kat_isobal

@kat_isobal (35)

Philippines • Age 36

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..Love your Enemy..

canielynne @canielynne (135) • Philippines 26 Jan 10

The Bible says.. "Love your enemy"... is it easy for you to do that?

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kat_isobal I'd be a hypocrite if I say YES. It's never easy to forgive and forget that easily. It hurts even more when the ones who hurt you are people you love. Right? But then again, it's always better to be happy, and to be in that state of euphoria requires a lot of...

27 Jan 10

Men are better listeners, who agrees?

little25 @little25 (10) 27 Jan 10

Its nice to have a balance when having a conversation. I think naturally men are better listeners. I'm not saying women don't listen just that women tend to talk a lot more when having a conversation. Anyone else agree with this ?...

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kat_isobal Hhhmmm. I'm a woman and I'm the type who tends to talk a lot. So, you're probably right on that part. BUT. haha! It doesn't justify that "men are better listeners". =P When you, men, say something to us, women, don't you get amazed that we remember almost...

27 Jan 10

How will you react if you find a thief in your house?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 26 Jan 10

If he attack you can you kill him, to protect your family?Do you think you will find the strength to defend at any cost?How can people be strong in limited circumstances, have no choice?In your country, law defend people who is...

questions and answers

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kat_isobal I honestly do not know how to react in cases like this. I would probably stand straight, stare at the thief for a while and SHOUT. So, I'd probably end up dying. Weird. But then again, I'll cross the bridge when i get there.

27 Jan 10

FLAMES - Love Calculator... Do you believe in it?

krystalheart @krystalheart (842) • Philippines 26 Jan 10

Have you tried the game FLAMES - Love calculator which can be found anywhere on-line or you can play it manually if you know the steps. FLAMES stands...

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kat_isobal I've played this game and I last played it in high school. It's pretty fun. It makes you have something to laugh about with friends. But people should start to think that what makes a relationship work, is not because how it was "predicted" in FLAMES. It takes...

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loving with ease

GreatLife4You @GreatLife4You (61) • United States 26 Jan 10

Loving with ease means to love unconditionally. What is unconditional love, and what does it mean to you? Unconditional love means loving without condition meaning you let the person become what he/she wants to be by allowing...

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kat_isobal Thank you for this. It's such an eye-opener especially for us, who are in a relationship. I like (thumbs up!) this post. It somehow gives importance to how people should manage their relationships and make them value who they have in their lives.

27 Jan 10

When people you trust lie.

mac6304 @mac6304 (76) • United States 26 Jan 10

I am in a situation now where someone in authority took a position and lied about what they would or would not do. They came into representing themselves to be honest and trustworthy. They said all the right things and promised to...

deceitful

hurtful

liar

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kat_isobal Lying happens everyday. Even the most honest person "lies" sometimes (now this is an irony). It's a normal thing. But even so, it hurts most especially when the one you least expect does it to you. Right? Just let them do what they do. Ignore them. But! If...

27 Jan 10

78th monthsary!

shylade @shylade (3132) • Philippines 27 Jan 10

its our 78th monthsary today (18th months of our marriage)... happy monthsary to the man i love so much. just barely 6 months and our first baby will be with us.. our blessing from God. anyone who still celebrate their...

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kat_isobal Congratulations on such a wonderful milestone in your marriage. Truly, there is nothing greater than fulfilling a lifetime of dreams with the person you love. My boyfriend and I just celebrated our 41st monthsary (3 years and 5 months). I hope our love...

27 Jan 10

Do You Get up Early in the Morning

monojdhole @monojdhole (200) • India 26 Jan 10

"Early to bed and early to rise makes a man health, wealthy and wise. Always early and never late, that's the way to be great." I not only believe these words but also follow them in true sense. I always get up early in the...

early rise

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kat_isobal It's always nice to wake up before everybody else does. Why? You get to see a lot of things, things the people who wake up really late miss. The sunrise, the scent of morning air, even the "vibe" you feel as you take time to enjoy the wonderful scenery you get...

27 Jan 10

What do you do most on the weekend ?

CuteBen @CuteBen (3) • Indonesia 23 Jan 10

Saturday and Sunday is a holiday, many ways to spend on the weekend. I prefer to spend my weekend at home, watching tv, or surf the internet.Sometimes I also want to take vacation. What do you do most on the weekend ? Just sleep,...

weekend hobby hobbies

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kat_isobal chill. everyday seems like a holiday, for me. hahaha!

25 Jan 10

never fall in love

iqbal21 @iqbal21 (1) • Bangladesh 8 Jan 10

i m 27 years old.i had an affair.but she broke my heart.so now i feel that, love is nothing but a pain.

