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kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 13 Mar 09

My husband and I both have jobs, and we both receive our salaries weekly. I work at home doing transcriptions and data entry and I earn double the amount that my husband gets from his job. He used to be fine with it but then as...

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cher913 i did when we first got married, then of course, we decided to have kids and i stayed home with them and have only been working part time ever since. we never minded because money was not an issue with us at all. they say money is the most popular reason why...

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kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

im normally happy when it comes to my marriage. sure we have our own set of problems but nothing that can't be solved. however, there's a sad part to being a wife and that for me is the lack of appreciation. i never claimed to be...

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kiran8 Hi kayefedilo, i totally agree with your views. However i can tell you that many husbands are like that of yours. They take their wives for granted, more so when the wife is a MERE housewife,not bringing in any money into the household, little realising the...

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kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

im normally happy when it comes to my marriage. sure we have our own set of problems but nothing that can't be solved. however, there's a sad part to being a wife and that for me is the lack of appreciation. i never claimed to be...

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Ritchelle maybe he makes up in other ways. that is the reason why we should always do what we love. i mean, in hurtful situations we should never say i gave up this and that for this and that. that was your decision and any regrets that accompanies your decision...

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kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

im normally happy when it comes to my marriage. sure we have our own set of problems but nothing that can't be solved. however, there's a sad part to being a wife and that for me is the lack of appreciation. i never claimed to be...

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spalladino In a way I'm lucky because my husband lost his late wife suddenly to cancer when she was 50 years old after 32 years of marriage. He knows how precious life is and, because of the terrible loss he suffered, he never takes me for granted. Every day that we are...

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kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

im normally happy when it comes to my marriage. sure we have our own set of problems but nothing that can't be solved. however, there's a sad part to being a wife and that for me is the lack of appreciation. i never claimed to be...

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the_dutchess Well, I think you and your husband needs to talk seriously about that. There's nothing like a good conversation and pray that things will end up well. Seems like you're taken for granted a lot. If your husband really loves you, tell him that you could use a...

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kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

im normally happy when it comes to my marriage. sure we have our own set of problems but nothing that can't be solved. however, there's a sad part to being a wife and that for me is the lack of appreciation. i never claimed to be...

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Margajoe Hi, welcome to My Lot. Yes, I think a lot of us know this feeling. Men think different then we do. They don't see anything wrong with there actions. That is why we women need to make ourselves clear. We need to let them know they are making us feel like...

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kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

im normally happy when it comes to my marriage. sure we have our own set of problems but nothing that can't be solved. however, there's a sad part to being a wife and that for me is the lack of appreciation. i never claimed to be...

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mkchaves I am not married yet, but I am in a 3 year relationship. We have been through the hard times, i mean literally the HARD times. But, sometimes, I just... I feel I am not appreciated or I am TAken for granted. I don't usually get Thank You a lot and when I do, i...

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kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 9 Mar 09

im normally happy when it comes to my marriage. sure we have our own set of problems but nothing that can't be solved. however, there's a sad part to being a wife and that for me is the lack of appreciation. i never claimed to be...

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cream97 Hi, kayefedilo21! I am very sorry that you are being taken for granted in your marriage. I have been in your shoes many times. But now, my husband eyes are opened and he sees that I am really good to him. He loves me and he appreciates everything that I do for...

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stacyv81 @stacyv81 (5903) • United States 28 Feb 09

We as parents have all made mistakes, no doubt, and we will probably continue to, but in your mind what would be the biggest parenting no no. Something you feel you should never do as a parent....and why?

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regal_aeros @regal_aeros (2605) • Singapore 6 Mar 09

Well my mum sizes my friends up when she sees them. Meaning, from one's overall outlook to the way he / she talks and behaves, my mum would somehow categorize them into group. And mostly into, good friends vs bad friends. And...

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kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 4 Mar 09

A few months back, my husband and I had a really big fight about money. This weas because I lied to him about the payment for our auto loan. Bad me, I know! This was because a few months before that, I started not paying for the...

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tav_8164 I have lied about having money in the past. The situation was that we were packing our things to move and going thru stuff and throwing alot of things away. Well, I was in charge of packing things while he went thru some papers. He was throwing all the trash...

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davebrown64 @davebrown64 (443) • United States 3 Mar 09

For me and my family, these are truly hard, trying times. I am not saying that we are out on the streets, yet, we are hanging on by our fingernails. I am living with my elderly mother who has a blood disorder which could lead to...

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kayefedilo21 @kayefedilo21 (22) • Philippines 4 Mar 09

A few months back, my husband and I had a really big fight about money. This weas because I lied to him about the payment for our auto loan. Bad me, I know! This was because a few months before that, I started not paying for the...

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sscott0865 Yes sorry to say I was in that position also. We fell behind on bills, and I paid what I could. I did get it straightened out, and also I started taking money out of my paycheck and putting it into an account that the husband didnt know about. Well so glad I...

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lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 4 Mar 09

On Monday that was the start of this new week, my table lamp went down. I felt almost as blind as a bat that had lost its ears. So I went all over the place looking for the replacement tubes but nowhere could they be found. So...

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djemba I hate it when my monitor brightness is too high I feel they really torture your eyes and I find it bugging especially when the surrounding light is dim as they affect the eyes adversely I feel i know it because it has resulted in my eyes being bleary....

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lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 4 Mar 09

On Monday that was the start of this new week, my table lamp went down. I felt almost as blind as a bat that had lost its ears. So I went all over the place looking for the replacement tubes but nowhere could they be found. So...

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joyce959 I had never adjusted the brightness of my laptop monitor so probably it is on its default setting when I bought it. Aside from that, I don't know how to adjust the brightness of the monitor but I am satisfied at its setting now. Right now the...

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lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 4 Mar 09

On Monday that was the start of this new week, my table lamp went down. I felt almost as blind as a bat that had lost its ears. So I went all over the place looking for the replacement tubes but nowhere could they be found. So...

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sandhyanair123 hahahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahahaha...... brightness??? dont ask me about my monitor....!! i m writing this post with only one colour ...greenish colour...!!! there is some problem with my monitor..... i have lost the red and blue colour of my...

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lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 4 Mar 09

On Monday that was the start of this new week, my table lamp went down. I felt almost as blind as a bat that had lost its ears. So I went all over the place looking for the replacement tubes but nowhere could they be found. So...

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MysD Hi wizard! I had to go and check and as I thought it is set to just under at 48. The contrast is also more towards dark than light. I don't like bright lights staring at me. I prefer dimmed lights. I have a lamp on a shelf above me slightly to the right but...

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lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 4 Mar 09

On Monday that was the start of this new week, my table lamp went down. I felt almost as blind as a bat that had lost its ears. So I went all over the place looking for the replacement tubes but nowhere could they be found. So...

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Lakota12 I do have a bright monitor but I alo like to use the over head light it helps make the whole room bright! also much easier on the eyes never tried an extra lamp wouldnt know where to put it on my desk lol

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lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 4 Mar 09

On Monday that was the start of this new week, my table lamp went down. I felt almost as blind as a bat that had lost its ears. So I went all over the place looking for the replacement tubes but nowhere could they be found. So...

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whyaskq I guess I will get uninvited glares if I were to sit in front of your computer. I would be putting on sunglasses. . For me, the brightness is always the lowest until cannot go lower. In fact, the contrast is high too to fight the glaring. Guess I...

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lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 4 Mar 09

On Monday that was the start of this new week, my table lamp went down. I felt almost as blind as a bat that had lost its ears. So I went all over the place looking for the replacement tubes but nowhere could they be found. So...

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