jal1948

@jal1948 (1359)

India • Age 76

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Why is it so difficult to say we are sorry?

kbkbooks @kbkbooks (7022) • Canada 2 Mar 08

It is not just men or just women, or even just adults. Everyone has a hard time admitting fault or wrong and saying "I am sorry." Even when my children were very small, I had a hard time to get them to say they were sorry to each...

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jal1948 Instead of asking the kids to apologize let them learn through imitation just shove your pride and ego right out the window and apologize to one and sundry when your kids see this they are bound to follow,only do it when you are really at fault or even if it...

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I want to say sorry to myLot

gxnfly @gxnfly (1147) • China 11 Mar 08

I am such an idiot!I made a serious mistake on myLot. I didn't read the rugulations when I signed up myLot,so when a friend asked me aout how to make money noline ,I posted some sites I am doing on myLot with knowing I 've...

sorry

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jal1948 Thats okay as long as you repent and promise never to do it again i am sure you will be forgiven by all mylot community.

11 Mar 08

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Should we give pocket money to kids?

dpk262006 @dpk262006 (58676) • Delhi, India 10 Mar 08

One of my close friends' son is 12 years old. He meets most of his demands but does not give him pocket money. Now his son has demanded that he may be given Rupees 100/-per month, as his pocket money. What are your views on giving...

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jal1948 There is no harm in giving pocket money. The amount given is as per your capacity to give and the childs requirements.you can ask him to earn it by doing small errands and there by make him feel important,at the same time monitor what he does with the money ....

11 Mar 08

Any punishment during school days to share

CSHINE @SHAMRACK (8576) • India 7 Mar 08

When I was in school I used to get many types of punishment, In that one day when I came late due to not getting bus, I punished by sports teacher to run for one hour in school play ground, after that run I fainted and later came...

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jal1948 That is no way to bring out the talent in a student any one else could have got a stroke for the teachers stupidity.I remember when I was in the boarding headed by priests.While sleeping someone put water in another boys ears it was not a nice thing to do but...

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Way To Much Homework?

Kyle91 @Kyle91 (22) • United States 11 Mar 08

This is to all the students out in the world. Have you ever wondered what it would be like if your teachers didn't give you any homework? How much weight would be off your back and how much free time you would have? Please tell me...

homework

school

way to much homework

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jal1948 If there was no homework I would be able to lead a normal stress free life. I would not have any extra time but just enough as now with all the homework I am always lagging behind.

11 Mar 08

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Are there really any dumb questions?

tafoya @tafoya (272) • United States 24 Apr 07

are there really dumb questions,if so what is the worst questions you asked or responded to? if so how was it a dumb question?

mylot people life questions

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jal1948 Thereis no such thing as a dumb question. What goes on in another persons mind at any given tome to make him/her ask such questions cannot be understood by us and hence we call them dumb questions.

11 Mar 08

Did Jesus Christ have long hair?

clowdine @clowdine (1402) • Philippines 18 Feb 08

At this point, I believe he did not. It is a Christian teaching that men should not have long hair. The proof is in the Bible? It is in 1 Corinthians 11:14.

religion

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jal1948 what difference does it make .he livedtwo thousand years ago we may live maximum for 90 years, but the system tht controls will continuesly make up stories to believe watever bull they want to give us for ages. Promising the return of JESUS.Who will relinquish...

5 Mar 08

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Spiritual but Not Religious?

Chiang_Mai_boy @Chiang_Mai_boy (3882) • Thailand 4 Mar 08

It seems like every time I sign on to myLot I find someone who is claiming that they are spiritual but not religious. This rather strange form of egotism seems to be almost unique among Christians. They divorce themselves from...

god

reason

religion

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jal1948 Im a christian JUST LIKE YOU AND ALTHOUGH we are supposed to believe in Christ and his teachings, God has given us a body to nurture and take care of and a mind to use . Nobody has the right to decide things for you contrary to your beliefs or interpret the...

5 Mar 08

Are you more active at MYLOT after new income boost?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 4 Mar 08

Are you more active at mylot than before? i think most of us have noticed that now the rate of income is fairly good after the latest upgrade in mylot with some additional ads. I can't say that i am more active as i do not get...

mylot activity

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jal1948 I am active on mylot based on my free time although the money is much appreciated it is too less for the time i put in , as I believe in posting quality responses as my post will show,not just one liners to earn money or fool the system

5 Mar 08

Helping Teens Manage Money...

