kjc1981

@kjc1981 (45)

United States • Age 43

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Fairy tales

catbvq @catbvq (364) • Philippines 31 May 07

Fairy tales have been part of everyone's childhood, it has been one of our bedtime story favorite, but what do fairy tales teach? Should we introduce fairy tales to the next generation, our children? Do we get bad lessons from...

fairy tales

parenting

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kjc1981 i think fairy tales teach imagination and i think its plays a very important role in a childs life and its fun and to hear the fairy tales they come up with are even greater than telling them to my chilren!

1 Jun 07

How old do you think a kid should move from a crib to a small bed?

mada9898 @mada9898 (193) • United States 31 May 07

I am not an expert on kids but I want to know when one should buy a bed with safety bars on them so my 2 year old can move to a bed instead of a crib. How old do you think that she should be before switching over to a bed? Help...

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kjc1981 i personally think it depends on the child but with my son i did it when he was 2 years old but with my daughter i dont think she will be ready at 2yrs old but shes aliot further behind than my son was at her age!

1 Jun 07

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How do you make your kids follow rules even when you are not around?

michele_villasenor @michele_villasenor (624) • Philippines 2 May 07

I want to raise a responsible child. Sounds easy but I know that I will have to work hard on this. I want my daughter to know the rules and understand the reasons behind them. I think that way she will have a better appreciation...

discipline

parenthood

raising a kid

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kjc1981 i tell my son that all mommys have eyes every where and they can see everything bad you do it seems to work he always tells his friends no my mom wont like that or my mommy's always watching!

1 Jun 07

Hamster?

bluewishes @bluewishes (143) • Philippines 31 May 07

I never had a hamster but I wanted to try take care this kind of pet.. What are the positive and negative experiences that you have with this pet? Please share... thanks! ^_^

hamster

pets

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kjc1981 i have had many hamsters and the positives are:their easy to take care of,there cute and fuzzy,you can teach them tricks some negatives are:they could get out of the cage,well thats all i have to say for negotives but dont get one if you have a dog or cat one...

1 Jun 07

What to do when your sister used to follow all the steps/things that you have.

olyngurl @olyngurl (149) • Philippines 1 Jun 07

i have a younger sister. she's 5 years younger than i. she used to imitate me. she's my bogus.. all the things that i have she wants to have it also.. whatever i like she likes it too even the smallesst thing.. can you advise...

bogus

gap age

idol sister

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kjc1981 im six years younger than my sister growing up i always wanted to be like her listen to the same music or were the same clothes but i grew out of it but still to this day i look up to my big sis very much!!! i think that you should take it as a compliment and...

1 Jun 07

what does LOL mean?

huangtyantyan @huangtyantyan (97) • Philippines 27 May 07

almost every messages that I received are with "lol' written, what does it really mean? does it irritate you like me? I really dont get it why people say that word....it sounds like something else...

friends

lol

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kjc1981 it means laugh out loud and it annoys me but i just think its retarded i grew up doin' haha not lol or some people will put lmao which means laughing my a** off i think thats stupid too dont really know why i dont like that one i guess for the same reason.

1 Jun 07

can ur friend bcome ur lover

JYOTHICHOWDARY @JYOTHICHOWDARY (232) • India 1 Jun 07

hi friend in many cases i say the situvations where a guy and girl r first friends then bcame lovers is that correct?did u have such experiense

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kjc1981 it is very well possible the father of my kids was my best friend first in 6th grade was when we became friends and we got together when we were 15 yrs old and were together for almost 9 years i still consider him to be one of my best friends i know that i'll...

1 Jun 07

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You know the folds of skin on baby's neck?

1hipmomma @1hipmomma (53) • United States 1 Jun 07

Try as I might to keep it clean and dry, my 2 month old's neck always seems to be red and irritated. What can I put on her skin to keep it from chapping? I've thought about putting Desitin...

baby

irritated

skin

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kjc1981 when my daughter was in the hospital she had that problem they gave her nyastatin powder so maybe ask your docter for some of that it would have it cleared up in no time.

