ja_gwen

@ja_gwen (55)

Philippines • Age 40

Joined myLot 16 years ago

life has it's own crazy ways...

Responses (29)

ja_gwen's Responses

Sinigang or Adobo?

warrior_777 @warrior_777 (1392) • Philippines 29 Sep 08

I notice that sinigang and adobo dishes are really a popular Filipino dishes according to those discussons about sinigang and adobo, they both received good numbers of responses. I was just wondering which of the two is the most...

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ja_gwen I want them both..Filipino foods are the greatest for me..our native dishes should be tried by all and they can see how we are related to our foods. as Adobo, the very mild and tame kind of Filipinos. Very unique taste. Just like Sinigang, the strong and wild...

29 Sep 08

Betray ........Or.......What

Ganesh44 @Ganesh44 (5547) • India 28 Sep 08

Hey A very Old Friend Whom I Meet Rarely called/rang me and said he is not feeling well and want me to visit to doctor along with him. I though ohhh he is in need so I should go to help him .... I went to doctor with him...

betray

old friend

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ja_gwen You should be too naive on what your friends are showing you. Some ma be true but most of them are just pretenders..So you better be careful. You may go with them, but you should have control over yourself. Never do whatever they asked you, you can join them...

29 Sep 08

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No Decisions Are Bad Unless It Kills You

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 28 Sep 08

Or have you ever heard the saying what doesn't kill you makes you stronger? Have you ever analyzed bad decisions that you have made in the past? Why are they bad, when we can learn so much from them and besides when we are...

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ja_gwen making a mistake is a learning process for us. It will only be wrong when we repeat the same mistake again. No one is perfect, learning from our mistake will make us grow wiser.

29 Sep 08

Is it true that real and true friends really exist??

AshVann @AshVann (45) • Philippines 26 Sep 08

...since birth, i never experienced to have a real friend whom i can share my secrets and problems... coz base on my experiences, friends are just good at the beginning.. In the beginning, they will try to be good to u and take...

temporary friendship

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ja_gwen I don't think that is true to every Filipino, bro. You will know your true friends and real friends in times of crisis, in bad situation. Those people who never leave you when your down. Friends doesn't mean other people only. your family too can be your...

26 Sep 08

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how to propose to a girl

sonusd @sonusd (1547) • India 26 Sep 08

Please friends tell me how to propose a girl..i mean i am a student of a financial school one girl is studying with me i am in love with her i love her all activities and she is also good friend of mine but i dont how to say my...

love

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ja_gwen well, if I were on your place, I would do something romantic but simple, just ask the girl if you can treat her to a simple lunch, dinner, or snack...just the 2 of you and there you can talk to her about your feelings...if you can't say it directly to her, you...

26 Sep 08

first broken heart...

Hazel Funcion @Zelmarq (12585) • Cebu City, Philippines 25 Sep 08

Its one of the most things that I fear in life, to break my heart. Of course i know people wont want their hearts to be broken but there are events and things in our lives that happen for a reason and I believe they make us or...

bible

broken heart

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ja_gwen i know how hard it is to be broken hearted.I too experienced that, but time will heal all those wounds. There would be times that you would cry and remember those time that you are together. But I tell you, there would be other men, better than him who would...

26 Sep 08

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Do you make decisions in the bathroom?

seeths @seeths (413) 26 Sep 08

Taking decisions sometimes is something that we really have to think and brak our heads be what ever it is.It is something that we need to take some time and too without any one bothering us.Have you ever taken decisions in the...

decision

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ja_gwen i don't make decisions on bathroom..but sometimes when I feel like crying over some problems, i just go to the bathroom and lock myself. I pretend to be washing my face . after crying I wash my face so that after I cried no one will notice..I also do some...

26 Sep 08

Habit of "SILENT" mode to your Mobile phone.?

chennai_b07 @chennai_b07 (640) • India 25 Sep 08

One of my friend who used to put her Mobile phone, turn into the Silent mode when we went for sleep in the night, So, if any of us will call her after her sleep, we willnot get any reply from her, she can call you after she walk...

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ja_gwen Hi, I have a habit of putting my mobile phone on silent mode when I'm in public places or outside, but it definitely on Vibrate mode so I know I have messages or a phone call. I do this because I don't want to draw attention with my loud alert tones when I'm...

26 Sep 08

i am a new member and a new mom

koikoikeiji @koikoikeiji (356) • Japan 25 Sep 08

i am so happy that finally i am a member of mylot and now a mom as well. my sister is a member of this site and i always see her and very much interested to join. i find it warm and enjoyable to be here. it is already part of her...

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ja_gwen Congrats Sis! and welcome to Mylot...your son look so cute..

