heavenrenz

@heavenrenz (190)

Age 48

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Me and my neighbours

ChoukseyMK @ChoukseyMK (1045) • India 28 Jun 12

in my life i changed several residences (about 20) so far. unfortunately i never got even a single nice/friendly neighbour. i always had bad experiences as a neighbour. my neighbours were either cheaters, selfish (each one of us...

neighbour

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heavenrenz well we have a very nice and friendly neighborhood were like family, every time there is an occasion in our house they come to help and we also do the same. We also have bible study every Saturday in which we give our opinions with each other and how we...

28 Jun 12

Alcoholism?

Garavegeta @garavegeta (963) • Kochi, India 27 Jun 12

People get addicted to alcohol.But why do they drink it for the first time? My friends say that it helps them forget all the bad things happening in their life.But when I ask,what are those bad things,they go mute.They are not...

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heavenrenz Because that's what they see around their environment and then curiosity will arise within them and then start patronizing alcoholic drinks ,sometimes wrong companionship.Good values still starts at home so parents have a big role in molding their children.

28 Jun 12

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fri-END?

constantinez19 @constantinez19 (232) • India 27 Jun 12

As we have seen in movies that friends helps in every situation but is that true in real life too..?? i have seen that best friends fighting for a girl or boy? why does that happen..? If we're besties then why to fight for...

friend buddies bestfriends

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heavenrenz well it is not right but as we all being tested, our relationship with others are also being tested including friends or best friends.Friendships also have ups and downs and differences, these will test how strong you can hold on to your friendship.If both of...

28 Jun 12

Dating your friend's ex!?

Lore2009 @Lore2009 (7378) • United States 27 Jun 12

When I was younger, in one of the group of friends that I had, 3 of the girls dated the same guy at different times... and while he was dating the 3rd friend we all went on a trip to Las Vegas together and we all shared one room....

dating

exes

friends

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heavenrenz Well it is easy to say NO but WHAT IF you have fallen for that guy because he was doing the best he can because he sincerely love you how will you resist? Well you just have to be broadminded to accept that things like that happens.Admit it that we all make...

28 Jun 12

What to do with friends who do not listen?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 28 Jun 12

I have this friend who really wants to go abroad. She has found herself a british/ english boyfriend and well she told us that she got a scholarship from this school in UK for about a year or so. The thing is I am worried about...

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heavenrenz I am not from UK but my cousins are and according to them there a lot of jobs there but its not easy as we think it is, you see racial discrimination is still the big issue and the fact that it is hard to trust anyone.If she knows any relatives who is now in...

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he was snoring!

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 27 Jun 12

last night hubby surprised me and we went to have a massage, i guess he was feeling tired too and he knows how tired i am as well.. so he said let us go and have a foot massage.. and when we arrived there i said a whole body...

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heavenrenz how sweet of you two having time together in the massage parlor I mean aside of pampering and relaxing yourselves your relationship is getting stronger and stronger. I think that is a nice tip for couples having a hard days at work that instead of getting...

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I wasnt prepared for this....

theSids @thesids (22180) • Bhubaneswar, India 28 Jun 12

Hi lotters and friends I returned from my health checkup a few days back and the reports have worsened. I am not worried about this worsening thing as I have been mentally preparing myself for the worsening of my...

ill health

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heavenrenz Yes it did happen to me but its not a reason for me to lose hope, I always believe that God has a purpose for every storm in life and God is greater than any problems, trials and test of life.Be strong and remember that there always be a light at the end of...

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Hi mylotters, in your own opinion? Is CUTE a compliment or a criticism.

meumeu25 @meumeu25 (917) • United Arab Emirates 24 Jun 12

I've been thinking about this, Cute is commonly used to describe. Everytime I hear this word the first thing that comes into my mind are pets like dogs ,cats, turtles and humsters, so I wonder what would it mean if CUTE is used to...

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heavenrenz I believe that CUTE is a positive adjective that can describe a person or a thing but any response to it may depend on how you see it, I mean if your sensitive enough to think that it is an insult then you have a problem. For me I don't mind them telling me...

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If you knew you will die tomorrow

no_ming @no_ming (137) • Philippines 23 Jun 12

Someone asked me that If I knew I will die today what will I do?? Well, I will enjoy the remaining hours of my life.. I will do what I want to experience like climbing in a tall tree in the mountain and see the beautiful places of...

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heavenrenz If I knew I will die tomorrow I will spend the day asking forgiveness to the people I have hurt and ask forgiveness to God.My salvation is all that matters to me and nothing else because I know that whatever happiness can this world give it is more than...