1 Jun 07

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Auntie

glowwy @glowwy (93) • United States 26 Apr 07

I have a question for all aunties out there? Do your nieces or nephews call you aunt before your name or not?

aunties

name

nephews

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kjc1981 all of my nieces and nephews call me aunt katy and my kids call theres aunt before there name too

31 May 07

How many children are enough?

feixinggaolu @feixinggaolu (20) • China 17 May 07

I have one daughter. But the country which I live give only one limitation. One means loney. It cause a lot of problem to my daughter. As your experience, how many and how to give my daughter brother or sister?

children

number

way

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kjc1981 im a strong believer that god doesnt give you anything you cant handle so i belive its how ever many god blessed you with could be one two three or maybe even ten or more!!!!

31 May 07

friend & best friend...

spik_manoda @spik_manoda (193) • Sri Lanka 31 May 07

what s the diffrence between a friend and the best friend???

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kjc1981 i believe that a friend is some one you are social with but careful with a best friend without a doubt is some one you can spill your guts to knowing their there to listen and be supportive no matter what the case might be and they can do the same with you!!!

31 May 07

Why is your best friend the best?

tonixxx @tonixxx (358) 31 May 07

I want to know why you acredited your best friends with their title. Are they honest, supportive and caring, or just fun to be around?

friend

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kjc1981 i call her my best friend cause we've gotten each other through alot of hard times, only we together can truely understand eachother when no one else can i really believe we're soulmates she earned the title of my best friend years ago and it will always be...

31 May 07

Do you get along with your sibling(s)?

kiddygurl @kiddygurl (803) • Singapore 29 Apr 07

For me, I would say so-so... I don't have huge quarrels with my brother/sister, but I wouldn't say that I am very close to them as well.. I always think that my older brother and my younger sister do get along with each other...

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kjc1981 i have two half brothers one half sis and one real sis my half sibs and i arent very close in fact see eachother only 1 or 2 times a year but me and my big sis get along great ive always looked up to her as long as i can remember she looks out for me in such a...

31 May 07

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My sister is stealing my dreams...help me

kyomboii10 @kyomboii10 (46) • Philippines 21 May 07

My sister and I have been enemies since childhood, when we even learned how to fight in our taekwondo classes..she kicked me! HARRRDDDD very very HARDDDD But after highschool, we became good friends, even if im the younger one,...

is it right for me to hate her

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kjc1981 no dont hate her maybe tell her how you feel but dont hate her life is too short for hate and you shouldnt take her for granted sisters is a very magnificant thing the bond two sisters share is unbreakable hang in there your dreams will come true just have...

31 May 07

Faith's Story

cowgrl_luv79 @cowgrl_luv79 (41) • United States 27 May 07

My 2 year old daughter was born with kidney disease. She is so strong and such a lil fighter!! She has been in and out of the Hospital almost 20 times in her little life and has had 7 surgeries. I almost lost her several times,...

2 year old

child

kidney disease

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kjc1981 i found out my daughter had two wholes in her heart when she was 1 month she had open heart surgery when she was 2 months old going through something like that made me relize not to take things for granted too its hard to go through something like that in and...

31 May 07

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Do you beleive in spanking?

MWilliams216 @MWilliams216 (79) • United States 28 May 07

Do you believe in spanking your child? Do you think it is abuse? Have you ever spanked? If so, for what?

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kjc1981 yes i believe in spanking for the right reasons, abuse not unless took to far yes i have spanked for, throwing things at people and one day my five year old stuck his foot in his year old sisters mouth never with a belt or anything and only on the butt.

31 May 07

have you ever smiled at your baby's dream?

rainbow2007star @rainbow2007star (920) 21 May 07

When my baby fall a sleep I look at him and sometimes I can't stop my self by smileing with him.He looks so in peace and so without trouble. I am so glad to have him. What about you? do you think the baby dream about angels?

smiled at your babys dream

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kjc1981 yes i do!!! they havent got a care in the world i have a picture of my daughter smiling in her sleep when she was two weeks old i love that picture i cant help but smile every time i look at it!!

31 May 07

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Love

2babita @2babita (1072) • India 25 May 07

Would you love your girl child equally as your boy child?

i love you

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kjc1981 of coarse i have a son and a daughter and i definatly love them both equally though they both have there perfect place my son is my sunshine and my daughter is my katybug i would do any thing for either of them there my world

31 May 07