jinyan69

@jinyan69 (124)

China • Age 55

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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How do you fight your daily stress?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 17 Jan 10

We live in a quite stressful life, and stress is one of our worst common enemy. So, I was thinking on how you fight stress after work? What do you usually do when you get home, do you listen to music, have someone to massage for...

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habits

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jinyan69 i think if you get home after having a hard work,you can have a lot of ways to release stress.if it is me,firstly i look back what have i done in that day,remmber some happy thing,do my best to forget any boring thing,think which is more importment thing in my...

18 Jan 10

What is the birthday gift that you really want to receive?

wildlittlefan @wildlittlefan (4680) • Hong Kong 28 Dec 09

Sicne man and woman were made different,they will always like thiings in a different way.You will never buy some lip sticks or cosmetic to a man for his birthday gift and you won't buy a man's perfume as a gift for a woman's...

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jinyan69 oh,i think it will my best birthday present if my son has a little progress in his study or give up some bad habits ,or ......whatever he has a progress in any field,i always think he gives me a best gift to my birthday.

30 Dec 09

Winter, Spring, Summer or Fall:What season do you like the most?

hunieby @hunieby (207) • Philippines 11 Nov 09

I like Autumn or Fall because I love looking at the trees changing their colors from green to yellow,orange and brown. I like walking down the streets feeling the crunchy sound of the leaves on my feet.

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jinyan69 i very agree it ,i like autumn ,too.not only there are a lot of colors,but also i like thinking in this season,it will give me many insirations.

12 Nov 09

Are there any conflicts between patients and doctors in your country?

zhouxi @zhouxi (1752) • China 28 Sep 09

There are many problems between doctors and patients in our country.the reason may be monopoly and dissymmetry of info.how about your country?how could you deal with the problems?

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jinyan69 hello,zhouxi.i think the conflicts between patiets and doctors more rise from country's medical policy. for example,fristly many cheap and effect medcine don't product by factory,doctor must use more expensive drug to treat patients,it will result into dear...

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can you live in a place without computer?

buping @buping (952) • China 28 Sep 09

hey friends. as the computer came into our lives, we seem to be involved with it. it is so important to us nowadays. it is becoming a friend of us. someone even can not work normally without computer. but imagine that a place that...

computer

place

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jinyan69 nowsday many people don't leave computer,if i don't work that day,i always stay at home to read or chat on line,i need computer to learn a lot of knowlege from it.but if i own a lot of good friends and many books ,even no computer i will live

1 Oct 09

How do you usually spend your long National Holiday?

williamjisir @williamjisir (22819) • China 26 Sep 09

Hello, my dear fellow mylotters and friends, Our National Day is coming soon. To be exact, it is October 1st, but we will start to have our eight-day National Holiday on September 29th till October 6th. Speaking of the long...

traveling during holidays

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jinyan69 hi,william.hope you have a good time on your trip.in my holiday,i always tale a relaxe ,becuse there are a lot of people in sight spot ,i love to travel ,but ,if many people in there ,i think it will destroy tne beuitful things ,then i will lost interest .the...

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Are you more likely to buy something made in your own country?

maezee @maezee (41988) • United States 26 Sep 09

I ask this because the United States relies mainly on imported fabrics and most ouf our products are made and assembled outside of the US. Some companies, like "American Apparel" boast of the fact that they're "made in the USA",...

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jinyan69 i like buy something maded in our country,firstly i think they are save ,secondly i think they are adapted to me .because the diffrent country company with diffrent demand and belief.

28 Sep 09

Do you like spicy food?

sophisticated_boy @sophisticated_boy (1457) • Indonesia 23 Sep 09

Hi all, in my country almost every food we eat has chili in it, or even if it does not have chili in it, we usually add bottled chili sauce in it. Fast food restaurant such as McDonald's or KFC now even only give tomato sauce if...

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jinyan69 i like spicy food very much,if the dish be putted some hot pepper,my appetite is well that day;but i coun't eat much ,because my stomach can't bear it ,i wll apear stomach-ache.

25 Sep 09

I am a senior citizen, must I give up my seat on the bus for a young person?

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 20 Sep 09

I admit a bit of a rant as well as a reversed question,brought'on by answering an older discussion, I am only 22, but must I give up my seat on the bus to an old person every day? that was the discussion. and somehow maybe I am...

respect or no respect for the older people

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jinyan69 as a young man ,i think he must stand up to give a seat to an older man,only if you are very tired or sick.conversely,althougt you are an older,if a young lady is in bad situation who need a seat ,i think you maybe give up your seat to her,i trust you have a...