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kat_isobal just coz u got hurt by one person doesn't mean a new love will do the same to you. ok? it's a matter of how u manage ur relationship, u know.

25 Jan 10

Does success translate into happiness?

anish92 @anish92 (172) • India 19 Nov 09

In your daily life does being successful in an endeavor necessarily mean being happy?

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kat_isobal definitely not! success may be achieved by anyone, anytime, even in the simplest things. but happiness is only up to you.

19 Nov 09

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Cry with someone it's more healing than crying alone....

rorisricha @rorisricha (732) • India 19 Nov 09

I feel that when we are sad in life different situations make us to cry.....but some times we feel like sharing it with some one....best friend...who ever it may be a best friend u feel in your life....If we burst out with them we...

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kat_isobal it definitely is!

19 Nov 09

Do you beleive in life after death?

edquilangnovemia @edquilangnovemia (16) • Philippines 19 Nov 09

My grandma remind me to "do better ways while you are alive because a reward is waiting efter life".

life after death

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kat_isobal in fact, i do. i haven't experienced it, but who knows? we will get to see if it is really true at the right time.

19 Nov 09

Old friends are better than new friends..

edquilangnovemia @edquilangnovemia (16) • Philippines 19 Nov 09

I read in the bible that says "do not discard an old friend for the new one cannot equal him,, a new friend is like a new wine which you drink with pleasure only when it has aged." What do you think??

new friends

old friends

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kat_isobal it actually depends on the kind of friends you have. friends, whether old or new, will only matter of they are true to you.(wow! what a rhyme!) but seriously, some new friends are for keeps too, though they don't really measure up to the old ones. friends you...

19 Nov 09

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Who is the Best Listener in Your Life?

getbrowser @getbrowser (1708) • China 18 Nov 09

The sorrow and happiness are twins popping in and out in your life one after the other. Whichever comes, you have no other choice but to face the music. No one can live in purely sad or happy life. Therefore, we have both...

friendship

listener

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kat_isobal the best listener in my life is GOD. you don't see him in the flesh, but you know he's there. you can see him in your family, in your friends, just surrounding you, keeping you company day by day. he works subtly, but his works are majestic.

19 Nov 09

What is Your Attitude towards Cyber Love?

getbrowser @getbrowser (1708) • China 18 Nov 09

Some people hold the idea that the cyber love is as pretty as the fascinating dream in which we are unwilling to wake up. But on the other hand, some others say cyber love is so virtual that it is impossible to win the lover's...

cyber love

love

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kat_isobal cyber love is okay as long as it is brought to reality.

19 Nov 09

How would you tell your partner that you don't love him/her anymore?

mielshare @mielshare (265) • Philippines 18 Nov 09

I have this friend and he asked me this question and from then on, I keep on thinking how but I can't figure out what way he should do. He's been with his girlfriend for quite a long time. My friend said that he is getting...

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kat_isobal there's just no easy way in telling someone you're not "in love" with him anymore.. heartaches nowadays are as NORMAL as our daily experiences. though it takes a great deal of courage to face up to that person and tell him or her how you really feel, it takes...

19 Nov 09

Dreams become reality if you belive in them

smartjack @smartjack (520) • India 18 Nov 09

I recently read a book called 'THE SECRET'. Its an amazing book that talks about 'thoughts'. I was shocked when I first read the book. It is actually true what it says. Whatever you think and believe, it actually happens in your...

dreams

thoughts

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kat_isobal is this book the one which has a movie version? the one with the orange/brown cover? i have a dvd on this. havent read the book, though.

19 Nov 09

how healthy relations you maintain with your family

letssstalk @letssstalk (285) • India 9 Nov 09

Today every second family have to face conflict, problems,tensions because of finacial between family. If you earn a strong income per month and live seperate with your own family . but suddenly one day you come to know that your...

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kat_isobal Family will always be family. No matter what you go through in life, you will always belong to a family and no problem, no difficulty, no struggle, and no person can ever change that. Challenges may arise, but you'll be surprised to see yourself, someday, even...

9 Nov 09

What is Love & why people suffer for it?

akashvermabba @akashvermabba (158) • India 9 Nov 09

Love is a affection, every person love to his blood or we say that father love his son, teacher love his or her student, a husband love his wife

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kat_isobal Love is more than a feeling. It's doing good to someone even if that person isn't doing any good to you (i learned this from a Filipino movie). =) Love is something you give without expecting something in return. It's voluntary, and it's best given with...

9 Nov 09