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kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 13 Mar 09

My husband and I both have jobs, and we both receive our salaries weekly. I work at home doing transcriptions and data entry and I earn double the amount that my husband gets from his job. He used to be fine with it but then as...

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kayefedilo21 i agree with you when you said money is the most popular reason why marriages split up. i try not to let it affect us but you know how men think sometimes. do you think i should keep from him the actual amount that i'm earning just so it won't hurt his ego? i...

13 Mar 09

kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

im normally happy when it comes to my marriage. sure we have our own set of problems but nothing that can't be solved. however, there's a sad part to being a wife and that for me is the lack of appreciation. i never claimed to be...

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kayefedilo21 i agree with you. but you know what's making the situation worse? i'm not just a mere housewife, i also bring in money into the household. i am a work at home wife and in fact i bring in more money than he gets from his work. the money that is being used for...

13 Mar 09

kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

im normally happy when it comes to my marriage. sure we have our own set of problems but nothing that can't be solved. however, there's a sad part to being a wife and that for me is the lack of appreciation. i never claimed to be...

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kayefedilo21 Thank you so much for your comment and advice. I'm actually overwhelmed by all the responses that I received from starting this discussion. And I'm glad that I started this because I have gotten a lot of good advice and kind words of support and I really...

13 Mar 09

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kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

im normally happy when it comes to my marriage. sure we have our own set of problems but nothing that can't be solved. however, there's a sad part to being a wife and that for me is the lack of appreciation. i never claimed to be...

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kayefedilo21 It's hard isn't all? A little appreciation is all we need but the sad reality is most of the times, we don't get it. A lot of people had told me to talk to my husband about what he has been doing to me, explain to him what I'm feeling and why I am feeling that...

13 Mar 09

kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

im normally happy when it comes to my marriage. sure we have our own set of problems but nothing that can't be solved. however, there's a sad part to being a wife and that for me is the lack of appreciation. i never claimed to be...

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kayefedilo21 Thank you so much for your kind words and prayers. It's exactly what I need right now. I do hope that God opens up my husbands eyes and would start appreciating me for who I am and what I do. Like I said, I don't gifts, a simple "thank you" would be enough. I...

13 Mar 09

kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 4 Mar 09

A few months back, my husband and I had a really big fight about money. This weas because I lied to him about the payment for our auto loan. Bad me, I know! This was because a few months before that, I started not paying for the...

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kayefedilo21 Wow! $150? Wish I could pick up something like that in my husbands trash too! LOL! Anyway, I don't think there's anything wrong with what you did. If I was in your position I would have done the same thing. The fact that you asked your husband if he was sure...

4 Mar 09

kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 4 Mar 09

A few months back, my husband and I had a really big fight about money. This weas because I lied to him about the payment for our auto loan. Bad me, I know! This was because a few months before that, I started not paying for the...

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kayefedilo21 It's nice to know that you were able to straighten it out, fortunately I'll be able to settle mine soon. You're right, it's always good to have your own money. My mom also told me that I should take money our from my paycheck also to keep for myself and not...

4 Mar 09

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