joyderful1

@joyderful1 (94)

Singapore • Age 67

Joined myLot 18 years ago

I am not a label, I evolve

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Is WebMD reliable?

allshookup @allshookup (598) • United States 13 Apr 07

I just went to WebMD for a "self diagnosis" of a fluttering I feel in my chest at times. Frankly, I didn't even know to describe it as a chest flutter. Anyways, I got 13 possible conditions for it, and the one that stuck out was...

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joyderful1 I'm sorry I'm not directing answering your question. I'm sensing this isn't about whether any 'place' is right or wrong, but a response that you needed to hear. Trust is one huge issue even I worked on. You may need to stop while the flutters come round, and...

15 Apr 07

If someone truly wants death, should they be allowed their wish?

allshookup @allshookup (598) • United States 30 Mar 07

Suicide is a fact of life, and a sad one at that. I cannot even relate to being that depressed, and my first thought would be that we should help all those who do think this way. But if someone truly wants to die and hates life,...

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joyderful1 I take your words as an affirmation of me, you're not just being nice or trying to flatter me. Yes, my life experience has been wide and deep; but pls remember that anyone who is studying to be a great psychologist is like God saying He is Omnipotent; but God...

2 Apr 07

is your partner a 'low-talker'?

joyderful1 @joyderful1 (94) • Singapore 1 Mar 07

Does anyone here have a partner who is a low-talker? Mine doesn't initiate any kind of social talk, if he can help it. If he does say anything, it's cliched, which is fine wtih me. I'm not expecting him to be whom he's not. I know...

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joyderful1 He isn't comfortable with words. I don't want to change him. I just allow him to be himself. That way if he says anything more than he usually does, that's a plus for me. For him too, since he will find I am not a threat to his dislike for words. We are...

23 Mar 07

What do you do if your sister loves the worng guy?

opinca333 @opinca333 (44) • Romania 18 Feb 07

My sister is in love with this guy witch I know.He is my age and my sister is three years younger then him.I would have nothing against this but I know this guy and he is not good for her.He is a wannabe player,but my sister...

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joyderful1 Well said, spitfire! Another point to note for opinca: if you already harbor resentful attitudes about this guy, your whole body language is going to tell him you don't like him, if ever your paths cross, even for a few seconds. You need to behave in a...

18 Feb 07

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heartbreak support

allshookup @allshookup (598) • United States 11 Feb 07

my fiancee is staying in a hotel. he doesn't want to put up with certain habits of mine, and thinks i'll be better off without him. he hasn't told me yes or no about trying to work it out. what do i do? give him time, even though...

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joyderful1 I suggest you find friendships outside (how secure are you to find even male friends who can allow you to share on an intellectual level without the complications?). If you intend to stay, you are going to have to accept he is not going to want to talk, much...

15 Feb 07

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if you had a choice between you dying or a child dying which would you choose?

mssnow @mssnow (9484) • United States 8 Feb 07

I am going to give you a thought provoking scenario. If you were told that you could either be tortured and shot in front of your child, so they get to see the whole thing. Or you get to watch your child being killed in front of...

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joyderful1 I agree with uppuluri on this issue. Spelling out a strategy here is not appropriate too, bc there are already so much evil being perpetrated, anything that's used for good can/will be used for evil. Or else evil will always drive itself deeper to overturn...

9 Feb 07

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what are you feeling...?

joyderful1 @joyderful1 (94) • Singapore 1 Feb 07

just off the top of your head, if you could, try not to edit your thoughts or typing, ...

emotional health

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joyderful1 wow, it's 7 hrs since you posted this, kirenz. How are you doing now? Do you still feel your head spinning?

2 Feb 07

Here's a place for you to vent

joyderful1 @joyderful1 (94) • Singapore 28 Jan 07

We usually have thoughts that 'tumble' out, whether it is meeting a friend for the first time, or we're so familiar with our work we get bored and speak very fast to our clients, that it sounds rude; when we win a competition and...

emotional health

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joyderful1 To Sayuri: You sound concerned that allshookup has shared her OWN feelings (socially unacceptable ones) about God here. Don't worry, let her get all shook up HERE. There are 'places' she or anyone can do this without being fixed or told to change. God can...

2 Feb 07

Why do men always seem to want more?

allshookup @allshookup (598) • United States 28 Jan 07

Maybe not in all cases, but it seems that sometimes one woman can be enough physically, but why not mentally? Why do some men like to look at other women, total strangers who they've never came in contact with, in discreet manners...

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joyderful1 I forgot to mention this. I've been 'burnt' too. But I realise that returning to my faith in a real way has everything to do with my current relationship, who by the way is also Christian. I'm not saying that Christians don't make mistakes or fail. I'm...

30 Jan 07

Why do men always seem to want more?

allshookup @allshookup (598) • United States 28 Jan 07

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joyderful1 Chuckt has said it all! My bf, by the way, his name is also Chuck, betw the both of us, we look too. I tell him when another man looks at me, or talks to me with flirting eyes. He has indicated to me that he will look too. And we both 'know' we will not...

29 Jan 07

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Do you be polite, or keep walking?

Sissygrl @Sissygrl (10912) • Canada 28 Jan 07

Where i live there is a group home for people with downsyndrom and other mental defects/problems. It is a really small town, but there seems to be a lot of them here. maybe they come from neighbouring cities too. Do you stop to...

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joyderful1 For Pekachu: perhaps Sissygrl was not aware of the choice of her words in describing those who seemingly have less than what most 'normal' people have, thru no fault of hers. Society today is helping us make more proper choices of words, as we learn together....

28 Jan 07

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What kind of party do you like?

vianneyanzu @vianneyanzu (908) • Philippines 19 May 08

Do you prefer a kiddie party? a "party" party? (bar, beer, music,..) a formal party? a fun party with lots of games? or other kids of parties? People have very different tastes...and I'm sure it applies to parties...

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joyderful1 Do you prefer a kiddie party? a "party" party? (bar, beer, music,..) a formal party? a fun party with lots of games? or other kids of parties? People have very different tastes...and I'm sure it applies to parties they like too..:) I'd like a...

19 May 08