Hillary Ralston

@hillhjill (23788)

United States

Joined myLot 9 years ago

I'm a widow and I'm just drifting through life.. looking for some new friends.

Discussions (516)

Hillary Ralston's Discussions

Here I go...

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 15 Feb

Here I am again, I'm so weak and have a thing for the wild ones. Jason and I hooked back up and it was so amazing for a while..well he flew off the handle last night and broke up with me..and then told me to get out of his...

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That was a 360

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 1 Feb

So I have been talking about my friend Jason and I just can't ... So yesterday (Friday) I took off with my nephew, nothing unusual for us to do on payday.. well it started off with me having to make a new appointment with my...

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Great night

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 29 Jan

Last night was wonderful... It's all about the one that helped me heal and tore my heart out..we had an awful fallout and kinda stayed away from each other for awhile. My daughter came and rescued me when it all went down..and her...

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I'm sorry

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 27 Jan

I know that I was doing well posting here about what I went through with my husband passing and his story, but then I got a major squirrel moment.. I had someone come in my life and helped feel the missing part that I had in my...

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How it started part 3

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 24 Oct

It was early morning when the helicopter was ready to get him lifted.. leaving on a jet plane we were singing together. He always wanted to ride in one. We took a video of him being placed in the back and we knew we would be...

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How it started part 2

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 22 Oct

So they found the blood clot in his mechanical heart valve.. plus his kidneys not functioning right. So he was in a regular hospital for 3 days and they are a smaller hospital so they can't do big surgeries. He needed to have open...

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How it started

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 21 Oct

Pj (my late husband) was not feeling very well and was having these bad twitches that would make him jump. We just thought it was his nerves and didn't think much of it. Well one day he was really sick so we went to the hospital....

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Wow it's been a year

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 21 Oct

I can't believe that it's been that long since I was last on, alot has changed for me within that time.. so it might be a long read. Oct 28th 23- I had weight loss surgery, it was a hard process getting to know my new stomach and...

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Such a beautiful day

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 12 Oct 23

With this being the last real nice day it looks like, I got on my mountain bike and road down to the river. We were supposed to get thunderstorms today but they all went a bugged someone else. So after today it's supposed to drop...

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How was your night

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 7 Oct 23

The weather did a complete flip, we have this cold front coming through and I know a lot of you are getting cooler temps. It was cold enough last night that I closed the window and we buried ourselves under the blankets. Now I...

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Getting ready

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 6 Oct 23

So I had my appointment with all the info to get the ball rolling on this. So for starters my surgery is the 23 of this month, I'm excited!! Since I've lost 30 pounds already, I only have to do one week of a liquid diet. That...

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Happy October!

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 1 Oct 23

Spooky season is approaching!! Well it's always spooky season in my mind lol. I have some good size pumpkins that grew this year and I need to get them cut off the vines. It was a surprise pumpkin plant that grew and now I want...

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Awesome news

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 27 Sep 23

I know I haven't been on again. I have just been so busy with life and trying to figure different stuff out. None of that stuff has really stopped and probably won't, but I wanted to jump on here and let you all know....that I...

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The memories

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 29 Aug 23

Most of you know that my sister in law moved out of her house and she sold it to this woman that lives here in the same village/town. Well I'm sitting here watching her just tear out everything from the house and it was the last...

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Went to the doctor

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 28 Aug 23

It was a long wait to get in and see my doctor about my sciatica, she was booked up so far. So I finally got to see her and she had me bend, twists, lay down and knew exactly what and where it was hurting the most. She grab the...

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Did it storm?

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 26 Aug 23

I was laying down last night reading Reddit and next thing I know it's raining. So I jumped up to look outside and saw lightning!! I was excited, so I got out of bed and came into what we call the living room lol. The wind picked...

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Staying cool

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 24 Aug 23

It's been a hot week and this awful heat warning is going to be over tomorrow!! It's been over 100° all week and it's just evil hot outside, I think the pit of hell open up for awhile and we have not seen in rain for awhile....

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AI pictures

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 20 Aug 23

I have so much fun making different pictures with AI. Last night I made on of my mom's boyfriend and it came out as a dog, was the funniest thing ever. I will tell ya that AI makes some weird looking pictures though but also some...

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Hope all is well

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 20 Aug 23

I had to take a break, I've been dealing with a lot of stuff and most of you on here know what it is. But I've been blessed and then it all hit me again. I think I need to start yoga or something. I was never like this before and...

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Seeing a new heart doctor

Hillary Ralston @hillhjill (23788) • United States 7 Aug 23

The last one that PJ had was not very nice at all and she didn't care what he had to say. I was not happy with her and the way she treated him, so I found a new one that we are seeing today. I hope this one goes better and he does...

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