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Not having a baby, does it bother you?

pormadi @pormadi (1300) • Indonesia 17 Sep 09

According to my culture, not having a baby after gettint married is something not acceptable. Adopting a child is not normal choice for my culture. I have married more than 2 years ago, but I do not have a baby. It bothers...

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jinyan69 i understand you very much,i have a child,he give me o lot of happy time.i can't imagine how my live is if i have't my own child.but you can see a doctor to find reasons,sometime you relaxe yourself ,mybe i have your own baby someday.

18 Sep 09

china,my home

buping @buping (952) • China 15 Sep 09

hi, i come from china. i should say china a lovely place for travelling. it is rich in culture and history. have you ever been to anywhere in china? what impressed you most? like to share your experiences.

china

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jinyan69 hello,buping.i love china.it is a great country,it own a lot of beutiful scenery places and a long histry culture.

16 Sep 09

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Who Would You Save?

patofgold23 @patofgold23 (5069) • Philippines 13 Sep 09

If you are in a sinking boat... with all of the people who are dear to you...(your mom, dad, son, daughter, husband, wife. brother, sister... bestfriends, boyfriend...) and circumstances only allow you to save "ONE"...

life

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jinyan69 yes,the answer is difficult,mybe i save my son first,becuse his life just begin ,he still need many thinks to know,to learn,to feel......

16 Sep 09

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I've married two years ago. I do not get a baby yet. So sad

pormadi @pormadi (1300) • Indonesia 10 Sep 09

I've married two years ago. I do not get a baby yet. So sad. I visited doctor. Doctor said, my wife is suffering from cyst and hypertyroid. Now she is in caring by doctor. One times a week she have to go to doctor. In fact, I...

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jinyan69 why you must divorce ,becuse you maybe have not a baby?i think it will hurt your wife ,she is very pity and sad,do you think there is no love asif no baby?

12 Sep 09

they choose divorce at last

allsheikhly @allsheikhly (83) • China 9 Sep 09

i am tired of lifestyle like "cold war",i know there is no love between them,and now i even wish they divorce,this evening,mother called me,them wanna divorce. i know it must be this end ,but i don't feel sad at all.i know they...

divorce

obligation

parents

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jinyan69 oh,itis very pity for you ,that is the reason which i will not divorce when i have a "cold war" with my husband.my child is very younger,i don't hope it will bring some bad effect,i want give a happy time,because i have no argue with my husband,only...

10 Sep 09

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Do you like to take photos when travelling?

sweetyethot @sweetyethot (1737) • China 6 Sep 09

I really get annoyed when asked to take photos all the time.I think the purpose of travelling is to relax yourself and enjoy the scenery.But a friend of mine kept asking to take photos for her as she thinks taking photos is the...

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jinyan69 when i was travelling,i perfer to take photos on beutiful scenery not to for people,i don't hope some people on my picture,i think it will detroy the beutiful scenery.i always like travelling with my camera.

8 Sep 09

can you keep enthusiasm on your target and how

allsheikhly @allsheikhly (83) • China 4 Sep 09

every time i make my target,i can keep it just for a short period of time ,then no enthusiasm... i know it's bad ,but it hard for me to stick to,so i wonder how people conquer it when they encounter similar problem

conquer

enthusiasm

target

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jinyan69 oh , i think it is not good for you,i once make a target in my life ,i wll take a plan how to do it,i keep a gentle mind-set to do it,not crazy,just do your best,sometime it wll fail,but i think it wll happy to do in the procedures. m

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what kind of animal you fear most

allsheikhly @allsheikhly (83) • China 4 Sep 09

most people are afraid of spiders or snakes,but that is ok to me, what i hate most is caterpillar,or something like that,crawling slowly, whenever i see it ,i will feel there is gooseflesh on my skin...... so what kind of animal...

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jinyan69 i am afraid of most animals in my life,but i hate most is caterpillar which sometime apear in my life,it is very ugly and seem nausea.

5 Sep 09

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Living with parents after marriage,is it shameful?

sunshineyunlong @sunshineyunlong (271) • China 1 Sep 09

Normally people would think that after marriage one should be independent and live apart with parents.However my cousin and his wife live with their parents after they get married for they can not afford to buy a house now. So...

live with parents after marriage

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jinyan69 in my country many parents hope their children live with them after they have married,firstly,they want to help them because of hard work;secondly it can save money that family members live together;thirdly they feel lonely if their children leave them .

3 Sep 09