonic @misskatonic (3722) • United States 12 Jan 07

I'm sick and tired of men sending me messages telling me I'm pretty and they'd liked to chat. Or saying more... not fit for public things. Mylot isn't a place to hook up. If you're that desperate, there are plenty of sites that...

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gary87 i have some of my friends suffering from the same frustration. i dont know why some men are so keen to make an unknown girl his partner for flirting. one must know each other for that, isn't it?

13 Jan 07

How would you die..Given a choice??

Meenal_20 @Meenal_20 (55) • India 13 Jan 07

I would luv to die..eating sleeping pills..if ever i had a choice...without any pain..How about you??

death

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gary87 i would like to die a safe death!!!!!!! confused?? i would like to embrace death as it comes to me. i dont rely on future, so i cant say jow will i die. i just concentrate on my present so that i make a better future

13 Jan 07