KellyMate

@KellyMate (361)

Age 33

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Do you prefer Long hair or Short hair and why?

OOHCUTE2340 @OOHCUTE2340 (761) • United States 11 Jan 09

Hi mylotters, I prefer long hair, I have beautiful brown hair that stops just about six inches below my waist. I prefe it long because it is so versatile to work with, I can wear up or down. I can do so many hair-styles from cute...

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KellyMate My hair is currently mid length, but I cannot wait until it grows to a really long length! I love having long hair, it is easier to manage to be honest! And my boyfriend likes my hair curly, but at the moment when its curly it goes as short as to my shoulders,...

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Will you compromise?

bhanusb @bhanusb (5709) • India 11 Jan 09

You believe some particular thing.But your friend does not.Will you argue with him and come to a compromise?Or will you stick to your point?.

argue

compromise

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KellyMate In my opinion, We should always stand up for what we believe in. Theres no point in changing our minds, because thats not truly believing in something is it? x

11 Jan 09

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Am I crazy?

Haloman @Haloman (122) • United States 10 Jan 09

is it just me or does it seem like holidays aren't like they used to be... i remember being a kid and getting so excited for christmas and easter and stuff that i couldn't even sleep the night before the day came. now it just...

crazy

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KellyMate I totally understand! This past christmas wasnt exciting for me, it seems like the novelty has worn off a bit, might be because we dont believe in santa anymore :) x

10 Jan 09

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does anybody here still keeps diaries? or still writing on their diaries?

poisonivez @poisonivez (504) • Norway 10 Jan 09

I had my diary and I stopped writing since college. But I still kept my diary until last year. I have to destroy it and throw it away because the lock is already broken and there would be a high tendency that someone might read...

stock

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KellyMate Oh no :( I Experienced the sort of same thing and I wouldn't wish that on anybody else. I was sexually abused by a friends father and I wrote down all of my feelings for about 3 months, because I was a wreck, and in High School somebody found my book and read...

10 Jan 09

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True friends, how many hands does it take to count them?

robthir @robthir (4) • United States 10 Jan 09

Long ago when I was just a kid, I remember some grownups saying you could count true friends on one hand. I really refused to believe that statement for a long time. But here I am, all the way grown up and it doesn't even take a...

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KellyMate I have two best friends! My best friend who moved to another country, so i dont see her a lot, and my boyfriend. There's nobody else I can trust with problems, Im not exactly close to my mother or anything! Yes, one hand only! x

10 Jan 09

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How are you guys handling this recession?

Monica @momoftwingirls (859) • United States 10 Jan 09

Do you find you are not spending the money you used to? Do you not see any change, yet? Have you or your friends lost their jobs? How about your home? Is your home safe from foreclosure? It is sad seeing what our nation is...

foreclosure

handling recession

home safe

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KellyMate Obama cant fix it! I havent been affected by the recession, but ive started saving lately so that ive always got spare money incase i need it. My father lost his job recently, so hes moving countries to get more new work :( x

10 Jan 09

IDEAS...for PATCH UP !!

seethenightmare @seethenightmare (228) • India 10 Jan 09

i had a quarrel with my Girl friend for my late coming to the shopping mall last week...she is too upset for this incidence...i want to patch up again with her...what you do when you are in the same situation??

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KellyMate Yes i agree with the first responder, be the bigger person, and do something nice just to remind her that you do care, its not your fault you were late and you can be romantic! Buy her a small gift, like a necklace or something and an 'Im sorry' card my...

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How do you say no with out hurting her feelings?

Haloman @Haloman (122) • United States 10 Jan 09

alright so the story here is... I just got out of a relationship with a girl who basically ran my life for the last year or so. it's been 3 weeks and I am really starting to enjoy my freedom BUT, i met a few girls about a week and...

jump

jump 5

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KellyMate I think that you should be aware that you arent giving her any signals that you might like her in that way. So then if you say to her that your not at the right place for a relationship right now, then she cant turn it around on you and say something like ' oh...

