hartnsoul

@hartnsoul (558)

Philippines • Age 44

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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What would you do if this happen to you? I really need your thought!!!

smileonstar @smileonstar (4007) • United States 17 Jun 09

Before I turn this computer off, I would love to get some idea from myloters. This story is about my friend who just called me now and told me a very stressful story. She is now married with her new husband and raise two...

family issue

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hartnsoul oh thank you for the correction, i read it fast and misunderstood. thanks again. :)

17 Jun 09

How STRONG should a wife be?

hartnsoul @hartnsoul (558) • Philippines 25 Apr 07

The discussion subject is basically the question I have in mind at this moment. My husband is feeling burned out and unaapreciated with work. I can't blame him coz he's been so loyal and dedicated to his profession that...

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hartnsoul Thanks so much for your post. I just hope you guys can lessen your insensitivity. There's nothing wrong with discussing work stuff with us, but do remember that we, as wives, are your partner and not your enemy. We are staying at home and not at the work place...

4 May 07

Share this, it just might save a marriage.

Annie @Anniedup (3651) • Richards Bay, South Africa 26 Apr 07

I received this in my mailbox this morning, I don't usually copy and paste long and tearful stories but this has such a powerful and precious "lesson" I could not resist. Enjoy "When I got home that night as my wife served...

floral

marriage

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hartnsoul Thanks so much annie. We just had an argument again 2 hours ago and it really hurt me when he answered in an angry tone. But I am not losing hope. I even posted a discussion for advices as 'How STRONG should a wife be'. Just pray for me please. Best...

28 Apr 07

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How STRONG should a wife be?

hartnsoul @hartnsoul (558) • Philippines 25 Apr 07

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hartnsoul Thanks for the response lyndee22. Most of the people around me say that my husband ended up like this coz I have been spoiling him so much. Attending to him so much to the point that I don't mind myself anymore. Now at the realm of our struggles, he...

25 Apr 07

"You're Fat!" said your boyfriend.

galatea @galatea (686) • Philippines 24 Apr 07

I'm 5'1, 140lbs. I do kickboxing and yoga every other day. I jog every week. I try to eat a balanced meal every day, usually skipping the meat, and piling up on veggies and fruits. Today my boyfriend tells me that I should lose...

accepting your partner

supporting your partner

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hartnsoul I couldn't say I understand exactly but I do sympathize with you. Its the person you love the most that seems very difficult to please in the entire world. However, I learned recently that if your are not appreciated by one person no matter how much you feel...

24 Apr 07

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What can you say about me?

hartnsoul @hartnsoul (558) • Philippines 5 Feb 07

Haha... This may sound ridiculous! It's not that I'm vain or something, I just want to solicit ideas of what people can say about this picture/avatar of mine. :)

people

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hartnsoul Hi francydafne:) yup, yup... that pic is me and no one else.. haha... thanks for your post.. hope we can be friends. Where's ur pic?

20 Apr 07

What can you say about me?

hartnsoul @hartnsoul (558) • Philippines 5 Feb 07

Haha... This may sound ridiculous! It's not that I'm vain or something, I just want to solicit ideas of what people can say about this picture/avatar of mine. :)

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hartnsoul Yes, you can be my friend :)

19 Apr 07

What can you say about me?

hartnsoul @hartnsoul (558) • Philippines 5 Feb 07

Haha... This may sound ridiculous! It's not that I'm vain or something, I just want to solicit ideas of what people can say about this picture/avatar of mine. :)

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hartnsoul Wow marv! Are you a psychic or what?! LOL. Everything you said is practically true. Have we met? Maybe we've been friends all along :) God Speed!

16 Mar 07

What can you say about me?

hartnsoul @hartnsoul (558) • Philippines 5 Feb 07

Haha... This may sound ridiculous! It's not that I'm vain or something, I just want to solicit ideas of what people can say about this picture/avatar of mine. :)

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hartnsoul Hi vabh, glad to read your follow-up post. Yup, I'm smiling as ever. I guess it stems from my optimism. My daughter is a very healthy 6 month old overweight angel. She's into eating solids now and eats a lot. I have to stop and make her drink more water than...