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Parents and kids

asdomencil @asdomencil (4265) • Philippines 24 Apr 12

Watching primetime variety show here in our country last night, there is a portion that the contestants will have to say something to whom they are with at the studio and vice versa. One of the contestant's mother told to her...

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heavenrenz Very well said, I also have a teenager son and its true that through Honesty they will earn their Freedom and I wanted to say to him the same way that the mother said and I believe that through this saying the bond between a mother and child relationship will...

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What if u were GOD have u forgive the sins u have made???

humaninsane @humaninsane (47) • China 21 Mar 12

hi frndz.. i have a lot of frndz and a lot more people tat think god is very very mercy. and they will keep repeating sins and god will keep forgiving them. SO wired. wat they think god has some other type of brain tat see the...

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heavenrenz 1 John 1:9 If we confess our sins He is faithful and just to forgive our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. But God knows our heart even if you confess your sins without sincerity it is unacceptable to God. We should understand that God is love...

24 Mar 12

What will you do?

pachuchay @tipay26 (867) • Philippines 22 Mar 12

What will you do if you found out that you were pregnant before getting married?Will you let your future husband know about it and why? Some men are afraid of having a big responsibility being a first time father.For me if it's...

real man

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heavenrenz Definitely I will inform the guy even if he is not man enough to accept it,we both did this so he has to know and whatever happens I will stand my ground because I will be accountable to my child when he/she grows up and look for his/her father, every child...

24 Mar 12

Would you like to be friend with your Ex?

chloe1055 @chloe1055 (21) • Philippines 22 Mar 12

If given a chance, would you prefer to be friends with your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend? Why or why not?

boyfriend

break up

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heavenrenz Of course, If God commands that you love your enemies why not be friends with my ex-boyfriend whatever we have been through in the past we have to face it and try to leave it behind.We already have moved on and living our own life so I guess we should accept...

24 Mar 12

Correct your English

befrindwithme26 @befrindwithme26 (5805) • Philippines 23 Mar 12

I have little book, i bought it and is simple to understand. Like example: 1.Unless you work hard,you can pass the examination. 2Unless you work hard,you cannot pass the examination. So what is the correct of this...

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heavenrenz number 1 is the correct one if you say "Unless you work hard" it gives a condition or rather a cause and the effect of that cause is "you can pass the examination". I hope I gave the right explanation.

24 Mar 12

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How do you protect yourself from bad things?

samson1 @samson1 (738) • Jamaica 23 Mar 12

Nobody can predict that bad things cannot happen, but you can only try to protect yourself. Is that true? Mylotters, have you ever been caught in a situation whereby bad things happenned to you unexpectedly, and what did you do to...

bad things

cannot predict

help yourself

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heavenrenz There's nothing you can do to protect yourself from bad things. I believe that God is the only one who can protect us, if you put your trust to Him He will guide you and protect you but if you live in fear without trusting Him then your fears will eat you...

24 Mar 12

What will you do when you are in bad mood?

shirley2all @shirley2all (141) • China 23 Mar 12

Hi mylotter When you are in bad mood or something makes you unhappy, what will you do to recover? This week I quarelled with my boyfriend through phone about our planning of this year. I felt very depressed.It bothered me a...

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heavenrenz Sometimes your mood depends on how you start your day like when you wake up in the morning setting your mind with a positive outlook and the rest of the day will all be positive. What I do is when I wake in the morning I start it with a prayer thanking Him for...

24 Mar 12

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frustration in life can avoided or not ?

befrindwithme26 @befrindwithme26 (5805) • Philippines 23 Mar 12

Well,life sometimes is stress to think many things.Like problems,financial,an other related problems. Sometimes you have to voice out with anger to others,who around you .It's better for me to voice out,than to hide it.

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heavenrenz Frustrations is always been a part of our daily life for us to learn and improve from it sometimes we don't realize that God is giving us this kind of trials for us to look for Him, try to voice out everything to the Lord and everything will turn out well.

24 Mar 12

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Long distance relationships. Does it really work or not?

kccrystalsachi @kccrystalsachi (117) • Philippines 23 Mar 12

Is it something that's prone to break-up or is it something that you feel is lasting? I have nothing against people who are into a "long distance relationship" however, I'd like to know your thoughts of how it is to be in a...

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heavenrenz For me it depends on both parties sometimes if you don't trust your partner I don't think long distance relationship will be their thing. If you love him and chose to trust him and he feels the same way I believe that there is nothing impossible.With our...

23 Mar 12