TheSaib @TheSaib (28) • South Africa 1 Mar 08

What are parents of kids doing to help their kids learn money management? How much allowance is reasonable for a 16 yr old boy/girl? Your thoughts and or ideas very much appreciated. Thanks

management

money

teens

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jal1948 giving a child depends on the childrens genuine needs and your capacity to fulfill those needs without hurting yourself or the child. Supervise their spending and see that it is for a just and genuine cause/purpose.

5 Mar 08

Teen back from the dead...

ersmommy1 @ersmommy1 (12588) • United States 4 Mar 08

A Florida teen says he still can't grasp that he was medically dead for several minutes. This would probably freak me out too. But I'd be thankful.

teen

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jal1948 He does not have to dwell on being medically dead but on the new lease on life that he has got and dedicate his life for the betterment of self and the good of mankind.

5 Mar 08

Why can't parents help their own children?

MommaOfAllTrades @MommaOfAllTrades (969) • Canada 5 Mar 08

Please allow me to vent here again. First of all, I was asked to swich dates for my respite care this week which I have absolutely no problem with however what I do find disturbing is arriving to find I'm responsible for an...

first job

parents helping children

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jal1948 It is very kind of you to help this childand all you do ismuch appreciated but you must remember you need to guide the child not do things for her all the time .In this way she will learn to be Independent, instead of her building her dependence on you.Tell...

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What kind of parent are you?

MommaOfAllTrades @MommaOfAllTrades (969) • Canada 5 Mar 08

What kind of parent are you? Are you the type to allow your children to play rough and deal with the broken bones later? Or are you the type of parent that prevents accidents at all cost? I'm the type to deal with whatever...

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jal1948 It is natural to try and protect them selves and their children from every harm and guide them through the stages of life by sharing our experiences, our trials,tribulations,pain and suffering with them so that they do not go through the same.

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Do you borrow money to pay bills or do youleave them?

pumpkinjam @pumpkinjam (8769) • United Kingdom 3 Mar 08

When you have nothing and there are bills to pay, do you borrow the cash to make sure they're paid? Or do you wait (through choice or necessity) until you have the money to pay them. I tend to prioritise my bills. For example,...

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jal1948 From the day we are born,we are born into debt.Debt to our parents,to our peers, to society , to the government who mortgages you even prior to your birth, to our religious leaders who compel you to undergo so many rituals even when you are not in a position...

3 Mar 08

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Do you ever feel like everything you do is just a waste of time?

Stephannie @stephcjh (38473) • United States 25 Feb 08

I have felt like that alot in my life. I work myself to death day in and day out to make a better life for me and my family. Sometimes it just seems no matter how hard you try to get ahead, there is always something pulling us...

wasting time in life

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jal1948 This is normal phenomenon faced my the majority of the people and you are no exception. Only the super rich kids born into super rich families really care a damn as their parents have millions to last generations. Sometimes It makes me wonder if the maxim you...

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I'm trying to "get rich quick"! Any advice?

chunkers @chunkers (1050) • United States 13 Jul 07

Look, I'm tired of getting up at 5am every day, getting showered, shaving, brushing my teeth and slaving for mere peanuts. Like Elmer J. Fudd, I want to be a millionaire and own a mansion and a yacht. However, I don't want to work...

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jal1948 My dear friend all what you hqve written is anyones dream,and will continue to remain a dream unless you act and change it into reality.America is the promised land where people haveknown to come from all parts of the world to realise their dreams.And George...

3 Mar 08

Opening bananas

The_Col_G @The_Col_G (55) • Australia 20 Feb 08

Do you open bananas from the sharp end (narrow end, stem end, call it what you will) or from the blunt end (rounded end, thick end, whatever)? If you open it from the blunt end, where are you from? I ask because the only...

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jal1948 i Normally open/peal the banana from the stem end which I find it is the easy way to do.if some others find another way suitable its up to them,as long they can peel it without a fuss.

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Do you like Bananas?

men82in @men82in (1268) • India 31 Dec 07

I like banana a lot and I would also ask people to intake banana regularly. Do you know the benefits of eating bananas? -It can stimulate the production of haemoglobin in the blood and so helps in cases of anaemia. -This...

b12

banana

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jal1948 This was and still is the most cost effective and filling fruit,and with so many benefits listed to its credit it does seem that I have been doing the right thing for years that is having BANANAS

3 Mar 08