16 Mar 07

Do You Pray/Ask Your God for Help? If so...

whiteheather39 @whiteheather39 (24403) • United States 20 Feb 07

I have three questions: 1. Do you ask think you can only ask for very important things or do you think you can also ask for small unimportant things? 2. Do think everyone has a quota or total of requests allowed and each...

faith

god

power of prayer

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hartnsoul Very true. I couldn't agree more. :)

20 Feb 07

What would you endorse?

hartnsoul @hartnsoul (558) • Philippines 8 Feb 07

Many aspire to become a model - whether print ad, commercial ad, or the likes. Just wondering, if you are granted to be a model for a week, what product would you endorse? Why?

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hartnsoul Great idea you got here. Yeah, we should really promote nation building. Besides, what better way to improve life in the Philippines than to promote stuff that are valuable to our lives. Gawad Kalinga not only helps families, but also provide employment so in...

11 Feb 07

What would you endorse?

hartnsoul @hartnsoul (558) • Philippines 8 Feb 07

Many aspire to become a model - whether print ad, commercial ad, or the likes. Just wondering, if you are granted to be a model for a week, what product would you endorse? Why?

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hartnsoul Hi gigi. I'm glad to read your response. As the saying goes, "If you've got it, flaunt IT!" Take care. :)

11 Feb 07

Bible Cutting

hartnsoul @hartnsoul (558) • Philippines 31 Jan 07

Im guilty of "Bible Cutting." I didn't know until recently when someone testified in our church. I silently pray for a conversation with Him and when I open my Bible I just point a finger to any verse I can read. Is there a style...

bible

bible cutting

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hartnsoul Me neither. Until I heard it from our pastor in his preaching. I used to follow a devotional by Blackabby. Its like Our Daily Bread as well. But i finished it last year. :)

9 Feb 07

What can you say about me?

hartnsoul @hartnsoul (558) • Philippines 5 Feb 07

Haha... This may sound ridiculous! It's not that I'm vain or something, I just want to solicit ideas of what people can say about this picture/avatar of mine. :)

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hartnsoul Hi maribel. Thanks you for the post. Take care always.

6 Feb 07

What can you say about me?

hartnsoul @hartnsoul (558) • Philippines 5 Feb 07

Haha... This may sound ridiculous! It's not that I'm vain or something, I just want to solicit ideas of what people can say about this picture/avatar of mine. :)

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hartnsoul Hi there. Thanks for your insight. Also thanks for the support you've shown by responding to my posts :) Take care.

6 Feb 07

Good books - any suggestions?

hartnsoul @hartnsoul (558) • Philippines 1 Feb 07

I'm looking for good books old and new to read during my spare time. I need your suggestions and why you think its a good read. Thanks!

books

favorite book

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hartnsoul Hi sunshine lady. Thanks for your suggestion. I would try to get hold of a copy and read it myself. It sounds like a great suspense. :)

6 Feb 07

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Good books - any suggestions?

hartnsoul @hartnsoul (558) • Philippines 1 Feb 07

I'm looking for good books old and new to read during my spare time. I need your suggestions and why you think its a good read. Thanks!

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hartnsoul I'm open to suggestions that's why I posted this discussion. I read a lot and open to reading new stuff. Thanks for the insight.

5 Feb 07

Cold weather and scoliosis - How to Cope with pain?

hartnsoul @hartnsoul (558) • Philippines 31 Jan 07

I have a C-curve on my lumbar area. I live in the Philippines so the temperature is pretty much warm most of the time. But in months of January and February, the weather gets chilly and it kills my back. Any suggestions on how to...

scolio pain

scoliosis

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hartnsoul I think it may progress with age but it also depends on the activity you do. Be careful not to aggravate your condition by carrying heavy load. As much as possible do stretching exercises and back strengthening exercises. Consult with a doctor to know what is...

5 Feb 07

Good books - any suggestions?

hartnsoul @hartnsoul (558) • Philippines 1 Feb 07

I'm looking for good books old and new to read during my spare time. I need your suggestions and why you think its a good read. Thanks!

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hartnsoul Hi Posterboy! Yeah I've read his work. "Eleven Minutes" and Veronica Must Die" I found it a good read. Thanks for the insights :)

5 Feb 07

Whose your favorite CSI?

hartnsoul @hartnsoul (558) • Philippines 5 Feb 07

CSI: Miami has a great deal of promise. The characters are great. My favorite CSI is Horacio Cane. The shades, the gestures and the punchlines. "In Miami, we never close." Whose your favorite CSI?

carusso

csi

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hartnsoul Yeah, Caruso can be a pretty serious stuff. Too old fashioned. But his unfeeling attitude makes the series catch attention.

5 Feb 07