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Do you have a sister?

@mayka123 @mayka123 (16604) • India 3 Jul 08

And if so does she live with you or is she married and staying far away from you. How is your relationship with her now? I have two sisters and both of them are married. We hardly get a chance to meet each other. I think just a...

married

relationship

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KellyMate I have 2 sisters, but their half-sisters. They both live with their mother. One is 8 and one is 16. Im very close to the 16 year old, and we have nearly the same names!! Me being Kelly, and her Keely! I love my younger sister to pieces though! Shes wonderful!...

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3 years! :)

thathalazarini @thathalazarini (486) • Brazil 12 Aug 08

Yay, I'm dating my boyfriend for 3 years now :D How about you? How long have you been dating?

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KellyMate WOW! Well done you! 3 years :O:O Makes my relationship sound rubbish lol! nearly 6 months for me and my bf!

12 Aug 08

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I am confused- JOB / HUSBAND??? Whom should i choose?

karjyo @karjyo (830) • India 7 Aug 08

Hi,i am teaching in a school. Its been more than one year in this school. The school and colleges are good, salary is decent and i have got an increment too.The problem is that my husband is going for training for around three...

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KellyMate I think you should stay with your job, Because your in a happy position. And if you cant get another job, then you lose out on money, which wont help you. Obviously you and your husband love each other. And as you work at a school, you can go and visit him...

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Love Handles

diutay @diutay (1327) • Philippines 2 Aug 08

I've got a spare tire on my waist...since I changed jobs, my I've led a more sedentary lifestyle which caused me to expand especially around my waistline. One of my friends told me that I look like I'm several months pregnant when...

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KellyMate Belly dancing is fantastic for working the hips, waist and thighs! You can even buy home workouts for bellydancing, i have like 4 lol and their all fun. But I recently bought a Salsa dancing Dvd workout, and I must say it is great fun. Im looking to tone my...

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Shop early or later?

SomeCowgirl @SomeCowgirl (32191) • United States 2 Aug 08

In your own humble opinion, who do you believe is a smarter shopper. One who shops for gifts months prior to Christmas or one who does the last minute shopping? I know that there are usually deals on the day before Christmas Day....

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KellyMate shopping annoys me soo much, so i have to go out and do it all early! when it gets too crowded i get too stressed!

2 Aug 08

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another year older.....

Robyn @floridachick (603) • United States 2 Aug 08

my son just turned 5 yesterday, where has the time gone? my youngest will be turning 2 very soon, I can't believe that they are getting so big so quick. my oldest is in kindergarten. he got a cake, bike, some coloring books,...

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KellyMate Aww bless! My Boy loves spiderman too! Hes soo obsessed with him :)

2 Aug 08

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The guys from which country are the most handsome, girls?

Hayley_N @Hayley_N (525) • Argentina 2 Aug 08

I think British men are!

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KellyMate Oh Yes! I soo agree :) British men :)

2 Aug 08

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My back hurts

Turhamkey @Turhamkey (64) • United States 2 Aug 08

I fell asleep last night with my back feeling fine, but when i woke up it hurt like crazy... any ideas how i might fix it?

iuch my back hurts sleep woke up gah this sucks

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KellyMate Oh dear :( *Hugs* If I were you id get somebody to massage your back for you! And make sure you totally relax! I get back pain sometimes, it might have been that you slept in an awkward position, it can be fixed :) With a massage. When I get my backpain my...

2 Aug 08

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It's summer time...

diutay @diutay (1327) • Philippines 2 Aug 08

It's summer time in other countries. So while I can hear the sound of heavy rain in my place, sweltering heat is endured by people in other places. If you're in one of those countries where it's so hot, hot, hot...what do you do...

drinks

season

summer

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KellyMate Its soo hot right now in the UK!! Im not sure where your from lol! But Water is the best drink obviously, but I prefer a nice refreshing glass of diet coke with a slice of lime and ice :) Yumm!!

2 Aug 08

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