26 Sep 08

Should I forget her?

sonusd @sonusd (1547) • India 25 Sep 08

Hello friends I am in love with a girl since 3 year .actually we are child hood friend and when we complete our school i proposed her and she also agree with that proposal ..i am a very simple guy and she is very advanced girl...

love

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ja_gwen I think you should ask her one last try..you'll never know, she might change her mind and fall for you again..but if she says that she wants you as a friend and nothing more, you should respect her decision..and keep her as a friend..being a friend is better...

26 Sep 08

Do you fight infront of your kids?

comfort55 @comfort55 (1574) • India 24 Sep 08

Well if its yelling,screaming and hurling insults at each other then No,its not healthy for kids to witness that behaviour. However its fine to show that even two people who love each other can have different views and be...

arguing

fighting

parenting

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ja_gwen I think it's not good to let your kids see that you are fighting. Because you will set as an example for them. at their young age, they will not forget these scenes, and will just remember you fighting an not loving each other. The tendency, they too will...

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i really dont know what to do!!!please HELP

carmela0210 @carmela0210 (1591) • Philippines 24 Sep 08

At work im under the supervision of my father's friend, or i can't really tell how he is related to my father but they seem to be close, so because they are friends im relaxed in terms of work, and i became close to him...

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ja_gwen You can say to him straight in a respectful manner that you don't like him, and you treat him as your second dad. in terms of work, you can try to be professional, or if you are really not comfortable anymore, you can try to work somewhere else, just don't...

25 Sep 08

How many best friends do you have?

sugarkoh @sugarkoh (3) • Philippines 24 Sep 08

Do you get confuse what to answer when someone asks you "Who is your bestriend?" because you have lots of best friends? Why do you say that your best friend is your best friend? How do you consider them as your bestfriends?...

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ja_gwen i do have many friends, but only few that I can say my best friends. once you can say that your friend is really true to you, that's when you can say they are your best friend. Not all will be there for you in times of trials, and not all are true. When day...

25 Sep 08

Courting - the Filipino way

red_amethyst @red_amethyst (3518) • Philippines 23 Sep 08

Our country is known as a conservative ones. In old days, guys will court a girl when he likes her. he visits her home, bring flowers, chocolates or gifts not just to her but the whole family. and even, sometimes, he will sing or...

courting

filipino

philippines

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ja_gwen I think, now a days, it does not exist anymore...men are not that patient enough today, and not persevering as they are back in those days...But I do prefer the old style. Because you can see the courage,and how truly persevering a man is with you during those...

23 Sep 08

Favorite Gwen Stefani song?

Pitgull @Pitgull (1522) • United States 6 Aug 08

What is your favorite Gwen Stefani song? I have loved her music since No Doubt's I'm Just a Girl... I love her in I Saw Red with Bradley from Sublime... Her and Ever Rich Girl...Don't Speak,...

gwen stefani best songs

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ja_gwen Ilove Gwen Stefani's songs, ever since the No Doubt days..the best song I love when she's still singing with her band is Just a Girl, because I can totally relate on the song. Also, the'er song NEW.. As a solo, I like her song 4 am and Yummy...Gwen really...

23 Sep 08

What do you do when you can't sleep?

ShellyB @ShellyB (5241) • United States 22 Sep 08

Me, I have been online and the more time it passes the more I think I made a mistake, I should have been in bed listening to an audio book. Now I have to be up till the kid wakes up and goes to school or she might not go at...

audio book

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ja_gwen just like you, when I'm not yet feeling sleepy, I surf the net, or just play music.or in case when I really need to sleep, I just lie on the be, thinking, and realize I fell asleep thinking..hekx...

23 Sep 08

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It's hard to stay positive..

NrgDfenZ @NrgDfenZ (1810) • Belgium 22 Sep 08

Hi there Do you know the feeling when everything seems to fail ? Like nothing goes the way you want to.. Well that's what I am having right now.. I can't seem to stay positive, I try but it is soo hard.. There is so much...

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ja_gwen Hi, I know it's hard to be positive on things, when it seems that nothing is going right. But think of it this way, you're so blessed that after you had an accident, you are still alive. You survived your surgery. regarding your best friend, there might just...

23 Sep 08

"I am a Smoker and Do I deserve to be Hated with those People who don't Smoke"

iyah10 @iyah10 (4115) • Kuwait 22 Sep 08

Yes, I admit am a real bad Smoker and I am aware on things that will happened for me in the future but I really want to quit on Smoking for a very long time but I guess I could not manage to removed it alone by myself for I will...

hated

quit

smoker

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ja_gwen I'm not a smoker.. I admit that I hate people who smokes.. but I also respect everyone, so I totally understand if you cannot stop immediately your smoking habit, but you may try it little by little..it's for your own health also... you don't deserve to be...

23 Sep 08